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Well, I'm 17..I get my licence in a couple months. I'm a junior at my school. I also cheer for my school and i am in a cheer tumbling class. I absolutely love Anthony Fedorov. My cell phone is amazing and i
E-mail: BabyPrincez4@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Junior at PHS, C.W.
Age: 17
AIM: BabyPrincez4
Member Since: July 29, 2004
Answers: 28
Last Update: May 24, 2005
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well i'm in the 8th grade and 14 years old.. this is my 2nd year at the school i am now and ive met alottt of friends, boy and girl, there is this boy is my homeroom and study hall and his name is ryan.. we've been good friends since 7th grade and we even dated for a little while during the summer.. lately i think that i started to have feelings for him and hes been giving me alot of attention.. hes always giving me hugs, writes me notes, and for example today he like rushed to get the seat behind me in study hall and he was like giving me massages and playing with my hair and taking pictures of me on his camera phone.. i really dont know if he was flirting with me or was just being friendly.. but then i was going through his cell phone today and saw text messages from this other girl that says like i love you and stuff.. i know that hes not with her cuz this other girl has a boyfriend.. but im just really confused right now.. can someone give me some advice on this situation? (link)
He's a player. I know a kid like him in my grade. and it's def. not worth it at all. u'll find better guyz


I have this job, it's pretty stupid, but I hold a sign that says "Hot-N-Ready $5" for a pizza place. Anyways, I'm starting to think that the people I work with don't really respect me enough.
For example, on Good Friday, I get a phonecall from them asking me if I can work from 4-6. I say okay, and I change my easter dinner plans with my family. Well, fifteen minutes before my shift starts, I got a phonecall from them telling me I don't need to come in. The fact that they don't respect me enough to let me know earlier or to just let me come in and work the two stupid hours like I planned really pissed me off.
I had been looking for reasons to quit, because after working there for two months, I was still always working outside, and I had expected to be working inside with more hours. So, the other day, I went in, and asked if my manager would be coming in today, and the other lady was like "No, why?" and I just said "well, I need to talk to her." The other woman kept on insisting that I tell her what I need to talk to her about, so I did, and I told her I was really pissed off, and so was my family. So, she went ahead and told me all this crap about how they love me there and think I'm a "great team member". So, I didn't end up quitting, and I'm waiting until my manager comes back. They kind of go through workers pretty quickly, but I've had it.

Do you think I should quit or what? Should I just forget about it and move on and hope things get better? (link)
if u really don't like it...quit. but first find another job...so ur never short on money! hey, n maybe the next job will pay better


i moved like a year ago, and everytime i try to get together with my old friends they come up with some lame excuse. i dont know what to think. (link)
stop tryin for awhile, if they wanna chill w/ u..they'll call. if not...hang out w/ some new friends


ok my sister's 16 birthday is coming up! i want to get her something special beacuse ...u know its her 16! but i dont no wut to get her!
any suggestions!
i rate high!

thanks! (link)
yea i'm gonna go w/ the nice necklace or bracelet...maybe there is one that she already wants...or u could get her like cell phone accessories or car accessories. something real kewl would be a scrapbook/photo album...i think that would be the best overall. good luck!


i have this friend lets call her jay. jay liked this boy ((lets call him P)) her and P used to go out but he broke up with her because she was to slow. (well cuz she never kissed him) but he still loved her and she still loved him so they were just talking for a while and they kissed a few times to. he finally decided he wanted her back. but thats wen she went to a dance and started dancing with some boy ((lets call him E)) well she sorta got a crush on E i guess because wen she came to school the next day she had i love E on her hand. well that was the day P was gonna ask her out. but she made me tell P she sed no so i did and i could tell he was hurt. now she is obsesed with E and he is 11 and she is 13. how do i tell her that she made a big mistake and that she is dumb by choicing a 11 year old? how do i tell her that w.o hurting her feelings? (link)
uh?? maybe she didn't make a mistake...but word to the other comment


okay. so i like this kid and hes not the hottest kid ever k? but hes so so so nice! and he has like the best personality. I also kinda like this other kid who is my friends cousin and hes fricken hot and he has a good personality too...except sometimes hes mean to some people and like yea...but his personality is okay. SO i have NO clue who to choose. Its SO hard and they are both awesome...the hot one asked me out yesterday and i said i'd think about it and the great personality one asked me out this morning...so what do i do? plz help!!!

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all i have to say is looks arn't everything..but go for the one u like best


ok, well i cut. and i dont want to hear the "oh dont do that! blah blah blah" im really trying to stop and i dont need anyone to be pressuring me right now. but anyways..i usually cut on my shoulders so no one can see and so that i dont kill myself. but the other day i cut my wrist. and i mean, i wanted to, but i didnt want it to bleed...and i didnt even push hard. i just ran it slightly across the skin. and it just started bleeding. im fine and everything, but is that normal? like is the skin just really delicate there or something? (link)
yea it prob. is normal..u usually don't have much skin there. u'd be better off cutting ur shoulder. not saying u should though. but if u cut ur wrist u may hit a vain too and then u would bleed to death and that wouldn't be kewl. so juss cut bak on cutting urself.


okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months.. the thing is.. he recently went on vacation for a week and he just got back last night and we only talked for a 1/2 hour this morning from the whole week and he didn't sound happy but he said he had a good time.. plus he didn't sound like he wanted to talk to me and he was grumpy so we got off the phone i said i would talk to him later. Ever since i have been trying to call him ALL day and hes not picking up his phone. His dad did once and i told him to have him call me back but he never did.. i tried callin till 11.. now i think hes gunna dump me!?.. one friend told me he thinks its cuz hes bored.. cuz we haven't made out yet.. but i don't think thats it.. but now im afraid next time i talk to him he'll dump me.. i really love him!
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well u need to try and get a hold of him n have a talk w/ him. if he says he's still into u then everything will hopefully be fine. if he doesnt really answer u or avoids u then he juss sux..ur too good for him...good luck!


Some times I feel like my parents don't love me. My sibling always make fun of me. My family always says they wish I'd run away. I have tried to kill myself before. but my mom and my friend came into my room so I had to come out of the closet. I don't know if they noticed but I had a thin red line across my neck. I don't wanna die but sometimes I feel it's the only way to get my family to love me. please help! (link)
i'm so sry to hear that. first off though, ur parents should prob. pay more attention. i'm sure they love you though..maybe they r busy? killing urself won't help much though. and would u really wanna die and have people cry b/c u killed urself..idk but i wouldn't want people to cry if they don't have to..and 2nd, don't u want to see how ur life will be once u get outta that house and live on ur own? well think bout that..good luck!


I'm 13 (turnin 14 in early september), I'm around 5'6, and I weigh 114 or sometimes 116. I'm also very skinny but I still feel there is extra weight on me. I wanna lose about 10 pounds before school starts but I dont wanna exercise because I dont have any exercise machines and there isnt a gym or YMCA nearby. I've tried doing sit ups and crunches but they never help. Does anybody know any foods, drinks, etc. that will help me lose about 10 pounds?

Thanks (link)
omgosh..u def. should not want to loose ne weight. u can stay in shape though by lifting and running


any body have any sites that hase journal free and qestions goes with? I want start journal for school starts (link)
xanga.com...it's hot!


how can i get mucles AND FAST! i wanna be strong and athleic-lookin! pla help with some quick and easy work-outs that will help me be a muscle woman in no time (JK!!)
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lift weights and run


what does metro-sexual mean? (link)
it's when you act gay but are straight...like, some people say ryan secrest is metro


Im 5'0 and 13, and I weigh around 115, is that fat? (link)
no ur bmi is in the normal weight category


my b/f's birthday is in the middle of august.. should i get him something since weve only been goin out 4 a lil while (a month)? if so, what in the world do i get him?! (link)
don't spend too much on him. i'd say a card and a cd or sumthing. or get a picture frame, decorate it and put a pic of u's in it


I just met my current boyfriend this summer and I really do love him. The problem is, he's moving a little too fast for me. I have no problem kissing him but he's trying to do more and go further. I'm too embarrassed to say something, but I really want to take things slow since we haven't been going out for a while. He's really experienced too and he's done alot of sexual things with his old GFs. I'm not anything like them though! What should I do or say to him? (link)
tell him your not ready to do more things. he should understand and then stop.


Hey i was wondering what is high school like is it hard fun what?im a little scared and nervous about starting high school will i make alot of new friends do people pick on u.i rate:-] (link)
well i guess most high school are the same..idk. if they r like mine it's decent. u can do more things than u could in m.s n there is more to choose from at lunch. no one will pick on you..i mean they might call u a lil freshie or sumthin but u get to do that when ur a senior. haha. it's harder than m.s. i guess it's funner...idk, school isn't to fun for me..so that's up to u


How often a day should you brush your teeth? (link)
2-3


Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much! (link)
well...i guess doing certain sexual things with ur bf would be ok. i def. would not have sex though, even if it is protected, if ne thing would happen n u would end up pregnant..u'd be screwed


my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
you need to tell ur mom rite away. that may not be comfortable for u so if it isn't u need to tell someone, prob. the police.




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