okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months.. the thing is.. he recently went on vacation for a week and he just got back last night and we only talked for a 1/2 hour this morning from the whole week and he didn't sound happy but he said he had a good time.. plus he didn't sound like he wanted to talk to me and he was grumpy so we got off the phone i said i would talk to him later. Ever since i have been trying to call him ALL day and hes not picking up his phone. His dad did once and i told him to have him call me back but he never did.. i tried callin till 11.. now i think hes gunna dump me!?.. one friend told me he thinks its cuz hes bored.. cuz we haven't made out yet.. but i don't think thats it.. but now im afraid next time i talk to him he'll dump me.. i really love him!
Additional info, added Saturday August 7 2004, 12:44 am: Im afraid hes ignoring me.. i dunno.. i just cryed 2day cuz i really love him.. and i dunno.. he used to be different...:\... o and were 14.. and hes goin to a diff. highschool next year. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lena answered Saturday August 7 2004, 3:19 am: omg.. i feel.. SOO bad.. the same thing happened to me.. exscept i went on vacation and my bf.. well ex dumped me 2 days after i got back.. =/ it sucked sooo bad!! cuz.. well i guess i could have done some stuff wit these 2 guys that were really hot.. i didnt do nething.. but now i wish i did! lol just haha.. go over to his house.. tackle him and makee out wit him =P or.. talk to him.. at least try to..! hope everything works out [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
blake08 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:20 am: confused....
I think that you should have a serious talk with him and find out what is goingon...and if he dumps you forget him because u prob. deserve better anyways..but im not saying it wont hurt because im sure it will but there are more fishes in the sea...If you need more advice e-mail me at big_blake08 or at me at yahoo under the user name big_blake08...
EmbracedxRain answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:49 am: Well, you are gonna have to face your fear and talk to him. And if he is going to break up with you, you are going to have to let it happen and not avoid it. I know how you feel because I've loved someone and then something changed out of nowhere and it was over, but if it is meant to happen it will, and something better will come along the way. Talk to him though, you really have to. Hope I helped.. *Amber* [ EmbracedxRain's advice column | Ask EmbracedxRain A Question ]
XxLyssaBearxX answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:28 am: well u need to try and get a hold of him n have a talk w/ him. if he says he's still into u then everything will hopefully be fine. if he doesnt really answer u or avoids u then he juss sux..ur too good for him...good luck! [ XxLyssaBearxX's advice column | Ask XxLyssaBearxX A Question ]
BiGmoneySpEnDa1117 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:55 am: Tell him how u feel.
My Boyfriend got so mad at meh kuz i was scared to come to him.
So i asked his best friend instead.
Of couse his bester told him and he was mad that i was scared to come to him first.
When you talk get right in say hi and get goin.
Tell him how you feel.
Tell him you luv him and don't want to lose him. and are scare that he's gonna dump u.
If he cares juss bout making out or he's "bored" then he doesn't care.. i no it hurts but its tru. but by wut you've sed i doubt thats tru! Right?! hehe.
So Tell HiM!
You can tell him anything .. its so easy. take my advice.. and flat out tell him wut u think and feel.
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Hope I Helped & God Bless
Candi <3 [ BiGmoneySpEnDa1117's advice column | Ask BiGmoneySpEnDa1117 A Question ]
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