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hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends?

well if ur gurk friends r mean to u then just dont talk to em nemore maybe there jealous becuz u have more guy friend then them or maybe there just a couple o bitches and u dont need friends that treat u badly they arent ur friends n if they try to change u then just dont talk to em becuz if they cant like u for u then u were better off wit out them

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what does pop your cherry mean i rate lol

well pop your cherry means to have sex with someone so if someone goes up to u and says i poped my cherry they either mean i lost my virginity or i had sex

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okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months.. the thing is.. he recently went on vacation for a week and he just got back last night and we only talked for a 1/2 hour this morning from the whole week and he didn't sound happy but he said he had a good time.. plus he didn't sound like he wanted to talk to me and he was grumpy so we got off the phone i said i would talk to him later. Ever since i have been trying to call him ALL day and hes not picking up his phone. His dad did once and i told him to have him call me back but he never did.. i tried callin till 11.. now i think hes gunna dump me!?.. one friend told me he thinks its cuz hes bored.. cuz we haven't made out yet.. but i don't think thats it.. but now im afraid next time i talk to him he'll dump me.. i really love him!

well if u really like him try to make out with him like u make the first move n if hes still no happy well fuck him dump him ass

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does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit numb....then i just kinda zonked out. The next morning i woke up in a puddle of my own blood, and thats when i realized that i cant do this anymore. So yea my question remains is there any way to get an anti-depressent along the lines of zoloft or ya know something like it without seeing a doctor???

(p.s.) - anyone who says "you should tell your parents" gets a rating of a 1 and i automatically dont like you....

well ok well i always get deprest n always get to the feeling of killing myself but then i always think of all the good things about myslef n if u stabe urself thats reallt not kool at all u really have to stop that shit its sooo freakin bad

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Say there's someone I want to ask to the prom...how much time before it should I ask him? I don't want to wait too long because he might ask someone else, but I know that if I ask him too early it'll look a bit weird, or as though I'm desperate. I just want some advice on that, thanks!

welll ask him about like 4 months before prom

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Okay I am in love with this guy. We are friends but he doesn't know I like him. He is a year older than me but in the grade behind me.. ya not the smartest person and he is coming to my school next year. So, he thinks i'm hot but he doesn't like me. But I really like him do you know any way I could tell him and keep our friendship the way it is like not change it and do you know anyway i could maybe make him like me a little bit more

well tell him your feelings for him but be like but i really like being friends with you

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Okay,me and my bf had been going out for like a month now..I love him somuch and i think he feels the same..well he definetely said he did.And like today i was just like "do you think maybe we should just be friends since school is starting in like 2 weeks?" cuz he lives like 25-30 min. away so i only see him like twice a week :( and he was like "i don't know :( what do you think?" and i was just like "idk either cuz i think ur gonna like other girls at ur school" and like i just wanted to see if he would wanna do that and I dont know...we did break up and now i feel horrible..everyone that talks to him about it says that he is really heartbroken and he loves me a lot...but i dont know!We live far away and I think just maybe hes hiding his feelings :/ but I just dont know..help plz.. I MISS HIM!

look grl u should of neva broke up wit him in the first place get him bak he loves u keep him u love him bak stay wit him if he really loves u he wont like other gurls and if he do he wont cheat on u then he doesnt really love u unless it was really trully an accident then u could forgive cant forget but can forgive

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Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!

well ur tall thats one of the things it makes u weight a lot but it doesnt makes u fat but if u wanna loose weight u could try runnnig a lot or take up a lot of after skool sports like soccor or field hockey or if u have a bike u could bike ride and stuff and u have to eat right everyday no more junk food and drink a lot of water

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OK*
I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?

Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:.

i think u should deffently go out wit him becuz if u like him take ur chances wit him and go for it and u'll get to know him even better becuz u'll probley talk more so go for it and go out wit him

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my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help

i think u shouldnt even care about wat people think if u like him then like him dont even think about the shortness just be wit him if u like him then be wit him becuz u might not find another guy like him

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Well,i have a problem.

Me n this boy started going out. He was so sweet to me, and so damn nice, i really loved him. Then he started to get a lil more being a jerk. Thats just him, i let it pass, because he was just being a guy. He said a few things that bothered me, i told him, he told me he was sorry millions of times. You know. i let it all pass. Then he broke up with me, cause " He didnt want a gf" We've been going out for 3 months and he was my first boyfriend and i really loved him alot, he seemed like he really loved me to. I was heartbroken. Then about 4 days after we broke up, he went online and i was talking to him. He told me " God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" and just because im stupid, i said yes. Should i stay with him and risk getting hurt again.. or break up with him.. IDK what to do, cause i really love him..He even told me if i broke up with him he'd practically kill himself because he couldnt live without me.. please help!

i think u should stay wit him becuz if u love him as much as u say u do then stay wit him becuz theres no other boyfriend then like your first boyfriend so stay wit him and if he breaks up wit u again and then ask's u bak out say no becuz then he will keep dumpin u and then askin u bak out and u'll be heartbroken over and over again

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i have a boyfriend who i love with all my heart and he always says he loves me and all this and i say i love him back and hes like yeah yeah i know and all this but then when we talk online he like starts all this stuff like u dont love me and i know your gonna breakup with me and all kinds of things like that. how do i make him believe that i really do love him and im not gonna break up with him? please help me!

well u should just talk to him and just be like " listen i love you with all my heart and im not gonna break up with u ever your my one and only" or something like that

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hio i am going into high school and i have never had a boyfriend... how can i make a guy lyk me.... i am also shy how can i lyk not b shy to a guy. wut kind of stuff do b/f and g/f talk bout??????
thx
!~me~!

eww what a loser youve never had a b/f?!?!?! you must be UUUUUUUGLYY!

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There's this guy I really like, but he's really wild. I mean really. He's already went all the way and he's only 14. I've only been kissed. But he wants to hang out and start "talking" and stuff. He's really fun to be around and really good lookin too. lol. I would love to get to know him better and maybe even date, but I'm afraid it wont work out because I'm not as advanced as him, but should I give it a shot anyway?

totally give it a shot becuz if u like this guy and he wants to talk and stuff then get to know him ask some questions and stuff u know be friends and then maybe u guys could try and date but take it slow dont go fast and just get to know each other

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okay my cousin is here everyday because my mom has to babysit him and hes 10 and im 12 and in the past he has chocked me locked me in a car when it was 100 degrees out side he has banged a softball against my ear locked me in his rooam and bathroom he has pushed me in the shower and made me hit my head and yet he still does things to hurt me and now im stronger so i just wanna sock him really bad and i think he learns these things from his dad because his dad abuses him but still he does it and it hurts and sometimes he can be really cool like the best cousin ever but he abuses his little brother and makes fun of my sister and teases her how do i get him to stop should i just leave him alone i dont wanna get hurt again...

if your cuzin is hurting you becuz of his dad then you need to get your cousin out of that house he shouldn't be there and getting abuse you could help him and help yourself by making the source of it all stop if u love your cousin go to the police tell them bring him too if he has evidence that can prove he is being abused then you could really save your cousin go to the police then the hurting will stop

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ok,i'm 13, 5 2 and 110 lbs. i already do situps and i'm on a soccer team. how can i lose lyk 5 to 10 lbs? plz help! ~***I RATE***~

well you could try running a lot and playing a lot of like after skool sports that lets you move around a lot and just eat right like carrots and celery and stuff like that and you'll see the results but it nomal to be that much becuz of you height also but try the running and sports and everything but you have to run everyday more then you run in soccor

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Well this coming skool year I'll be a freshman. At our highskool, two different graduating 8th grade classes from two different skools form into the freshman class at the high skool. Before I graduated 8th grade, sum of my friends and I had been spending a lot of time with sum of the girls from the other skool that we'd be sharing highskool with this coming skool year. A lot of the girls at my own skool were becoming jealous and thought that when we become freshman, my friends and I would ditch our great ol friends from our old skool and go for the girls from the new one. I'm really close with the girls from our old skool and I know this won't be the case, but how do I make sure this doesn't happen and how can I make my friends from my old skool believe it won't? (m/14)

well you could try hanging out with the both of them like make the gurls from your old skool be friend with your new friends and then maybe you could all hangout together or you could hang out with the gurls from your old skool like one day and then hang out with your new friends the next day and that way you'd still be hanging out with them and if you really care about the gurls from your old skool then just like sit them down and be like " im not gonna leave you and not stop hangin wit cho becuz you guys are my best friends and i care about you a lot" and if they care about u then they'll understand and they'll believe you

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hey may name is kate ! i have a huge crush on this guy well call him "bob" and i have for a while hes just soo sweet and a super nice guy and hes hott! but i dont knoe if im in love whwen i see him my stomach like flips and i get sweaty palms and my knees get all week! and i think he feels the same way cuz hes always smiling and stuff and winking and starring but ne ways do i sound like im in love ! by the way im 15 if that helps ! please help me quick im seeing him tontie and i need to knoe wether to tell him how i feel ! plz help !
kate

sounds like your in love but try not to get all serious becuz it just might be puppy love but it could be your soul mate, i think you should tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way awsome but if he doesnt and stops talkin to u after you tell him then he wasnt the right one for you

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okay i like this kid nd im pretty sure he likes me but he has a gf....like when we talk he'll go i miss you alot nd i dont kno wat to say cus he has a gf..he like leads me on...im really confused on wat to do...

well i think that you should talk to him one on one when his girlfriend isnt around and just ask him "do you like me becuz you just seem like you do and all" or something like that and see if it works and if he says yea then ask him what he's doing with his g/f when he likes you

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I was brought up by my dad so I really don't know much about being a girl and I don't really have anyone to ask. How can you tell if you have a yeast infection, and how do you get one?

ok well if you were brought up by your dad you should try asking someone that's a girl your real close to or like ask a cousin or an aunt that might work

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