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i have a boyfriend who i love with all my heart and he always says he loves me and all this and i say i love him back and hes like yeah yeah i know and all this but then when we talk online he like starts all this stuff like u dont love me and i know your gonna breakup with me and all kinds of things like that. how do i make him believe that i really do love him and im not gonna break up with him? please help me!
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First of all he just wants you to feel bad for him. Be like i love you with all my heart... but i feel like your attention starved. When you see him, show him you love him. Give him a kiss or something... or w/e level your at in your relationship. Hang out with him, invite him over where you guys are just alone and not in public and you can say anything you want with no disruption. But whatever you do, don't have him bugging you for attention like that. Its rude of him... hes accusing things of you that arent true. If he continues saying that just reply saying i would never lie to you ... if i didnt love you... you'd see it... there is nothing I would ever do to show that b/c i love you. Say something sweet.. but make sure he acts the same!
xoxo good luck
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ah ha i know the solution to your problom's oh danm i forgot
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Something that I have noticed in the past is that boys like 2 test their girlfriends. Like they'll tell u sumthin just in order 2 see wut ur reaction is. Since he isn't saying any of this 2 u in person, that's prolly just wut he's doing but maybe u should talk 2 him and ask him why he thinks ur gonna break up with him or why he thinks u don't love him. He might just b a lil insecure. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes!
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well u should just talk to him and just be like " listen i love you with all my heart and im not gonna break up with u ever your my one and only" or something like that
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my dad once told me..."kyle if u ever have to ask anyone what they think about who u love, then it's not love, and it wont work, doubt always comes out negative in the end." see what i mean...?
good luck :-/
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well you have to tell him that you're teling the truth--and if he still doesn't believe you, maybe he's in denial or is afraid of commitment. anyway, if you two can't communicate your true feelings, you should definitely try to talk about it
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I think the reason he is saying all this stuff to you online is low self assteam guys tend to be lyk that just tell him that you love him and breaking up wif him is the last thing on your mind ask him also why does he say that to you it will all work out in the long run! GOOD LUCK BABE!
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tell him that u are true and u do love him or if that dose not work then prove it to him
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Thats a tricky question. It kind of sounds like hes looking for an easy escape out of the relationship. If you love him and he says he loves you, then try to figure out whats going on in your relationship. Do you spend time together often? Is he affectionate? Are you? If you are doing everything you can to show him you love him, than what else can you do? But you dont need to put up with that. Maybe he is insecure. Have a good face to face with him. Make sure to watch his eyes. Either he is trying to get out of the relationship without hurting you, or he is really afraid that you dont love him. If it is difficult to talk face to face, than write him a sincere letter. Explain how you feel as best as you can. Good luck!
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