My friend on my soccer team is one of the SWEETEST people in the WHOLE world..at her school these 2 guys like her and she dosen't like them and now she has to break their hearts and she dosen't know how to tell them...She's really sad and doesn't know what to do? PLEASE help!
kevin1986 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:27 pm: Ok,this is something I hear a lot. " So and so,I think we should just be friends. I'm sorry,but I just don't feel the same way about you. I'd really like to still be your friend though." It's called the Let's Be Friends speech. I hear it a lot and the guys will get over it. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 4:18 pm: If your friend has done nothing to lead these guys on then she has nothing to worry about. If they are asking her out, tell her that instead of saying no, flat out, have both of you invite them to hang out as friends, with all of your other friends. Just because a guy is not boyfriend material, doesnt mean hes not friend material. But make sure shes completley honest in telling them she is not interested in a relationship. Good luck! [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
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