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screwed up cousin
okay my cousin is here everyday because my mom has to babysit him and hes 10 and im 12 and in the past he has chocked me locked me in a car when it was 100 degrees out side he has banged a softball against my ear locked me in his rooam and bathroom he has pushed me in the shower and made me hit my head and yet he still does things to hurt me and now im stronger so i just wanna sock him really bad and i think he learns these things from his dad because his dad abuses him but still he does it and it hurts and sometimes he can be really cool like the best cousin ever but he abuses his little brother and makes fun of my sister and teases her how do i get him to stop should i just leave him alone i dont wanna get hurt again...
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First off, tell your Mom. It may sound like the odd way out, but she'll scold him to stop. Just explain to him be like when you hurt me it makes such a bad relationship between us and its really not cool... if you stopped you would be such a cool person. Really explain to him in detail. He needs more attention is what it sounds like. Question him why he does those mean things. If he doesnt stop, just start giving him silent treatment, talk to him as little as possible , and when you are forced to talk to him talk in a low really hurt voice. He'll get the hint. But whatever you do dont be violent back, you'll be just as immature and he'll think that hes been right to be hurting people b/c you do it too.
good luck xoxo
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ok if this kid is younger than u, u should have a lil bit more control over the kid for one. if this kid is being abused or is abusing others at this age he needs some serious help so call a social worker or something along those lines. also tell your mom what hes doing to u because im sure she would like to know. and if this kid continues this saga of abuse just remember it takes 42 muscels to frown but it only take 4 to extend your arm and punch the hell out of him..i think he would get the picture after that. hope i helped..sorry if i didnt. l8er
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I think you should most definitely talk to your mom!!!!Tell her everything that's happened and how concerned you are(not to mention fed up)!Your cousin probably needs to get some help,especially if he's living in an abusive household and is learning that that's the way to behave.It's better to stop it now then to let him go on and get older,and let the violence escalate.Don't feel ashamed about going to your mom about this.You're doing it for your cousins own well-being because you love him,and also for your OWN well-being from him treating you like that!!!Best wishes!! I hope this helps out some!
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if your cuzin is hurting you becuz of his dad then you need to get your cousin out of that house he shouldn't be there and getting abuse you could help him and help yourself by making the source of it all stop if u love your cousin go to the police tell them bring him too if he has evidence that can prove he is being abused then you could really save your cousin go to the police then the hurting will stop
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I think that u should talk2 him and tell him 2 stop seriously and if he trys 2 hurt u then punch him and say that it was self defence because it would be and if it gets worse tell ur parents 2 help him by putting him in classes that help people that were abused and that are becoming abusive!
GOOD LUCK!!! :)
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*Tell your mother!!! Tell anyone in your family, you have no choice but to.*
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Tell his mom to talk to him. Or you just talk to him. Tell him how mean hes being. How just run away from him. Or... you could do what i would do and just push him and hit him.
Glad to help...
<3 Jackie
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