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Friendships and highskool
Well this coming skool year I'll be a freshman. At our highskool, two different graduating 8th grade classes from two different skools form into the freshman class at the high skool. Before I graduated 8th grade, sum of my friends and I had been spending a lot of time with sum of the girls from the other skool that we'd be sharing highskool with this coming skool year. A lot of the girls at my own skool were becoming jealous and thought that when we become freshman, my friends and I would ditch our great ol friends from our old skool and go for the girls from the new one. I'm really close with the girls from our old skool and I know this won't be the case, but how do I make sure this doesn't happen and how can I make my friends from my old skool believe it won't? (m/14)
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sorry but in highschool you'll be lucky to stay friends with your old group of friends. In highschool theres so many new people and you may click with other people. just keep all your friendships close. you can prove to them that you won't forget about them. randomly ask them to do stuff with you and in school hanf around them alot too
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Just make sure that you make time for your old friends!Treat them as nicely as you always have!Make them included in plans,call them,stay involved and concerned in their lives!!Do things with just them sometimes,and do some things with them and your new friends sometimes so that they can all get to know each other!!Let them know how much you truly care for them,and that you wouldn't ditch them for the world!!And stand by your word!!!
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my school is the same way.. don`t be afraid to make new friends, there`s nothing wrong with meeting new people.. just make sure that while you`re forming friendships with these new girls you don`t forget about the old ones.. try to plan a group activity and invite your friends from both schools.. who knows, they might actually like eachother and then you can all be friends.. go ahead and make friends with these new people but no matter what, don`t forget about the people who have been there from the beginning.. good luck, i hope i helped <3 christina
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You should introduce yur new friends to the old ones.. and get everyone to hang out with everyonE! and that way.. you won't be leaving anyone out!
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dude...our school does that too...doesn't it suck? you don't go to hamilton southeastern in Indy do you? anyways you gotta start combining the groups, or even just sit down with your old friends and have a serious conversation that you want to make new friends but not lose your old ones
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well you could try hanging out with the both of them like make the gurls from your old skool be friend with your new friends and then maybe you could all hangout together or you could hang out with the gurls from your old skool like one day and then hang out with your new friends the next day and that way you'd still be hanging out with them and if you really care about the gurls from your old skool then just like sit them down and be like " im not gonna leave you and not stop hangin wit cho becuz you guys are my best friends and i care about you a lot" and if they care about u then they'll understand and they'll believe you
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