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Well this coming skool year I'll be a freshman. At our highskool, two different graduating 8th grade classes from two different skools form into the freshman class at the high skool. Before I graduated 8th grade, sum of my friends and I had been spending a lot of time with sum of the girls from the other skool that we'd be sharing highskool with this coming skool year. A lot of the girls at my own skool were becoming jealous and thought that when we become freshman, my friends and I would ditch our great ol friends from our old skool and go for the girls from the new one. I'm really close with the girls from our old skool and I know this won't be the case, but how do I make sure this doesn't happen and how can I make my friends from my old skool believe it won't? (m/14) (link)
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my school is the same way.. don`t be afraid to make new friends, there`s nothing wrong with meeting new people.. just make sure that while you`re forming friendships with these new girls you don`t forget about the old ones.. try to plan a group activity and invite your friends from both schools.. who knows, they might actually like eachother and then you can all be friends.. go ahead and make friends with these new people but no matter what, don`t forget about the people who have been there from the beginning.. good luck, i hope i helped
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hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ? (link)
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i was in the exact same boat.. as much as you try to avoid it, her feelings are gonna get hurt no matter what.. when she wants to hang out with you say you have something else to do or your mom won`t let you.. avoid her when you see her and when you do things with other friends, don't invite her.. her feelings are bound to get hurt no matter what but sooner or later she`ll take the hint.. good luck, i hope i helped
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i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18. (link)
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i don`t think he`s mad.. i think he`s embarassed that he asked you out and got rejected.. if anything, his ego's been damaged and he needs a little time to get over the fact that he got shut down.. try to talk to him and explain that you value your friendship and don`t want to get involved in a relationship because relationships only complicate things.. tell him that you don`t want to risk your friendship and that`s why you said no, not because you wanted to hurt his feelings.. good luck, i hope i helped
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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks! (link)
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no offense, but why would they call it an eyelash curler if it was gonna damage your eyelashes when curling them? that was kinda a dumb question
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I'm 13 and I want a dog. I have never had one in my entire life. I need a friend because no onle likes me, what should I do? PS I know who you are! (link)
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although a dog is great for a companion, if you`re looking for a friend i`d try a real person.. sure a dog is great but you might want a friend that you can communicate with, do things with etc.. if it`s a dog you want try your local dog pound or you can buy one at a pet store.. hope i helped
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why do people pretend to be others? Like someone on her stole my sn but dropped a 1.. plz I am so sick of fakers!! grr does anyone agree?
XoXo
Julia (link)
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i know how you feel.. people take your stuff because they`re not creative enough to come up with their own.. it`s hard to be original, people are always gonna try to copy you.. just don`t let it get to you
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ive been frends w/ a boy for a pretty long time. im guessing it has been about 2 and 1half years. all of this time i have liked him on and off. the thing is, he doesn`t know. i can`t tell him. we are pretty close friends and i`d hate to ruin our relationship by dating at a young age. We hang out pretty often and our times together are amazing. It`s like no other relationship I`ve ever had with a male friend. We flirt a lot and have so much fun. Though, I think we should wait until we`re older to make anything more of our relationship, even though I`m not sure if he`d like me or not. My friends say he would though. I really love him though and don`t want to tell him right now because if it weren`t to work out it`s very hard to change lovers back to friends - please help me (link)
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first of all, you gotta decide if this guy is worth risking the friendship for the possibility of a relationship.. if you decide he is then go for it, tell him how you feel.. if things don't work out then it`s not meant to be.. if you decide he`s not worth the risk then just continue as friends until you are older and have devoloped more solid feelings for eachother and then talk to him about moving further.. i hope i helped, good luck
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Hi Jenipher here and well see my friends are hardly speaking to each other bc of who knows what and they pull me side to side and like one wants to come home with me , then if the other one finds out she torments the life out of the other one and I always get stuck in their fights even when I don't know whats its about,.... What should I do??? Sorry so long
PLZ HELP ME (link)
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explain to each friend that just because they don't like someone doesn't mean that you have to not like them.. ultimately you chose who you want to be friends with and either friend can't stop you from being friends with the other.. i`m sure i confused you but i hope i helped! good luck
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alright so i've been dating this guy for a little under 2 mos, but i can already tell that he's more special than anyone else i've ever dated before... but theres a problem. let me tell you a story first:
i got a job closer in town (i live in the suburbs) and i moved in w/ my grandma for june because i wouldn't have been able to commute to work in june. i happened to move in 5 minutes away from my boyfriend, but i lived 20 minutes away from all my other friends from school, and i couldn't spend time w/ them as often as i did with him because 1. i live closer to him and dont have time to commute after work and 2. they never too the initiative to ask me to do something... they just assumed i would if i wanted to. and i did want to do stuff w/ them really badly on the weekends (cz i moved back to the burbs on the weekends). Towards the end of June a few of them started getting mad at me because i was supposedly spending all my free time w/ my boyfriend, when i only saw him at church on sunday and maybe twice during the week.
well, i got the argument with my friends settled, but the way they settled it was that i had to do stuff with them w/o my boyfriend, and that really hurts him. it's basically like they're saying to him "we're more important to her than you are" or "we want to split yall up" when i know they dont mean either, but he's still really mad and upset about it. is there any advice you can give me on this subject??? i just wish that my boyfriend and my friends could get along.
btw: i dont go by the motto "Chicks before d!cks" because my boyfriend is also one of my best friends and it'd still be like ditching a friend if i went off to do alot of stuff w/o him. (link)
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to me it seems that your friends are a little jealous of your relationship.. their jealousy is based on their own insecurities so you can't get mad at them, but you need to explain to them that you need to spend time with your boyfriend just as much as you need to spend time with them.. also explain that the only reason why you spend more time with him is because he's convenient and tell them that if they want to hang out with you that bad, they can make the effort to come + see you.. explain that although you value their friendship, you value your relationship, too and if they were good friends at all they wouldn't make you choose.. good luck, i hope i helped
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