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do u think hes mad?
i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18.
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i don`t think he`s mad.. i think he`s embarassed that he asked you out and got rejected.. if anything, his ego's been damaged and he needs a little time to get over the fact that he got shut down.. try to talk to him and explain that you value your friendship and don`t want to get involved in a relationship because relationships only complicate things.. tell him that you don`t want to risk your friendship and that`s why you said no, not because you wanted to hurt his feelings.. good luck, i hope i helped <3 christina
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yeah, he's probably mad, or maybe he's just hurt. either way, don't mention the incident. he might not want to talk about it. it's always hard to be turned down, so when he starts talking to you again (or you talk to him) be extra sensitive.
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You did the right thing by being nice about it. He probably just doesn't take rejection well. Call him up or drive to his house, sit him down, and tell him how important he is to you, but you just can't be "with" him. He seems really shy because he is 18 but he still couldn't bring himself to ask a girl out, so he probably is just upset.
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hes probably just crushed but deffinately not mad at you because if he cares about you that much then he isnt mad, just a little bummed that your only friends
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Yeah he's probly upset. Or maybe he's just embarrased to speak to you now. You should prob. tell him why you didnt want to go out with him.
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i dont think he mad...i would say he is crushed.!!!! i mean poor guys he just been rejected...he is prolly one of the kind that cant b friends wit someone he cares more then just a friend...he needs sometime alone...to get over u...dats all :) xoxo effy
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No he is probally just embarassed hey if me and my bf break up ill take the Jonathan dude he sounds nice to me
Love Ashley , plz rate me
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Yea, I think he's just more embarrassed than anything because he did get turned down in front of his friends and his friends were making fun of him. You can always try talking to him and saying "You are just more than a friend to me and nothing more, I'm sorry. I'm also sorry if I embarrassed you. I still want to be friends though" Just say something like that. Good luck!! Hope this helped!
xoxo Kourtney
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His pride is probably hurt. Give him a little time, and he will be ok. It seems like his friends were pressuring him to ask you. I think if Jonathan wanted to go out with you, he should ask you himself. So he might have felt really put off because you turned him down in front of his friends and it hurt his feelings.
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i think hesmore embarressed then mad, i mena he put his feelings out their n he got turned down! just let him kno u still wanna be friends n all..u jus don wanna ruin tht relationship..plus friends can be alot more special then bf/gf! but i dun think hes mad..
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