Hi Jenipher here and well see my friends are hardly speaking to each other bc of who knows what and they pull me side to side and like one wants to come home with me , then if the other one finds out she torments the life out of the other one and I always get stuck in their fights even when I don't know whats its about,.... What should I do??? Sorry so long
PLZ HELP ME
bRuNettEwOndEr34 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:06 am: Just tell your friends how you feel. Getting stuck in the middle of fights isn't fun. Ecspecially if it is between your 2 close friends. Just tell them how you feel or ask them to not get you involved because you are friends with both of them.. If they are true friends hopefully they will understand!!
my two reallie close frends do this like ALL THE TIME too...just tell them both thah everytime they hab a fite (eben if ya noe wat its about) thah you dont wanna be involved by any means... no side or anythin...make it absolutely clear thah for every fite they hab you are to be considered neutral and no other...thahs wat i did and it helped so i hope it helps you too..i mean come on your frends with BOTH of them so why choose sides on something thah your not eben part of...ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
Kissxme1121 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:24 am: I hate when that happens... and you feel stuck in the middle. Don't go gossiping about one to the other.. just tell each that if they don't wanna all be friends.. then not to talk about the other on when you are with them and tell them that it's not fair that you are being put in the middle! If you need anything else im me at kissxme321! Rate me plz hu nand I hope things work out! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
StarsHideHope answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:20 am: explain to each friend that just because they don't like someone doesn't mean that you have to not like them.. ultimately you chose who you want to be friends with and either friend can't stop you from being friends with the other.. i`m sure i confused you but i hope i helped! good luck <3 christina [ StarsHideHope's advice column | Ask StarsHideHope A Question ]
LilSweetie7098 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:09 am: Tell them that they need to settle their problems and that they need to stop dragging you in it. They can't tell you which one you should hang out with. Also let them know that you are both of their friends and that you are not picking sides. [ LilSweetie7098's advice column | Ask LilSweetie7098 A Question ]
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