My name is Becca... as u see in my pic thats wut i look like.. Im currently single, i have my heart set on someone tho.. and i like to do alot of things in my spare time! and i love my best friends!! and Samantha! i love her too! shes an awesome best friend.. so is Taylor shae! but yah im done
Gender: Female
Location: clawson
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: hottgurl90269
Yahoo: iwillbe6andube9
MSN: xxbeebee69xx@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 20, 2004
Answers: 22
Last Update: August 8, 2004
Visitors: 2242
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I have a problem with a "long distance relationship" sorta thing. Im 14 and a female..and I really love my boyfriend..weve been going out for a long time..but the thing is we are going to seperate schools once school starts..and I dont know if we should break up or not..Its really confusing. But please try to help me out! (link)
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Well... Maybe you should talk to him to see what he wants to do, and maybe you should try and make it work! it doesn't hurt that u go to different schools... but it means that u have to have alot of trust in him and he has to with you!
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I was havin a great summa wit this kid named tim but he was my frendz cuzin and he lived in PA and was just visiting. He was so great and like my dream guy that i had been lookin for for a long time. he would hold my feet to keep them warm, play with my hair, adn id just sit on his lap and wed talk. Neways after about 2 weeks he started likin a diff. friend and since we werent officially going out he started going out wit her and i bawled my eyes out and couldnt eat the next day cuz i was so depressed. Now we still talk a lil and the thing is is kinda still like him and i dont know why. hes supposed to come down next summa for the whole summa and im afraid they mite hook back up (they broke up now tho). If i hook back up wit him everyone down here would b mad cuz they hate him for what he did to me. I dont even think he would take me back neways but i cant hepl but miss him. (link)
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AWw.. Im sorry, Well I understand how you feel.. It sucks soo much! but my best advice for you is..Tell him wut he did to you.. and make him see how hurt you are from it! Well If You did hook up with him again over the next summer.. and yur friends would be mad.. i would see if you really liked him.. and if you do don't worry bout what yur friends think.. if you like him be with him if he takes you back!
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I have a huge crush on this guy in my school. He's a wonderful person! I like to call him a "Man's Man"! Lets just say that he has enough girls who like him to have a fan club!!! Anyway, I was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how to be "me" around him. I tend to act different...almost as if I'm not good enough for him and maybe if I act differently he'll like me. I realize this is a typical boy problem that happens all the time, but all the same, I still need help!!!
Thank you very much for any suggestions, advice, etc. Some helpful info: I'm 13 & in the 8th grade.
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Well I would just say.. try to just be who u really are and don't try and act different and if u see that you are try and like be yurself! its typical for gurls to act different cuz they're nervous! Trust me i've been there before also! and i got over it eventually after i started to talk to him more.. and get to know him and he will deffinatly see how you really are! and maybe he will like you..and he might just lyke you now! you never know! just talk to him and be yurself!
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Well this coming skool year I'll be a freshman. At our highskool, two different graduating 8th grade classes from two different skools form into the freshman class at the high skool. Before I graduated 8th grade, sum of my friends and I had been spending a lot of time with sum of the girls from the other skool that we'd be sharing highskool with this coming skool year. A lot of the girls at my own skool were becoming jealous and thought that when we become freshman, my friends and I would ditch our great ol friends from our old skool and go for the girls from the new one. I'm really close with the girls from our old skool and I know this won't be the case, but how do I make sure this doesn't happen and how can I make my friends from my old skool believe it won't? (m/14) (link)
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You should introduce yur new friends to the old ones.. and get everyone to hang out with everyonE! and that way.. you won't be leaving anyone out!
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well i planted some flowers and they wont grow what should i do (link)
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Well Maybe you should take care of them, Like water them everyday and make sure they have sun light that would be the proper care they need.. and if they dont grow when u do that.. then maybe you planted some flowers that take a while?
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I HAVENT HUNG OUT WITH MY BEST FRIEND IN FOREVER...WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!!! (link)
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Well you should call her and tell her you want to hang out with her! since you miss her soo much! she prolly wants to hang out with you too! and maybe if she has a computer you can IM her and tell her?
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when i tt my boyfriend my stomack flips like when your going down a rollarcoaster it feels really weird is it love? (link)
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I would Think so.. I mean Ive been in love once before and i had the same feelings you are feeling for Yur boifriend! soo I would definatly think its a possiblity!
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my parents always yell, at the oldest and of course i asm the oldest i hate it and they just yeall and yell at me and its always my fualt plz help me (link)
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well.. Are you doing something wrong to make them yell at you.. and Yeah i know how it feels.. being the Oldest you have set examples for your younger siblings.. and make sure they don't make the same mistakes you do.. also tell them how you really feel about the yelling!
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i wrote about this guy before (i'm 15, female hes 15 male) and well i didn't really confront him about the way he sends me mized emotions but well he sent me an email of a 105 questions to answer about my self and then sent it back to him and my other friends .... and in one question it asked if i had cried in the last 24 hours and i answered yes .... so when he read the email he i/med me in yahoo and asked why i had cried and i said well one time was cuase i was watching a sad t.v. show and then i alked right into this part with out thinking and hes like and the other time? and i told him it was nothing since i just met him i didnt want him to know and then he kept arguing with me trying to get it out of me and i kept refusing so i asked why he kept asking and i told him i just couldnt say it right now since i just met him and i was like no offence but you dont share much with me either and then there was a long puase and he finally says its becuase i care and so i went into this talk with him about how i knew he cared and that i cared too but i needed time to tell him and he was really quiet for a long time and then he said he had to go ..... so i sent him an email exlpaining stuff to him and that i needed more time (i know i repeat my self alot) but when he came on today he didnt say anything about it nor did he respond to the email and now his mom might be taking to computer away on friday and he can only saty on untill 8 tonight and i cant talk to him tomarrow since i have already made plans with my friends can someone please help me i am so lost and i jsut want to know what is up with him and if i should confront him on it? please help
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Well...You did the right thing telling him he doesn't share much with you.. that was a big step telling him he needs to be more open with you.. and it does seem like he does care.. butI think you should confront him about it.. and see wut he truley feels.. and maybe you guys should hang out a few times.. but make sure you let me know..
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There is this guy I really like, I have liked him for a really long time. There is just one problem, he is sort off out of my league. Is there anything I can do to make him like me more while still being myself? I rate! (link)
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Well.. Make him see how you really are.. it doesn't hurt to express yourself more.. If you really like try and get with him.. tell him how you feel.. he might like you back.. you never know.. he just might not have the balls to tell you!
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my bestest friend iz like OBSESSED wid my step-bro n she talks about him ALL the time wat should i do???????
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well if your step-bro is into her.. get them together.. so she will shut up.. trust me i know how that goes.. its really annoying.. and wut i did was hooked this girl up with my brother so she would shut up.. and once she was with him.. she was over.. but not annoying me.. and i was happy again.. it may seem like she only comes over for your stepbro.. but atleast she won't bragg about him 24/7 ! lol
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I started going out with this guy in Feburary 10th, broke up on April 5th the reason was I liked someone else which I didnt then I found out he went out with this other girl after a month he broke up with her because she kissed some other guy and he asked me out 2 days after he dumped her its been a month n 3 weeks. One day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" he said that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride, then my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes like are you a virgan n I said "yes" then I asked him he said "no I just did it w one girl her name was christina" wat bf tells his gf the girl of the girl he fucked? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf and his 2 friends were their n my friends friend was also their n my bf was saying " i love you dont leave me I love you" to my friends friend then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which I dont think is true then he got upset because I was accusing him of who he loved n he said "I dont care if you belive me or not belive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it n the other thing is If I do break up with him I dont wanna REGRET it. Like the last time thank you... (link)
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Well.. hmm.. thats not good.. maybe you need to dump his sorry ass, hes not worth getting soo upset over... i mean if he is gonna say that crap to other girls.. then it probably means.. that hes done more than just use the talk.. if he tells you he screwed some girl... then apparently... you don't need that.. You diserve much much better than a creep like that!!
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I have this best friend.. who thinks i called her a slut... but i really didn't call her one.. she took what i said the wrong way... and she doesn't believe me.. what should i do?? (link)
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Well maybe you should tell her how you ment it.. and tell her she took it the wrong way.. and that u would never call her a slut.. unless u were playin around.. but maybe she needs to relise that your not that mean and even tho you were mad at her.. you didn't mean it like that!
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Lets see there is this guy that i have been talking to and i made some coments that he decided to extand a bit and say something to my best friend and when she asked me about it i told her it would never happen and she called me a slut cuz she dont believe me what should i do?? (link)
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well..maybe you shouldn't have made a comment like you did.. and he wouldn't have taken it the wrong way... and maybe he felt your best friend needed to know what was said behind her back.. becuz he might just like your best friend.. and felt she needed to know how her best friend is! and maybe you might just be lying to her... and maybe she didn't call you a slut you just took it the Wrong way! maybe she doesn't believe you or him.. have you ever took that in to consideration? I mean she is your best friend right.. and she does have feelings you know.. but maybe what you said.. and the way you said it was wrong of you to say??
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Me and this guy have been talking and ive made some coments that he has taken and extended and told someone that i really care about and now she doesnt believe me when i say no to her and she called me a slut what should i do... (link)
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Well in my opinion.. You should talk to that guy and tell him wut he did was wrong.. and then you should talk to that girl.. and tell her the truth on it.. and if she still doesn't believe you then i would go and beat up the kid.. Just playin.. if she is gonna start name callin then shes not worth trying to explain.. but if you Really care about her.. then wait untill she calms down and then talk to her. K
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Theres this Person that I like But he likes one of my best friends and i dont know what to do...Wut do you think i should do... (link)
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Well Sweetie.. Maybe you should talk to your Best friend and see if she likes him also.. and if she does.. then ask him who he likes more.. or even ask him if he likes you... but if he does like you.. and you and your best friend both like him.. then maybe you and your best friend should have a talk... and see what happens from there.. i mean if you Really like him.. and she just likes him.. Im sure she would probably let you have a chance with him.. thats if you want one!
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Love always
Becca
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how do you find out if a girl likes you
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Well.. hmm.. how do you usually find out?? Ask her.. Or ask someone to ask her.. but preferably.. ask her.. i mean its not that scary to ask someone.. the truth might not be what you want to hear.. but it doesn't hurt to ASK a gurl
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I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her? (link)
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Well it doesn't hurt to talk to your friend and tell her how scared you are for her.. and tell her that maybe she should wait on having sex with him, cuz you don't want the risk of her getting pregnant or getting some sort of disease.. tell her that there is always the possibility of her getting those.. and that you wouldn't want her to ruin her life at such a young age!
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i have this friend... who likes the guy i like.. and i've liked this kid since i went out with him..and she just started to like him.. and suposably things have been said.. and idk wut to do? (link)
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Well talk to your friend... and see what she says..Rumors arnt Always true you know.. Ask him and her wut is Really going on.. and If they have something maybe its time to let him go.. and find someone he is happy with.. not sayin he wasnt happy with you.. but maybe hes into your friend more than you... it doesn't hurt to see whats really going on.
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ok see I have a problem and I dont know what to do! I fell i lvoe with a boy and I have never I have never felt this way before and I dont know what to do.. You see where not doing to great. He dont like me anymore and I try to find out whats wrong and I he wont tell. I thought about it and I talked to some of my friends and one o them gave me the best thing one what they said. We all think about stuff that will be right but yet i think were all totally wrong cuz were not him we dont know whats going on in his head. So then i thought well since you hate me and theres no point of me trying to get you back as friend. So i told him that I didnt want to be his friend and that I never wanted ti se him again. Cuz what would be the point of being his friend or hanging out with him if he dont like me. That would be just a waste of time. I'v been trying for along time for this to work out but im sick of waiting. Im going on with my lie. So when he wants to be my friend then he knows whre i'll be at, But the thing is I dont think I did that right thing. BU then on the other hand I do. Im just so confused and I dont know what to do. My friend had said well i think that he likes you as a friend he just dosent know how to tell you...and every time he sees you its like he starts to like you again...and he cant handle that. I think in a way shes right but like I said we just think its right cuz it sounds good. But I dont know anymore. I dont know what to do. cuz I want to move on but everytime I want to I just find myself falling back in love with him. PLease help me!!!!!!! (link)
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Well lemme see... Its hard since you fell in love with him.. to let him go.. i understand fully how you feel about this kid.. and its hard to let someone you love let go.. and maybe what you are doing is ok.. but what i say you should do is give him time to think about what he has done to make him relise that wut he did to you was very wrong.. and in a way wut you did was wrong.. becuz your pushin him away even more... If you want to be friends with him.. telling him you want nothing more to do with him will just push him away even more! and you won't have a friendship with him.. and then you won't have nothing more..Maybe sometimes you shouldn't listen to your friends.. you should do what your heart tells you to do.. it doesn't hurt to ask advice sometimes.. but what they say might not always be what you should do.... Just follow your heart.. trust me.. he'll come around eventually! maybe you should try someone else see what happens when you do that... If it doesn't work out then maybe your ment to be with that boy..and if it does work out.. then maybe he was all wrong for you.. but holdin on to him will not let you experience other boys... it will keep you farther away.. maybe you heart is telling you to move on... and your head is makin you think you still want to be with him!! Just remember.. What ever goes wrong.. You have your best friend... Good Luck and Stay Strong
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