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uh oh..
I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her?
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Tell her exacltey how you feel AND the risks, STDs and pregnancy... way to young to be having a kid! So just tell her that maybe she should wait until she knows shes REALLY ready and hes the one she wants to lose it to.make sure you tell how you feel and that you care...ANd if she does decide to do it just tell her to be careful
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SHES TOO YOUNG!! i am 13 too...she cuold get aids...hiv..std's get pregnat!! think about raising a baby at 13 you're not even in high school!! u might need to tell someone about it but don't let her do it..just tell her if she decides to do it...wear a condom
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tell her shes headed for mass destruction. Describe all the risks and tell her shes so YOUNG! she obviously wont be with him forever and when the time comes their not together tell her how broken she will feel and violated and embarrassed and rejected tell her she CANT do it she has to wait until she really falls in love and tell her that just ISNT now. Please, do anything, even get other friends to help you stop her just STOP her shes way to young.
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You should tell her that you as her friend, think that really isn't that great of an idea. And that she should give it more thought before she decides. Because she is only 13 and she doesn't know what love is.
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dear uh oh,
you can't control your friend but you can be there to support her. just express the dangers of sex. and how it will affect her. also tell her that if she's gonna have sex that she needs the pill. and condoms. not just one or the other. unless she wants to be pregnant.
hope i helped some. *~~~shana~~~*
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Well it is her choice...if she wants to do that she can do that...she just has to be aware of all things that can happen...i am 13 and i did it...it was my choice...but w.e she does make sure she does it safe !!!
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Sex?? Shes 13.. Im 14 and oral sex is still a big deal.. she could screw everything up.. Her body might not even be ready for it yet.. theres an emotional side of it to.. most Guys can't keep secrets so she will have to deal with being called a slut and easy and everything just explain to her that u don't think its a good idea and tell her how u feel.. hope it helped
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I think you should tell your friend how you really feel. And tell her the dangeres of having sex. You should always be truthful with your friends.
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There's nothing you can say to change her mind. But remind her that getting pregnant is always a possibility. Catching a disease is too. Other than that,if she wants to do it,she will.
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Tell her why you dont think its a good idea point out the bad things and tell her you know she's not ready and that she will regret it-trix
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*I'm 13, too! Jump with joy...
Anyway, she's too young. She can't be 'in love' when she is 13. People say you can, but since a lot of guys these days want just a piece of you, it's hard to believe that.
She can do whatever she wants, since it's her life, but I don't think she's in love, and I don't think she should.
Is she even <i>thinking</i> about what <i>could</i> happen is she does? Your a good friend, since you care this much to ask, so maybe just go and talk to her about it. If she does want to have sex, she should talk to her boyfriend that he could be a father! :-o... and it's too young to be a father.
"<i>...kissing leads to touching and touching might lead to grandchildren</i>..." Haha...that was funny.
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Well it doesn't hurt to talk to your friend and tell her how scared you are for her.. and tell her that maybe she should wait on having sex with him, cuz you don't want the risk of her getting pregnant or getting some sort of disease.. tell her that there is always the possibility of her getting those.. and that you wouldn't want her to ruin her life at such a young age!
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Just talk to her about it. Tell her think about it b4 you do it, think about ur future. And tell her if you do this u could lose ur reputation. And also if she has a baby she will never be able to complete her goals, like goin to college. Getting a great job. One more thing tell her to worry about what her parents would say becuz u kno ur parents would think she was a slut if they found out. And she prolly wouldn't be able to have boyfriends for a LONg time. Ok just tell her all those things I said that would be a good idea to tell her. I hoped I helped<sarah>
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Thats a good question....me..i think its too young. Maybe you could give her ideas about having another kind of way to express their love for eachtoher. you have have them even go to third base...ask your freind if she really wants to lose her virginity this young. if she does...tell her she has to be IN LOVE with her boyfriend. Also tell her to use protection.
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tell her that you dont think its a good ideal tell her she could get pregnatant.. tell her everything bad about it cuz everytime someone thinks of haveing sex they think of all the good things but they never notice all the bad that could happen! hOpe i helPed! gOodLuCk!
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