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should i or shouldnt i?
I'm 15 years old + a virgin. My best friend has had sex with her bf. My boyfriend isn't a virgin, either. I feel so left out since I've never done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. I'm so curious about it, but I don't wanna do it unless I'm totally in love and I'm ready. I really wanna know what it feels like. What should I do? I dont wanna be known as a little virgin girl for not doing it, but I've never been some1 to give in to peer pressure!
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Hey I am 14 + I Was a virgin. I was so curious about it to. My friend and I went over to her boyfriends and he has this guy over that I lyk alot. We are always making out and stuff. One day my friend went upstairs to have sex with him again. They always do. Well this guy I really lyked asked me if I wanted to. He said we didnt have to if I didn't want to. But I was so curious and Iw as sick of being a virgin. So I did. It hurt so bad! But they say the second time is better then the 1st. and I really know that is true. It hurts really bad and some real advice to tell yOu is that dont do it inless yOu are in Love and he loves yOu back and dont give in to peer pressure. I hope this helps.
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so who cares if ur known as that i mean come on its a good thing to be till after ur married
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your not going to be the little virgin girl. Your going to be the honorable self respecting virgin. Your not immature if you wont have sex. You need to respect your body and whos to say if after you had sex you could break up with your bf or he could suddenly dump you? Would you want that humiliation. Youd regret it. And the best part about married sex is you know your committed and your not going to regret it because you've already made the promise to be true to your husband. Plus, think of how good that'll make him feel if he finds out that you've saved your body just for him, he'll feel so good and realize how much you love him. I KNOW it sounds corny and its hard to think of now but i GUARENTEE if you listen to my advice, my little paragraph, me being a person you dont even know, your life will be impacted forever and I PROMISE you will be greatful. Dont cave to peer pressure.. PLEASE!
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well im 15 2 and im a virgin but im curious too and im really in love with my bf so were gunna have it 2nite and ill tell u how it feels!
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Dont have sex, try orgasm or oral things
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honestly I really don't think girls the age of 15 are having sex... for all you know they could just be saying that cuz they wanna follow the crowd. But I say wait.... follow what you believe in and you'll be happy.
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you are 15. most girls your age are not having sex. if you want to, experiment a little. but, if your waiting for the right guy, you will be respected for that. stay true to your morals no matter what anyone says
xoxo
ali
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dont give in.. its good to be different.. sexual isnt always good.. n u need to no the consquences that could come..
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dear should or shouldn't,
just wait. you'll know when youre ready. don't do things that will effect your life just because others are. at least you know that you won't be a pregnant teen mother. no offense to anyone tho. but atleast you won't have the worries of pregnancy until youre ready.
hope i helped *~~~shana~~~*
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don't feel left out. u should be proud of the fact that u held out. dont put urself down for not being part of the crowd. being avirgin does not make u a little kid, it just means u havnt found the one. when u have, there will b no question in ur mind.
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you have morals and you should stick you should stick to them. dont give into peer preasure thas how i lost my virginity. i gave into peer preasure i i nnow regret it i wanted to wait till i was truly in love well that didnt get to happen so i often give this story to girls like you. im only 14 remember that. much love
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dont do it if ur not ready n dont wry about bein "left out" cuz ur not! u should just really wait and its ok to be curious and stuff but do wat u think is best!
xoxo
angie
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Hey!
Good on you for not giving into peer pressure and waiting for someone you love to experience sex with. Sex (in my opinion) is a very intimate thing and should only be done with someone you care about. Most of my friends have had sex too and I'm a virgin, but none of them really give a rats ass about it. It sounds like you're a very mature young woman who understands what relationships are all about- trust me, it's better to be known as a virgin than a slut that sleeps with any boy who comes along. Wait for a special guy, and until you are good and ready, and everything will be perfect.
Good Luck!
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Well alright dont do anything you dont want to do!! Just ask what it feels like but dont go do it cuz your young and probably not ready for it. And you need to be in love first. I've never been some1 to give in to peer pressure either so dont do it cuz you need to set a good role model for those who watch you! weather you know it or not there are people who follow in your footsteps. Your best friend isnt a good role model but you need to be and i can tell you there are alot of virgins still and i have alot of friends who are and arent.. but it all depends on the sluttyness of the person if you ask me..-trix
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believe me DONT DO ANNNNYTHING YOUR GOING TO REGRET i promise you youll thank yourself for it! do what you think your ready to do but REALLY think hard about it before you do!
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I felt like that to when all my friends did it and i felt left out but when i did it it didnt feel right and i thought it was with a guy i loved but it wasnt now i think i should of waited so dont give in and if ppl are presuring u their really not worth ur time
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Stick to your guns!! Don't do something you're uncomfortable with just because everone else is doing it. Who cares?? It's none of their concern! You're your own person with your own morals, and that's GREAT! Make sure the first time you decide to engage in sexual activies you do it because YOU want to, and YOU feel you're ready to handle it, NOT because SOMEONE ELSE pressures you. If your friends are TRUE friends, they'll understand where you're coming from and respect your decision! Don't be afraid to say no and stick up for yourself! Stay bold and take care!! =D
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Mrs. Should I...
Im a virgin too. If anything, you do not need to feel left out. Being a virgin is the greatest thing! (Many guys think it's a turn on anyways, hehe). Just because your friends do it, doesn't mean you need to. You may do it once, and find it wonderful...then you could keep doing it. It's kind of like...ice cream. You taste it for the first time, and it's so good, that you want more and more. Sex isn't something to "wanna see what it feels like". Remember, there's always consequences along with what you do.
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You are definitly right about not doing it until youre in love and completely ready. Just because your best friend and boyfriend have had sex, does NOT mean you need to do it too. Dont give into peer pressure but if they are pressuring you into it then you know they arent your true friends because friends dont force friends to do something they dont want to. Who really cares if people say youre a virgin especially when youre only 15 years old! I'm a virgin and PROUD OF IT! Good luck sweetie!!
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Don't let people with no respect cause you to cave in to doing something that you don't want to do. Stand up for yourself, and ignore the peer pressure. If they are so immature as to not respect your stance on sex, then that's their loss.
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