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hey everybody this is mary ann! im here to hopefully help you guys out with anything and everything.. leave me any questions! much love - mary ann

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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?

14/f

yea you should just kind of lead him on like get really close and lean in but dont do nething... and if that doesnt help you should make the first move!! but yea im jus like you i prefer not to make the first move but sumtyms a lil change is gud.... hope i helped!

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What should i do if my boyfriend says that other girls are hot in front of my face and makes me feel like crap haha, thanx :)

you should def. tell him cuz thats obviously not right... just tell him how you feel and see how things go! hope i helped!! =]

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I find the maker of this advice thingy sex-ay! What ought to I do?

you gotta tell the maker of this advice thingy that u think shes sex-ay ;) =]!!!! hope i helped ya!! x0xo

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hey...
i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy?

trust me everyones like that with their bf like in the beginning of the relationship... you'll loosen up over time!! x0xo

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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?

i dnt think most guys mind just as long as ther gettin kissed [haha!!] but yea if u do use lip gloss its jus gettin end up commin off ;) but yea it myt make it sticky tho so its really all up to u! hope i helped!! x0xo

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my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx

dats really cute a 2 yr relationship its hard to find nowadays!!! neways first i think u need to tell ur rents bout ur relationship trust me i think they'll b fyn with it cuz they went through da same things wen they were growing up. going to 2 diff. skools is definitely hard and it can b a challenge but if u guys really do love each other u guys can make it work.... x0xo

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alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same?

yea i kno how u feel the same thing kinda happened to me.... neways the thing is if he truly loved you y did he cheat on you??!! so although ur heart is telling you that you should get back together with him maybe right now is not the best time... wait awhile and see how things play out! hope i helped... x0xo!!!

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my ex-boyfriend, i still really like him..i would do anything for him..i invite him over everyonce in a while, and he invited me over to his house to watch a movie witch was really cool :) lol...and he always trys to make me laugh which i really really like, and my two friends think its so obvious that he likes me......? im not so sure of that, i wish he liked me...he knows that i like him...and i am too scared that if i ask him out he would regect me..what should i do?

u should prolly jus try to find out more bout how he feels but to me i think he still feelin u and still cares bout u so im sure it will all work out great. hope i helped =] x0xo

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Hi.. it's the 13 year old that can't get a boyfriend. How can i talk to boys if i'm really shy.. i'm scared of what ppl will think of me and stuff. There's this guy that goes to a different school that i really like but he doesn't like me.. and a guy that goes to my school acts like he likes me but i really don't know cuz i like him too.. what hould i do???????? ~*•LaRa•*~

u should try talkin to this guy that u think likes u cuz thats the best way to kno for sure if he truly does like u!!! my best advice to give to u tho is to really just start talking to guys a lot more and hang out with them trust me it will get easier over time! hope i helped =] x0xo

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I'm an 18 year old girl who has had a string of bad relationships. I'm seeing this guy, who I really care about and love spending time with. The only thing is that every time I feel myself getting close to him, I pull away because I'm scared of getting hurt. I've been hurt in the past and used to self harm and was very self-destructive. I want to be as involved in this relationship as my boyfriend is but I hate feeling vulnerable.

if ur afraid of gettin hurt then maybe u should try being single for awhile and c wut happens maybe being taken isnt the ryt way to go for u ryt now. hope i helped =] x0xo

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I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing?

well i jus ignore it... cuz its ur life not thers!

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xangsta?? is that it?? or iz it sumthing else?? i keep goin to www.xangsta.com... n sumthing else cumz ^ wutz going on??

lol i think you're talking about xanga.com =]

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Hi..i'm 13 and i'm a girl and i've been having having trouble getting a boyfriend and i really want one. if you ask me i don't think any boys like me.. i've had 2 boyfriends in the past, one in the fist grade and one in the 6th grade. i liked the one in 1st grade but not the one in the 6th grade.. how can i get a boy to like me and show it? i really want a boyfriend. All my friends have one and that makes me want one even worse!! PLZ help!!! ~l*a*r*a~

just try talking to a lot of them and take it slowly and try getting to know a guy really well and show him that the two of you can really get along and have the same interests! but remember just because all of your friends have bf's doesn't mean u have to have one cuz honestly sumtyms having a bf can b tough but it can also b really cute and sweet haha but just take it slowly!! hope i helped =] *mary ann*

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i love staying friends with my ex boyfriends because like its importnat to me to keep them as friends.. i mean all though were not together doesnt mean i dont care about them or still think there an awesome person... but it always seems like guys hate still being friends... so any guys wanna give me there opinion.. on friends after boyfriend .... thanks
~*a*M*y*~

ok well im not a guy so i shouldnt b answering but i couldnt help myself... but wut ur sayin is so true and it does seem that they hate communicating after breaking up but i think the deal is if u still care bout the person and you and your ex were actually still talking and hangin out and tellin each other everything... then the truth is the two of u aren't over each other yet! i feel the same way wit my ex like i still do care bout him but yea it seems like we're not as close but im sure it will get better!!! hope i helped xOxo =]

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can sumone help customize my xanga and show me how to work everything! plez my s/n is EcKo BaBi xO

yea sure u should check out my xanga well neways IM me on LaDyMaC864 if ya need help!

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is it possible to have a six pack at 13? i'm 4'11 and 85 pounds so i don't have too much fat to lose i dont think because im pretty skinny im not a bag of bones though.

yes it is a lot of my guy friends that are 13 and 14 have a 6 pack -- just work hard lol

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my bf.. is scared to do more than make out n so am i...like idk how far to go...neither does he...what can i do to make us both seem comfortable ..yet happy.. and still be going out lol ( cuz i dont wana mess up n stuff) just over sum move
and do guys mke the moves or do girls??

-- thanks

--- idiot on the loose

I think that two of you should do what makes both of you comfortable which doesn't mean that you have to do more than make out. Maybe holding hands and cuddling would also do for you guys but again don't do anything "extreme" just to fit in with the rest of the couples out there. and as for amking the moves (i honestly prefer the guy making the moves) but it doesn't matter it's all the same. But whatever the two of you decide to do just be careful.

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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year and now were goin to highschool... the only porblem is, hes going to a different one and im really woried that he might find someone else...we really love eachother and i dunno what to do or think. What do i do?

I think you should first of all see what happens over the summer like see if your love for each other actually grows because if it does then the two of you should be able to make it through high school. If the two of you really love each other then you guys WILL make it work but it's definitely going to be hard -- there's going to be a lot of ups and downs but you guys can make it work.

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i don't know what 2 say 2 brad...how can i confront him?! I think of him everytime the song "Pieces of Me" plays becuz i am comfortable around him....and i love him and i want 2 b able 2....write

awww thats really cute but u need to take it slowly and find out if he really does have feelings for you and then the both of you can take it frm ther!

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i need advice on what to do here... i am 14 and there's is this guy i like that is also 14...before school ended we went out for about a week. but he hardly ever talked to me. when we broke up he told me "that he liked me, but he like me, like me..." then he sadi he just wanted to be freinds...so i thought i could get over it, but we live on the same lake, so just about everyday i see him and i just think about when we went out. i still really like him. i dotn know what to do. help plz!

you def. need to get over him... maybe u should just try talking to him and see what happens if ne sparks come up again then maybe the both of u should give it one more try

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