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Question Posted Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:11 pm

I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing?

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aimz620 answered Sunday November 12 2006, 2:56 pm:
well.... i av my tounge dun my mates didnt like it but ow well its your tounge your lyf n if people
realli dow lyk it n u care wat they think then take it out!!!

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Maura answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:22 am:
All that matters is what you think of yourself. Dont worry about them. They'll get used to it even if they dont like it. Besides.... you're still the same person!

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xXKiSsMeXx answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 11:14 pm:
well you could probably buy those like clear fillers to put in your tounge so they dont really notice it as much, and if they still dont like it after that then theres not much you can do besides taking it out or keeping it (If it were me I'd keep it since you already went through with the pain of getting it pierced).

lol this might sound weird but I kinda want my tounge pierced too!! Did yours hurt a lot? I have my belly button pierced and I didnt think that hurt very bad, but I heard the tounge hurts A LOT! is that true??

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rockchik41 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 9:12 pm:
don't pay any attention to what they say. i happen to like tongue rings. all you should care about is what you think. if you like it, that's all that should matter.

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tommiegurlie23 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 8:28 pm:
HmMm if you like it WHO CARES! haha no but when you go to church you can put in a clear or nude colored one that blends in...hope it helps!
xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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cupidzxarr0w answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 5:00 pm:
ignore them... its ur body yu do wha yu want wid it as long as it d0esnt make a big effect on everyone... its jus yu`r tounge not a big deal... dun sweat it...yu shuld jus think that it makes yu happy that yu have it done.. so dun sweat it -haley

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ToOtSiE_PoP_816 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 4:15 pm:
Hey!!! Just ignore them. It's your tongue!!! LOL, just forget about them. You like it and that's all that matters. <3Kali<3

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Derailed_x_Dream answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 4:11 pm:
i want one soo bad..but its not their body dunt worry wut they think of it..

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Hotblonde123 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 4:06 pm:
Well I personally wouldn't worry about what they think. It was your choice and it's your body. You can also buy a filler to put in there. That's what I did untill my mom said it was ok for me to have one. Hope I helped

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hotcherry answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 3:40 pm:
Who cares what they think. If they don't like it, it's THEIR problem. Don't let it become yours. People have their own opinions on things...but you have to learn to just not care! If you like it, then that's all that matters.

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Chellz8 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 3:26 pm:
get a clear thing.. that goes through your tongue.. so you cant see it so no one has to kno n then when your friends are ready to accept you and the peircing you can put a noticable one in .. :)

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BabiiCakes514 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 3:14 pm:
well i jus ignore it... cuz its ur life not thers!

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Anarchilist answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:59 pm:
two words
"Fuck Off"

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munkeezRkool answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:58 pm:
tell ur friends to go fuck themselves. if they dont approve of it,,, then theyre missing out on a great friendship. As for church, be and Atheist or just stop going

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selectopaque answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:46 pm:
Your always going to be faced with people that will have a prejudice against your piercings. It's almost inevitable. Just tell them that your the same person even if you decide to get a piercing. Just be very mature about it, and let them know that your are just as respectable with your tongue pierced.

If they still will not accept you, then get a red tongue ring and you can wear that when you want it to blend in with your tongue.

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sarcasticgal1221 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:42 pm:
Its your piercing. If they don't like it, tell them to shove it.

I wouldn't know where to get one, but they make clear tongue studs. Maybe people won't be as offended by it if it isn't so noticable.

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adore_diz_mami answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:34 pm:
well, i think that u should of thought of it twice, before u got it.but if its bad to wear that tounge pierced, then the best thang to do it do take it off.Even tho u really love it.but its the best thang to do.

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:31 pm:
If your friends won't accept you over a little thing like a tongue piercing, then they arn't your friends at all. Tell them that it's your body, not theirs.

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AnDiE answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:26 pm:
if theyre really your frineds.. then they shuud mynd theyre own buisness

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xoBabiiGurlxo answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:23 pm:
As long as your sure that you want the piercing and you are happy with it, it shouldnt matter what other people think. Try explaining to them why you got the piercing. Maybe they'll understand.

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jj15 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:19 pm:
tell them it was ur choice , its a free country

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