alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same?
liddylflirtx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:29 am: What your boyfriend did was totally wrong, and it has caused you to lose your trust in him. You should talk to him and tell him that he means the world to you, but you're not sure that you want to be with him now that he has betrayed you. It doesn't matter if he cares or not - you need to tell him - and let him go. [ liddylflirtx3's advice column | Ask liddylflirtx3 A Question ]
Elementskater594 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:15 pm: you should DEF tell how how you feel. if you dont you will always regret it,i regret nvr telling me ex boyfriend that i still loved him and im still mad at my self. so tell him he probually still feels the same way about you. i hope you take my advie and if you have any more questions please put it in my inbox thanks!
MummuM answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:49 pm: I had an ex-boyfriend that did the same thing. He cheated on me, we broke up and a couple of weeks he was with a different chick. We still talked everyday on the phone and the computer. He told me he still loved me and that he wanted me back. He did dump the chick and we did get back together. I think you should talk to him about what your feeling and how much he does mean to you. Words unspoken hurts the most. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
XoXMeLiSsA13XoX answered Thursday August 12 2004, 8:47 pm: If he cheated on you, that doesnt show he cares, sorry, but you sound like your way to good for him, try to get someone better, and if there isnt any, just be independant, theres plenty of fish in the sea.. and so many guys who are good for you and dont cheat!
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OnErOxYcHiCkEz answered Thursday August 12 2004, 6:38 pm: well, he might be making you jealous because he's with some new girl. Don't let it bother you no matter what. Even though he says he still cares, I think it's ridiculous that he's saying that because, he had cheated on you with some girl. If i was you, I would give up and move on! [ OnErOxYcHiCkEz's advice column | Ask OnErOxYcHiCkEz A Question ]
BabiiCakes514 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 6:30 pm: yea i kno how u feel the same thing kinda happened to me.... neways the thing is if he truly loved you y did he cheat on you??!! so although ur heart is telling you that you should get back together with him maybe right now is not the best time... wait awhile and see how things play out! hope i helped... x0xo!!! [ BabiiCakes514's advice column | Ask BabiiCakes514 A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Thursday August 12 2004, 6:26 pm: sweetie you should definately give up on him. if he really loved you and cared about you then he would have considered your feelings before going out and doing what he did. my ex did that to me and i'd never take him back no matter how sorry he was. no girl or guy for that matter deserves to be cheated on. if you would never do that to him and he's done it to you then he's a jerk and he doesn't deserve to be loved if you're hurting and he feels sorry it's still his fault it was his mistake to let go of something that good. you seem like a nice girl and you don't deserve to be treated like that. no one does. my ex boyfriend cheated on me with a 17 year old girl (he's 14) they had sex and from what i hear from his friends she might be pregnant too. don't risk getting hurt again with that guy. hope i helped if you need anything drop one in my box, email me or IM me
MaMiLiCiOuS_23 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 6:18 pm: Though u really love him it woudlnt seem right to take him back... if u do he'll think that after what he did to you and you took him back newayz.. he can do it to you again and you would still recieve him with arms open. If he really wants you back than after things are forgotten after a while if he still wants you back it might work because he didnt go off and get more girls. PLEASE RATE!! PS>>> Never give up NEVER give in NeVER let a ray of dust slip and if U fall U will not fail ... U'll jus get up and try again Never lose hope NEVER lose faith there's much 2 much 2 take upon UR self u must depend (its a song) [ MaMiLiCiOuS_23's advice column | Ask MaMiLiCiOuS_23 A Question ]
Kissxme1121 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 6:14 pm: I would tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way then forget it isn't worth it. If he does like you again.. def. let him know that you WILL NOT be cheated on again cuz if he does once hes a gonner :) [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
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