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My ex boyfriend well i broke up with my ex boyfriend twice. reason being we didn't really go anywhere with eachother or have the chance to. well after the second time we broke up, we were talking online and he was saying some pretty rude, mean things to me. i told my friends about it and none of them really like him for what he said. then a few days later, he asked if we could get back together saying how he would be a better boyfriend and stuff like that..
i have been thinking and i really do like him still, but do u think i should give him a THIRD chance?? and if so should i care what my friends say..
thanks.. <3
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i think if you've already broken up twice, you shouldn't try again. that's just my opinion. i can't make you...if you want to, go ahead, but i advise against it. ]
no hes history if he said that to you. ]
really, i dont think he deserves another chance. especially if hes gonna say rude things about you! guys do that, i dont know why but they do, and the think that they can be rude to girls but get them back in a second. you need to show him that he cant just walk all over you then expect you to come back to him. if he wants u back he needs to be nice and respect you, so no matter how much you like him, dont just take him back because he says he'll change.
hope i helped!
<33 Jordyn ]
since you still like him you should DEF go out w| him again!if you have any more questions put it in my inbox ! thanks x3 becca ]
If you like him.. go for it...i have a tun of guys living in my house and the only way to show there "emotion" is to be mean unless you go out. IF you decide to go out start fresh dont go back to the way you started the other two times because you'll end up right back here. Your friends have a big part of this but its your decition dont let them infuence you to much!! much luck xox tere ]
2 chances is too much..... i'd know because me and this guy went out 9 times before because i was ignorant and i thought he loved me but finally we broke up and i've found better... plus he couldn't keep a relationship and he didn't know how to treat me... don't give him another chance if he was saying things to you. you don't deserve it. ]
If it didnt work out the 2 times what make it seem like it will work the 3rd time? And after he made rude commments? Seems to me he could be using you ? I hope not~ But whatever is in your heart you do what it says to ! ]
well i think you should 4give him and give him 1 more chance, but you have to tell him that this is his last chance.
~shelbynicole ]
No!! Why would you even want to Run back to someone who has ALREADY disRespected you! You don't need to be putting up with that; you can find betteR.. hell, you'd do betteR on youR own!! Just keep youR head up, and push foRward! Hope I helped!! =D ]
no, you dont want a reltaionship where u keep breaking up. and plus if he asks to get back and u go back after he says mean things to u he knows he has the upper hand in the relationship. I would say move on, u can find way better! ]
Well, lets see. If he apologized for the mean thingz and you were/are pretty sure that he meant it. I'd say yes. Give him another shot. But otherwise probably not. Ask yourself how much he means to you and how much you like him.
About your friends. I would say DONT care what they think no matter what happens... well for somethings you could... lol i know this is confusing but yeah.
What I would do would be give him another shot. If it doesnt work, the third time, you probably werent meant to be.....
REMEMBER--- THREES THE CHARM? WAIT IS THAT HOW THAT GOES? OWELL!!!ITS SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
LOL HOPE I HELPED.
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