I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do?
Hey, well i seriously think you needah call the cops. What her father is doing is a thing called ; RAPE! . Who cares about the college money thing, their are schlorships and she could get pregnant from her damn father, meaning, she would have a hard time going to college. if she thinks you shouldnt call the police, you still must need to do it. She will thank you in the long run, but maybe just not right now. but please do call the cops if you want to be a good friend, and your concerned. alright
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okay well im 14/f and i've shaved my down below area...now wenever i do it again it hurts b/c theres these little red dots and they start to bleed...please help me idk wat to do
Hey, the red dots are razor burn. and yes sometimes it does bleed, cuz its so sensitive down their. Just when you shave, dont shave it like everyday or whatever. You should atleast do it like once a week, and maybe two times a week. just not like everyday. and just use alot of shaving cream. ok that should help =]. `' xo [( Colleen )]
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Hey, I'm sorry if this grosses you out but it's just something that happens and I'm wondering if there is a reason why. Well I usually don't go #2 a lot, like people tell me you're supposed to go everyday but I only go like once a week sometimes longer, and it's not like I don't eat because I eat a lot and I don't gain any weight either, I'm 14 and weigh 100 pounds. So I'm wondering if that's normal or what I should do or any advice about that.
Thank you, I rate well.
Hey.. this means yur " Constapated " * u needa Tell a DOCTOR and they'll give u med to help yah go #2 ( poop ) trust me ii know!!
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omg i have tried ban, teen spirit, secret, and dove deodarants and none work for me! does anyone have any that work for them that may work for me? cuz i am tired of my shirt be wet from sweat underneath my armpits, and being afraid that someone is gonna see it...plz help!
well u Should try MEN DEODARENT:: Power Stripe, Right GAURD ETC* or um qo to a doc!
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okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..
so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me
well, if you dont want to be with yur current boyfriend right now, then i think u should break-up with him. alot of girls, after a while, start to get sick of the same guys! That usually Happens to me, cuz im such a big flirt! lol.. but anyway back to the subject. i think u should just Talk to him about and do it easily/nice! * Just say, i think we need to take a break now, and see what he has to say. Ask him if you 2 could still be friends though.
As for your ex, you might just be a little jealous right now cuz he goes out with someone that isnt you! This Happens to everyone, especially me! i`ll say i dont like him anymore, but when he goes with a dif. girl, i get jealous! Happens to everyone. So you may just be jealous..
But if you really do like him, then ii think u should sit down and talk him.. but if yah wanna get rid of him, do the thing we do best FLIRT !! haha
okay, Hope ii HELPED ! Feel Free to ask more.. and mah AIM SN is : BlinkBabex33
Luv Colleen *
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okay...all my friends tell me that i'm turning punk little by little...and most of my friends are punk. i listen to punk and am starting to dress punk too. if i totally change my style over christmas break do u think that the people in my school will call me a poser? i'm 13/f in 8th grade. thx...*changing*
Hey .. ii went through like the Same Stage! Just take your changing step by step ( little by little ) and people shouldnt call u a poser, and if they do, forget them! ugh when i was in that stage, i hated when people called me a poser, because ii Have etnies! lol.. But yeah, usually punk people dont care what others say, so u shouldnt either! go with how u feel not others! okay .. i/m me at: BlinkBabex33 * Colleen
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k, i'm 5'4", 116 pounds, long brown hair to the bottom of my back, greenish eyes, long legs, and i'm wondering what would be some make up/fashion styles be for me. i have really fair skin if that helps any, i'd just like some tips to look cuter/hotter/whatever
please and thank you
Heyy ..
* ii think if u want yur Haiir CUT, then to yur Shoulders about and get Angles in the Front, and Layered ON THE BOTTOM! * But if yah dont want it cut and u want it to stay long, you should get the angles and the layers.. Also, if yur hair is frizzy or wavy, you should Straighten IT ! For The Makeup you should use some black eyeliner and maybe a pink or gold eyeshadow.. for Clothes, you should get tight Jeans and Cute Small TOPS.. Stores= Aeropastal, American Eagle, and just Gurl Stores.. SOme Hoop Earrings, and a cute lil Purse! And yu`ll be looken Beautiful in NO TIME! lol.. ok well Hope ii Helped x33 * Luv Colleen *
Aim: BlinkBabex33
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so how come everybodys into scrunching their hair now(not that i havent tried it)??? anyways...is there any other way i can get my "scrunch" to hold without adding hairspray? it makes my hair stick out....i add gel to make the curls and then i add the spray to hold it...can i do this without adding spray? will it still hold?
yes i've always Just used gel! You can also use moose to .. but no i never used HairSpray to hold the curls.. JuSs make sure you scrunch it good and it should stay! If you wanna know how to scrunch your hair really good Just ask me cuz i know how well! lol.. My AIM sn is : FeelingThis07x and my email is : XxColleen91@yahoo.com .. Drop one!
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well .. i try to scrunch my hair but i cant for sum reason ! i want to scrunch it but i really dont kno what to do cuz my hair is kind of thick but not that thick .. does anybody kno a way that i can .. or any other cute hairstyles ?
Alright.. well my Hair isnt too Thick but my sister is! .. Well you must make sure yur hair is wet and then u flip your hair upside down like your facing the floor! you then use gel or moose and put it in your hand and grab peices and squeeze them to your scalp and do your hold head a couple of times.. u can go fast and crazy it doesnt matter.. then you flip your hair back over and fix it up and make lil touch ups!
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well i havnt had my period and i take a shower everyday and stuff but i keep having this like gupy sticky white wet stuff comin out of well u no....and its always wet down there and i dont no y....it also smells bad. Is there sumthin wrong with me? What is this?
no.. this is perfectly normal.. The gooey stuff is called : Discharge.. and yes sometimes it does smell .. where do you think it coming from? in your body ! lol.. But yeah .. its normal and you shouldnt worry ..* It also means u might be getting your period soon, so good luck ! anymore help i/m me at : FeelingThis07x or email : CrayzeelilDancax7@comcast.net
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ok how do you get your hair to look like wet but wavy or well not wavy but i dont know! well if you have any idea on what i'm talking about how do you get your hair to look liek that? thanx!
Well i think your talking about Scrunched Hair* where the hair is like curley and wet? Well if thats what your talking about im a expert at it .. lol.. I do it alot* Okay .. well this is how you do it : First you gota make sure your hair is wet! you then flip your hair over like your looking at the ground and you put gel in your hands .. you then grab your hair and scrunch from the bottom of your hair and move it up to your head and do it all over your head untill its good.. then you flip your hair back over and fix it up and then scrunch a lil more* and good job! lol.. anymore help im me at : FeelingThis07x or email me at : CrayzeelilDancax7@comcast.net .. alright
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My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(
Hey.. Don't worry !! you Did the exact right thing and you should very proud of yourself even if you seem bad! Not most friends can do that, but luckily you did, Because sometimes the boyfriends go outa control and could end up killing the girlfriends! You should never beat/make them do something, and your friend really is scared and know you did the right thing but doesnt want to use that feeling right now! Eventually she will thank you* but for now just give her some time, and BE proud of yourself for saving someones life.. DONT do any harm to yourself ! please dont.. if you needa friend I/M me at : FeelingThis07x !! bye Hope everything works out
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0k im 13/f. i have bl0nde leg hair s0 i have put shaving 0ff f0r awhile. n0w i feel like i sh0uld start, s0 i need a little help. h0w d0 i shave¿ im afraid im g0nna cut myself! please give me a g00d 0utline 0f what i need t0 d0. als0, is it the same meth0d for the armpits 0r n0¿ thank y0u f0r n e help! i will rate :)
Hey .. You shouldnt be scared, becuase yes it is JuSs like your armpits but more to shave! Well you put shaving cream/gel on your legs and make sure the legs r wet.. then you juSs shave up your legs but dont dig into your skin and when u go on your knee be more careful cuz your knee it the hardest to shave ! Any more HELP JuSs ask
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Hey! I'm going back to school on Thursday and I'm all set but there are two problems: I don't know what to do with my hair and how I should do my makeup. Well here's a little information about me: I'm 5'5, tan skin, blue/green eye, and I have dark brown shoulder length hair. For the first day of school, I'm gonna wear cute tight jeans, a cute polo shirt that has a few buttons unbuttoned with a tank top underneath. What should I do with my hair like straighten it, scrunch it, etc and how should I do my makeup like what eye shadow and eye liner colors and etc? Thanks!
Okay .. well i would say u should Straighten yur Hair for the first Day of schooL! I think it would look rly Cute n then like the next day or the 3rd day Scrunch it! Make up that would probably look really cute on u is Black eyeliner on the bottom n top of the eye but make sure its not too thick and maybe a pinkish Eyeshawdow color or a goldish Color! I Hope I helped .. u sound really pretty though.. By the way How old r u .. you can I/M mE at CheerinlilDanca8 !!
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Hey,
I really want to lose weight but ever time I diet
I don`t lose anything!
What should I do!
Okay .. well Try exercising and dont keep going back to all That Junk food anyway! You can try to do about 64 crunches a day and Running/Jogging/Walking. If you need anymore Help Ask me
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i hate my body .. like.. im 5'0'' nd i wiegh like.. 140.. but im muscular nd all .. but like.. i could lose wieght.. nd i needa find ways to lose weight.. what kinda excersises work.. FAST.. and like.. to top it off i have like the slowest motablisim lol.. so that sucks.. but im in alot of sports.. but it seems like them never lose any thing
grr so i just need a lil help here lol.. thanks!
Okay .. well Try eating more Healthier food like a salad and not 2 much Fast Food like McD* Also if you want your stomach in shape do alot of crunches a day like 80 .. Dats what I sometimes do ! Also you may wanna run/jog/walk more! Alot of excersises work as long as you do them everyday and be sure to drink plenty of water! Hope I helped
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I'm a student that needs the time to figure school work out... and take my time on stuff... but between HorseBack Ridin, School Work, My Babysitting Jobs, and an Athletic Trainer after school.. well I just don't know how to balance it.. any advice?
" Ask Lia "
Okay .. well First you should make a Scheulde Thingy with all your times and stuff you Have to do. You will see some days when your available and the days you aren't ahead of time for you wont scheulde anything on something your doing. If im confusing you JuSt IM me ill explain it easier :: CheerinlilDanca8 .. This also happen to me to cuz i have to baby sit everyday after school and i do dance and cheerleading and all!! Well Hope i Helped!
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my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?
Well deep down your mom knows that it is bad but she doesnt want her relationship with her boyfriend to end! That happens to alot of parents! They seem to be scared of their boyfriends and they might get hurt if they do something bad. You and your mom really need to go to counciling and you need to tell your mom again! If she doesnt listen.. go to your school's !! Hope i helped
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shud i shave completly down there? or not? jw
well it all depends to u if u want it all gone or to leave some cuz People do it all different.. So If u want it all gone Do it and if u dont want it all gone and u wanna leave some leave some.. Hope i Helpped !
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Hey~!~
I need lots of help this year I get to wear make up, and I don`t what color Eye Shadow colors that are big this year~!~ I have bule eyes and blonde hair, what color do you think that would look good on me?¿. If you have any good ideas tell me~!~
Hey .. well their arent really color that r in .. But i would probably say Pink would look good on you! You might wanna add black eyeliner 2 !! Any more ? ASK !!
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