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my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?
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I hate to say this but your mom is WRONG and in NO way right!! this doesnt happen to many girl at all !!! this is something serious and you NEED to tell somebody now!! the cops, another adult, anybody that can help! plz!!
lemme kno how it workz out plz..im worried for you. thnx.
*aSh*
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talk to a teacher or an adult that you absolutely trust; like a school counselor or something like that...it DEFINATELY does NOT happen to lots of girls, and it is NOT fine! hope it helps!
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call the cops gurl, thas not normal and definatly not right. if u dont do somn about it, then it will haunt ur for life
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What i would do is go to like a teen help line or call the cops
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Its not ok... it does happen to a lotta PEOPLE not just girls... guys too... but that doesnt mean that its ok... u should go to therapy... it's supposed to help a LOT
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Therapy can help alot. You have to find a way to deal with this, because it'll be 10 times worse if you try to keep it all bottled up inside. If your mom doesn't want you in therapy, you can contact a rape crisis center. They can help you deal with this heavy burden.
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talk to a school counsler or try telling ur mom how u feel
hope i helped
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i think that you should talk to your mom and explain to her how scared you were and tell her everything that happened and if she still doesn't understand then you should maybe talk to a different family member
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OMG... youR MotheR doesn't even caRe??? Jesus... to hell with youR heR.. go STRAIGHT TO THE POLICE!!!!!!! Really.. you need to be smaRt about this.. do the Right thing!! EveRything will be okay, I pRomise!! I wish you the veRy best!! Hope I helped!
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thats COMPLETELY not cool!!! and NOT normal! ur mother should not feel ok about u getting molested!!! u need to get help! therapy will help...even the police will help! u jsut need to get that guy out of ur house! the sooner the better. if u got a dad i would call him, i think he would be the best person to talk to. i know my dad would get me out of there. trust me u gotta get out of there.
good luck, im praying for u!
HOPE I HELPED
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Hmm.. well you should totally molest him back. Good luck with that.
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Your mom said that it was fine that her boyfriend molested you!? That is not right at all.. you need to tell someone! I dont care who.. The police anyone.. that is rape. and that is wrong... God damn.. People today. But.. I'm sure therapy would help.. Here in NY they have these Abuse/rape like hot line or groups that you can join where other people are going through the same thing as you. You should check around and see if your town or state has anything like that. I'm sure that would help out a great deal to be with other people how understand what your going through...
I hope this helped.. Sorry I freaked out a little..
~*Jackie~*
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Dude you need to tell the police! because your mom can get into trouble for not caring. And obviously he'll get into trouble as well! You need to get help and go to a therapy program so you can have someone to talk to. Best wishes to you!
-holly-
hope i helped
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First,you need to report this to the police. This guy is a real prick who'll do it again. Secondly,your mom is hiding this guy for whatever reason and she needs a good punch in the face. Your mom is on his side,not yours,it appears. This doesn't happen to a lot of girls,she's lying to you. Go see someone if it'll make you feel better,but you really need to make sure the police know about this guy.
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I think you should tell another adult. Like a trusted teacher or somethin.ITS NOT OKAY!It does happen to a lot of girls but it should becuz its wrogn!good luck!
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first of all, not to hurt your feelings or anything but... what the hell is wrong with your mother??? her god damn boyfriend MOLESTED YOU! you as in her DAUGHTER! she shouldn't think it's FINE and that it happens to alot of girls. yeah she's half right about it happening to alot of girls but no it's not FINE!! you need to talk to your mom about it tell her that you're scared you are! and please for the remainder of the time STAY AWAY FROM THIS GUY! if he does it again do NOT hesitate to call the cops!
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Well deep down your mom knows that it is bad but she doesnt want her relationship with her boyfriend to end! That happens to alot of parents! They seem to be scared of their boyfriends and they might get hurt if they do something bad. You and your mom really need to go to counciling and you need to tell your mom again! If she doesnt listen.. go to your school's !! Hope i helped <3
*_Colleen_*
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i think you should talk to your mom again tell her that your really scaried and dont lyk that this happened! tell her your upset and juss need to get some help and if your in school tell a consuler but you should probably call the police and tell them you can not let your moms boyfriend get away wit that cuz its wrong and you shouldnt have to go live wit it ... and im sure you dotn want him to do it to any other girls! and about your mom juss cuz it happens to alot of girls doesnt mean its alrite! thats horrible and im sorry that you had to have that happen! its ridicioulous that she thinks that, thats all well and good cuz its most defintely not! its disguestin and completly wrong!!
i really hope i helped if you neeed anymore advice or have anymore questions drop one in mah inbox or juss IM me at brunetebarbie0x ~rate mee~ thanx bye
<3.Taylor.marie
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If your mom doesn't care that her boyfriend molested you, there's something wrong. if you have a school counselor, I would talk to them. tell your mom that you should go together.
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what you should do is call the police... your mom is totally wrong- sry to b so aggressive but besides going to therapy you need to tell someone so he doesnt do it to you again! hope i helped ~nyladi~
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Okay, first of all, it is NOT fine that he molested you. Just because it happens to a lot of girls does NOT make it okay, and she needs to know that. If you want to go to therapy, insist on it. Tell her she may think it's fine that her boyfriend molested you, but you certainly don't, and you want to go to therapy.
That guy should not be around you. He should be reported...
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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No offense but I think your mom is being a jerk! Is she still with this guy???? If so, call the police and file a report for sure. Never let ANYONE get away with something like that. Talking about it helps so yes, you should go to therapy. If it builds up in you it could lead to bad things. Sorry to hear about your problem and I hope you get everything straightened out.
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hey, what kind of mom would think that youre fine after that? go to therapy...now!
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