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I cant take it anymore!!
OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
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FED UP!
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That is really rude of your friends to not listen when you try to explain. I would just say, "Fine, if you're not gonna listen, you're just gonna have to deal with a NEW me". If they are going to not be friendly to you, try hanging out with some new people. That way, if they drop you completely, you'll have other people to turn to. Good luck to you! Well, I'm off!
~Cayd
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Tell them if they have such a big problem that u have changed, they shouldnt be friends with u anymore! i'm sure they'll soon change in ways, just tell them to except the fact u have changed!
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If they are true friends, they should accept you for who you are. If they don't, then they don't deserve your friendship. Maybe you should find other friends who will share you interests.
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Dont worry with what they say. If you want to become skater than do it. Dont worry with what they say. Hope i helped .. =)
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u need to b really serious with them when u talk to them. tell them u r serious and that u are fed up with them bein mean 2 u. if they keep bein mean to u forget them, or just give them a taste of their own medicine. hope i helped! rate me!
xoxo, maris
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im the same as u...im like a sk8er prepish type thing. but my friends dont care. there isnt much u can do. i would look for friends that like u for ur little skater self. cuz lets face it skaters have more fun! but n e way i think ur friends are acting like jerks, i would just make new firends untill ur friends get back to normal. im sure over time it will blow over.
if u have n e more problems drop one in muh inbox!!!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
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well obviously ur friends dont accept you for who u are, and if i were you i wuld try to find sum people who do. yeah i know leavin ur friends is hard. but explain to them that if they cant accept you, then u are going to find people who will....
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Ok so your problem pretty much is that you arent the way your friends WANT you to be, right?.. well screw em.. cuz if they cant except you for who you are.. or what you wanna be...then you dont need friends like that.. seriously..I myself have turned a little "punk-rock" if thats what you wanna call it.. and luckily, my best friend did the same thing.. so really its a matter of liking you for who you are.. not the way you dress and whatnot.. hope i helped!:-)If you need more help with anything.. my screen name is JordieOpiee
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Hi there,
Your friend have got to realise both your fashion and life style are your choice and its not fair for them to keep making these comments - BUT it would also be helpful for you to realise why their doing it. Your their friend and they liked you as you where, this change has come as a shock to them and they probably confusing a fashion change with a personality one. You say you've tried taking to your friends and that didn't work - well, to be blunt with you your going to have to try again because theirs really little else you can do. Keep it blunt and to the point: "look I have not changed, this is just a fashion, I'm still me and the way your acting is really upsetting and confusing me - do you still want to be friends now I'm a skater because I don't know what to think." If you put it like that they can't exactly not give you a straight answer. You'll more than likely find their upset they made you feel this way as it certainly won't have been their intention I'm sure.
Good luck, you can sort this and remember, experiences like this are just part and parcel of growing up so don't panic!
Derfel
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Find new friends.
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well you cant help what you like can ya? and what kind of friends would be mean to you just because you like something they dont? im sorry, but i dont think they are very good friends to act that way.
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dear fed up:
If ur friends cant handle u trying to do something different in ur life then really i dont think that they are ur friends at all...if they are then they should be behind u 100% with what evern you do
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If you choose to be a little "skater" its your choice, and if theyre really your friends, theyll understand. what you wear, and what sport u choose is completely your decision, and if theyre mad @ u for doing what you want, then that's theyre problemo.
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its okay to change. If thats what you wanna be, then its wrong of them to try to stop you from doing something you like. Never change just to make someone happy so if they don't like it they're just gonna have to deal with it, they'll come around eventually.
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hey, well first of all so what if your turning into a skater they shouldnt have a problem with it, if they were your really friends then they would back you up even if you were turnin gothic! but maybe you should make new friends who accept you for you!!! :) i hope i helped you out <3
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It's just your style of clothing that changed, kind of?
People need to understand that clothes don't make a person or a personality. Just because I wear a lot of black doesn't mean I'm not currently the happiest girl in the world. I mean, I'm known for wearing black jeans and black shirts and studded belts one day, and wearing a pink shirt with a khaki skirt the next. Lol.
Try talking to them again. Point out to them that everyone changes. If you didn't change, life would be boring...Besides, they can't tell you how to dress, or how to act.
If they they can't accept your changes, and who you're turning into, they're probably not very good friends, I'm sorry to say. They need to be aware of what they're doing.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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If they don't wanna accept you then i think you should just find new friends. If they wont accept you there not friends anyways. Try findin people you have more stuff in common with. GOOD LUCK! TELL ME HOW IT WORKS OUT!
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