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Question Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 7:36 am

i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy?

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babiiilaura2000 answered Sunday April 17 2011, 3:02 am:
Hey. I was in your situation at one point. I
just kept telling myself " Im his girlfriend, He must love me to be going out with me". Dont worry about being shy , Just spend time with each other and keep remembering that your his girlfriend because he wants to be with you. If you still cannot over come the shyness talk to him about it and if he knows your shy around him maybe he can help you be less shy. Just keep remembering & keep smiling :)

Good Luck x

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 1:30 am:
spend more time together and you will lighten up trust me

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blinkgurlbritt182 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:43 pm:
Heyhey Hun,

If he's your boyfriend you should be shy around him. Probably the reason your shy around him is because your afraid of whats he's going to think or your scared that your going mess up around him. Try talking to him more and more and gradually you'll gain more confidence around him.
Hope this helped.

<3 xox Britt

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Nataliiee_xO answered Saturday August 14 2004, 3:24 pm:
Pah i wouldn't know..i'm like that too...sorry..

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adore_diz_mami answered Saturday August 14 2004, 2:04 pm:
i feel u, i used to be shy to.But then i realize why i was shy.and it was bcuz i really didnt knew my b/f.and i couldnt act like myself.Cuz i barely knew him..but if thats the case.then u should try talkin to him more.Ask Him questions.but U should never be shy around your b/f. just act like yourself..It taught me a lesson! I hope this work. Good luck!

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pinkie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:22 pm:
if your normally shy then i dont no what to say. but if your not then just be your self!

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Chellz8 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 12:58 pm:
just open yourself up.. and know that your comfortable in front of him.. and by being outgoing.. nothings hurt ..

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mxer4JESUS514 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:59 am:
well sweetie just be yourself around him if he can't except you for who you are then he isn't worth and if you can't be yourself around him then you shouldn't even be with him!! GOD fearfully and wonderfully made you to be who you are just go be yourself everything will work out according to GODs plans! I believe everything happens for a reason! tell me how it goes! hope i helped! Love ya always!

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BabiiCakes514 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:41 am:
trust me everyones like that with their bf like in the beginning of the relationship... you'll loosen up over time!! x0xo

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cailoisa answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:27 am:
I was always really shy around my first boyfriend, even after we had been together for six months. I thought that it was just me, but after we broke up and I started dating someone else, I found out that maybe it was him. I'm always outgoing and talkative around the guy I'm with now. If you're just starting out, give it some time. If you've been together for a while, take a good look at your relationship and find out if it's him or you.

Other than that, try finding things to talk about. Watch the news to get up on current events, watch movies or TV shows that he likes, or find anything else that you can talk about while you're together. Then take a deep breath and give it a try. Remember, he's your boyfriend, try your best just to relax and have fun!

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xogiggles37xo answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:24 am:
if you guys just started going out thats whats gunna happen for a while untill you 2 get erally close. a good way not t obe shy around him just think hes no big deal. think of him as a guyfriend that you normally would fool around with. {{just dont say anything that crazy}} have fun with him and enjoy every second.

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BeachGurl31187 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:26 am:
Don't worry im sure that this is a new relationship... You just have to get to kno him better... The beginng of the relationship is always fun because you get to kno a person that you are attracted to and that u never knew before... I'm sure he probably feels the same way.. I bet when it's ur 3 month anniversary you will feel comfortable with him and you won't be shy... But if you feel like u said or did something stupid and it embarssed you then act it off by laughing... Don't worry.. It happens to everyone.. Good Luck!

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HurleyGurley answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:13 am:
hey just get to know him better and you guys will eventually get close, i had the same problem and then i realized that we were best friends before and i didnt want this "going out" to ruin our friendship, just be yourself around him and talk to him more! :) xoxo

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iCEd_lAttE_x0x answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:55 am:
i am just the same! a lot of girls get kind of shy around guys they like bcuz they dont want to say anything stupid . .but just remember when u talked befor u were going out . .he must of liked who u really were and asked you out so just be the preson u are . .thats who he wants to be around
iCEd lAttE x0x

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KateStar1011 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:23 am:
Sometimes people are shy around there boyfriends, because of so many thoughts that go through a guy and girls head when you guys are dating.
You can't really stop being shy, because once you have started, it's hard to stop. All I can tell to relax around him. Find out more things about him that you couldn't find out because you were all up tight. I'm sure you are yourself, but in some ways not,'re being shy. You just need to loosen up, and have fun. It'll take time,'ll work.
I hope I helped, have a great day! <3

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