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Q: ok see heres the thing about a year ago i broke up with this perfect guy for no good reason. and i have liked him ever since. i really regret it and i wish i could go back in time and still be with him. But next year i might get the chance see hes a year older that me and next year ill be going to his school. Hes is going out with this girl i know but i wouldnt call her a friend but anyway. i dont know what to do i know i still like him and i have been trying to stop for a year you know trying to like other guys and stuff but i always find myself thinking about him so i dont know if i should make an effort to i dont know call him up one day but ithink that would be very occward cause we havnt talked since we went out. so should i wait till next year or should i do something now. PLEASE HELP.
mabea you should wait till next year to see him. but if its really bothering you that bad, mabeaa you should call him just to talk or tell him you still like him. sorry i couldnt come up with a better answer, but thats all i got

Q: i have a friend whos really annoying and is always calling me..she never leaves me alone and calls me like 39472 times a day!what should i do?
thats tough. maebea your friend looks up to you, but if it bothers you mabea you need to tell her. but if she calls just to talk, then she needs to get a sn or something. sry i couldnt help!

Q: i like this guy but he doesnt no it. we're friends and all im just really shy around him. should i tell him i like him and put our friendship at stake or not and keep on liking him forever without him noing?
HELP!!!!

love sick
well if you want him to like you with out you telling him, then mabea you should tell one of his friends that you no or something. but if you just want to be freinds, then try not to be shy.

Q: hey whats up... have u evenr made out with a guy or anything, yet? (or are you a lesbo?) jw, because u seem like u no what ure talking about. btw, what types of guys do you like?
ive never made out with a guy. im not a lesbo. and i like sweet, funny guys that always have something to talk about and like you no matter if your having a bad hair day or not. . . how does that help you?

Q: Are the new colored ipods any different that the original ones? (like other than the color, like do they do anything else?)
no they are just a differnt color. they dont do any thing differnt to answer your question.

Q: ok so theres this guy and i think i like but im not sure..how do i no if i like him for sure
if you really like him you will know. but i dont know what to say b/c i cant make up your mind

Q: What color should i wear to bring out my blue eyes?? ... thanks!!
you should absolutely wear some light colors. im talking about some pastle colors.

Q: wen i talk to the guy i like on aim, he never talks back. very little. im thinking that he nos thats why but im not sure. he isnt shy hes out going and im so confused. pleze help.
i rate
its ok. you think hes not shy but mabea hes just shy around you b/c he nos that u like him

Q: does anyone know how to delete questions you asked off of your "Your Questions" list??? i really want to delete one of my questions so i need to know how!!!!
nope ive tryed. it dosent work

Q: (I'm 14) I've been going out with my bf for awhile, and I always knew that he USED to smoke pot, and stopped like 6 months ago,and sometimes drinks a lot because of family problems...Well about 3 weeks ago he left a voice message saying he wouldn't be able to call because he got grounded because he "got caught doing something...very bad" and wouldn't tell me what it was, well his parents disconnected his phone and I found out yesterday from his friend justin (i had to practically beat it out of him...because he was afraid i'd go off killing my bf or something...) that his parents caught him smoking (which explains why he cant run 2 miles anymore) and that he used to have a big stash of cigs in his room, but that he quit after his parents caught him...then he asked if i was gonna break up with him, i said "i have no idea" And i haven't talked to him because he's grounded, and as selfish as it is, it pisses me off..

I dunno what to do, should I break up with him or not? I know all my friends will say I should, because I'm in the "good" group of friends, a lot of them go to church and have very strong beliefs and have never done any of that stuff,(we live in a small town in farmersville u.s.a so that stuff is a big deal) I'm in with them...but barely (my family is screwed up) it's like i'm teetering on the edge of good and bad...and i always fall for the messed up guys, and I know my bf is messed up..but i love him, and I don't know...he's never pressured me or ANYTHING, he's not like that, but I know dating someone with that many problems isn't good and will lead to problems, because drugs and alcoholism run in MY family too..but no matter what he does i can't hate him

Any advice would be lovely, and I rate =)
i think he sounds like a good guy ( exept for the drinking+stuff) b/c he hasnt pessured you in to it all. but i seriously think that you should talk to him n stuff

Q: hey guys! well there have been so many questions about the latest fashions and what to buy for school schools, but do u have any advice on bad fashion? like what things should we stear clear of at the mall this season
out
-limited too
-shirts that say "princess and "angel"
-plad-lol

Q: this one ugly girl likes me, and another girl likes me that is hotter, but i dont like her. im not trying to sound greedy or anything, but i dont like either of them (one of them always trys to get my attention) and the other im just friends with.

plz help!

-anonymos
if you dont like them then you cant do any thing b/c you cant make some one not like you. so im sry but your gunna have to deal with it

Q: ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!

signed, scared n wants to stop!
if you stop(wich will be good for you) and if he dosent like you, then hes not the right one.

Q: Ok, I need makeup tips. I'm 5'8, dirty blonde hair a lil past my shoulders, hazel eyes, fair skin, nd i guess an ovel shaped face. Do u have any color suggestions or makeup tips in general? thanks
mabea some light pink/dark pink eyeshadow and some black/brown mascara

Q: do guys prefer blondes or brunettes?
if they like you, then it wont matter what color ur hair is.

Q: I need makeup tips for school but i need very very light make up tips cuz my mom doesnt want me wearing alot i am black brown eyes and black hair please help ill rate good if i like it....
i use a light pink eyeshadow, and a black/brown mascara. i also have a shimmery lip gloss. i personaly dont like eyeliner, but do want you want.

Q: the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(
pleeze! dont waist your virginity on some guy at school. wen you find the right guy that your going to marry, then do want you want. im not trying to sound like a health teacher but that should wait.

Q: hey i want to build my own site for all my friends to see and other ppl to see so i was wondering what r some sites besides geocities. also i want websites that u can have music on. please help.thanks
xanga is a kool website that you can create and have music. www. xanga.com

Q: is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high!
if she is really your friend then she wont mind

Q: whats H&H
its a music store where if you want you can go there to get lessons.

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hey yall this is avery! if you dont know, i go to sartartia middle in sugar land, tx and im in 8th grade. ill be happy to answer your questions, so go ahead!

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