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Best Friends Ex B/f!
is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high!
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Okay don't panic I am here ot help. It is not wrong to date your best friend's ex boyfriend if you clear it with her first. I mean it is your best friend. You just just tell her the situation and be honest with her. Say he likes me I like him is it alright with you if we date. It will show respect. I had to do it with my friend. She was cool with it because she didn't have feelings for him anymore. If your friend says it's fine you are int he clear but if she doesn't you should tell the ugy she doesn't and just be like hey I like you a lot but she is my best friend and I don't want to ruin my friendship with her so for now all we can be is friends until she is okay with it. He will either be cool if it or not. If he isn't he doesn't like you as much as he says. Your best friend should also be okay with it because you are her best friend and she should want you to be happy. If she isn't though you need to tell her that you and him are goign to be friends whether she likes it or not and make her deal with it. You can be friends with him no matter what. I hope I helped. Thanx hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer
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I don't think it's wrong to date you bestfriends ex. But, find out if your bestfriend likes him, because it's a hole different story. If she does like him, try to back off a bit and find a new crush. If she doesn't like him, go for it, ask him out! =)
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Go out with him...yu cant help it if he loikes you nd yu like him!
she isnt goin out with him anymore and she has to relize that hes not hers anymore!
go out with him and have a fun time yu also have to talk to yur friend about it cuz yu just cant sit there nd let yur whole life go to waste juss because of her!
hope yu do0 wut is best!
Always `> MarLo
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.:*Well...Umm...Maybe yooh should talk it out w/ yur BFF. If she is a true friend then she should understand. If she doesn't understand then maybe it's time to just say screw her & just go w/ her ex. just for the hell of it. ((hehe)) Luv yooh BuNcHeS like Cap'n CrUnChEs.*:.
xoOx. Mwah.
AsHLeY
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depends on your frined... l0l.. but if ur frind freaks out.. then idk? but if you really like him... and she doesnt then she shuudnt have a problem with it.. i did that b4.. l0l.. and mai friend lyk.. was happy me and her ex was going out.. and yea.. it depends on ur frined.. l0l.. srry if thys sucked..
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Dude, it's a known fRiendship Rule to neveR date a fRiend's ex - it's off limits. HoweveR, if you Really want to caRRy this out, ask heR how'd she feel if the two of you got togetheR. She may not be okay with.. which, if you place youRself in heR shoes.. *may* be undeRstandable. And if it tuRns out that she is NOT okay with it, I'd leave it be... it's pRobably not woRth jepoaRdizing youR fRiendship with heR oveR!! Goodluck; Hope I helped!!
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Okay Tell ur friend that ur going on a date with him.she will freak but will calm down because if she really is your friend she will know that u like him an he likes u!
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Ask your best friend if she still has a thing for this guy.. if she says know say are you sure and ask if she owuld mind if you got close.. make sure she is telling the truth and not just telling you what you want to hear.
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its not wrong unless your bff still likes him. ask her if she still has feelings for him. if not then ask her if she would mind if you two hooked up. the only thing u can do is talk to her about it. most likely she'll understand.
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No its not.
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If you want to keep your friendship with your best friend then i highly recomend that you DON'T date him! If she gets jealous when you just hang out with him then she obviously still likes him! and if you date him then that would seriously hurt her!! I know it would be hard to turn him down since you really like him too, but a friendship is most likely to last longer than a relationship with a guy. Go find someone new, i'm sure there are a lot better guys out there for you then him...
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Hey, it's not wrong inless your best friend is over him. Just tell her how you feel, and hopefully she will understand.
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There is nothing wrong about dating your best friends ex boyfriend because they are not together anymore just tell her you like him and you going to spend time with him and you hope that your friendship with her doesn't end over a boy!
-Juicy
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if she is really your friend then she wont mind
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Miss.youwanthim,
lets just say if you had an ex that really like your best friend. n shee went out with him. would you be pissed? now i wouldnt. i would rather chill with both of them. but if she gets mad at you cuz of jus sayin hi or what ever. then you should talk to her about it.
xox ManDA xox
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I think if your going to go out with her ex boyfriend she should know so be sure to tell her but if she really cared about him alot i would think it wouldnt be the best thing to go out with him becuz she might still have feelings for him and if it wasnt that long ago that they broke up then i would wait and talk to her if you decide to do anything. she might still be mad or upset but atleast you didnt go behind her back and do anything which would make the whole situation much worse
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depends when they broke up. If it wasn't too long ago, then maybe you should talk to her or wait, but if they broke up like a month ago, or even like a year ago, tell her what your going to do, then do it.
BECOMING OFF TOPIC I remember me and my friends all liked the same guy, so eventually one of us asked him out, if any of the couples didn't work out good we promised each other that we could all take out turn to see how it would work out, if it was just a bad relationship, then we waited a week, if sum1 really cared but then the relationship split we waited a month
GETTING BACK ON TOPIC- it really depends how long it was, and if they had serious feelings, talk to the friend at see how she feels
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I would talk to her about how you feel and that you want to go out with him. See her reaction..if she doesnt like the idea, then maybe you should back off until shes over him. Who knows..she might be ok with it. I think you should be able to chill with him though..why is she getting mad about that? Talk to her about that too if you want. Dont let a guy ruin your friendship. :)
-hope i helped
-melissa-
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NO!! of course its not wrong!! its her X-BF, so why should she care? its not like ur stealing him from her, they BROKE UP! If you like him, and he likes u, GO FOR IT!!
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Well i would talk to your friend about how your feeling and see how she feels about it and if she still has feelings for this guy.And if she does and doesnt like the idea of you being with her ex boyfriend then maybe you should just be friends with him because you dont want to let a guy come between you two!So just talk to your friend and she how she feels about it!Good luck and hope everything works out:-)
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