ask xOSweEtKittEnxO



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



HEy mY nAmE is AshLeY AnD Im 15 I lIvE In WaShInGtOn, bUt Im FrOm VeNtUrA, CA! umm I LoVe To DaNcE aNd hAvE fUn AnD Go SHOPPING! aNd WhEn iM bAcK In CaLiFoRnIa i lOoOovE To Go To tHe BeAcH aND sUrF AND sTuFF lIkE tHaT!! i lovE hAnGiN wItH mY fRiEnDS AnD DoInG NeThInG FUN!! and I love helpin people out with advice!
Website: MySpace
E-mail: lilmissashley143@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ventura, California
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: Sha lee lee 101
Yahoo: LiLMissAshley143
MSN: LiLMissAshley143@hotmail.com
Member Since: June 2, 2004
Answers: 42
Last Update: March 14, 2005
Visitors: 3212

Main Categories:
Friendship
Love Life
View All

Favorite Columnists
xocutiepiesxo
Calibabe805
FOReverVINDICATED
Allalonenworried
ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
well it seems that it was a summer romance thing, BUT i think he still likes you definately! if hes gonna smile about it, then yes. I would ask him if i were you, because you know what, if you dont tell someone how you feel, it could be the biggest regret becuz they could like u as much as u like them! SO ASK HIM!! TRUST ME!!


uh all those other people saying " whenever ur ready" NO!! have sex when youre MARRIED!!! cuz if u get pregnant i GUARANTEE that boy aint gonna stay around! TRUST ME! Do it when U R MARRIED!


So I was reading that, What happens if your for Pre-marital sex. And you start having sex at age 13. Do you think it will effect your sex life in after years? (link)
well if you have a kid it will.


Okay, so I got this problem on my hands. There is this kid I REALLY like. It seems like he likes my looks, and body. All he does is ask for nude pictures. It is getting aggrivating, I want to say somethign to him about it, But I want to say it without him feeling offended, But i want him to know how I feel. (link)
Just tell him you have repect for yourself, and that you dont feel comfortable doing that, if he just wants nude pictures, then he doesnt seem really right. but just tell him that, and im sure he will stop and just like you for you.


ok well yeaterday at about like 2a.m. I went driving in town with my cuzine and her older bro (he's only 17) he drove us around and well he was smoking pot in the car so I got totally nervous and I didn't know what to do so I just staid in the car worring my butt off and when I got home at around 10 my dad smelt the pot and asked me if I smoked but I didn't pin it on my cuz did I do the right thing? I rate high:D (link)
yes because driving under the influence of drugs is not cool at all, yall coulda been killed, and i think it would be the right thing to do, cuz then your cuzin wont do it again.


I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok?? (link)
not really, i dont think her parents would like that. but if shes like mature for her age, then maybeee, but umm.. i dont think so.


umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx (link)
Your not done growing yet.. trust me!


This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
uh all those other people saying " whenever ur ready" NO!! have sex when youre MARRIED!!! cuz if u get pregnant i GUARANTEE that boy aint gonna stay around! TRUST ME! Do it when U R MARRIED!


hey i want to build my own site for all my friends to see and other ppl to see so i was wondering what r some sites besides geocities. also i want websites that u can have music on. please help.thanks (link)
www.xanga.com its an online journal but u can make it look really awesome and put music, its hella tight. I have one!!


okay, this is a weird ? but here goes, i shave um..down low now but i have to wait at least 5 days before i can shave it again cuz if you dont it hurts, razor burn, lil bumps from infected hair folicles, grows back faster, you can see the hair under skin, etc. anyways i want to wax or something so it will stay smooth for a good while, but i dont have the $$ to do it professionally and thats kinda embarrassing so what should i do? i was gonna try veet but it says dont use down there so..and i could get wax and do it myself but will that work and how much will it hurt and stuff like that?? thanx! (link)
use nair.


well I'm 14 and I just had a baby and I don't know what I should do like should I keep braist feeding or sumthing I'm so confused I'm only going in 9th grade and it's really hard for me to take care of my baby when my parents aren't around I love my little girl so much her names ZoƩ but the father doesn't love her or want anything to do with her what should I do I need help?? (link)
omg honey what were u thinking when that boy layed u down?? you cant have a kid at 14. ur still a kid. u need to put it up for adoption, as much as u dont want to u have to, if ur parents arent around how are u gonna do this by urself?? putting it up for adoption is the best thing to do, u have ur whole entire life ahead of you, wait until ur married to have a child.. please take that advice. its for your own good hun.


How do you know that you're in love. I've liked this guy since the beginning of the school year and my friends think he likes me back. He's had several girlfriends but the "dating time" never really lasts long. Lately I've been thinking about him a lot and everytime a hear a song...I automatically think of him. What is love? And how do you know that you're in it? (link)
yeah.. love is a strong word.. but like u know when u are cuz every time u see that one special person, u get all happy and stuff, and its hard to explain but trust me ull know. im in the same situation. hope i helped ya!!


i'm just wondering if any one thinks it's ok to be a pimp for halloween if your a girl? and if so wat kind of clothes and ehat kind of hat..and neckles and rings? plz help! thanx...and colors! haha (link)
Yeah! thatd be awesome! its HALLOWEEN! good choice hahahaha


i just got done menstruating and im still really moody and emotional.. is there such thing as like after pms? (link)
yep. its normal.


ok im 13 and schools about to start, im 4ft11in and 80 pounds, nd evrone tells me that thats fine for my hight, but i wanna loose some wieght before school start im pretty skinny but the top of my legs and my stomache have some excess fat, that i want to get rid of, schools about 2.5 weeks away! please help me and tell me any excersices or diets tht u would suggest to loose weight in the areas i mentioned! i want to look good for schhol! please help me asap! i will rate high! thnx! (link)
girl ur already 80 lbs. u dont need to loose anymore weight at all. if u do ull start to look anorexic.. and then people are gonna give u a hard time about it, so dont loose anymore weight.


I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have??? (link)
umm..... if she is like that, then uh.. yeah.. lol if ur not comfortable with the fact then tell her, and if it dont work, then let her go, as much as it hurts, or if u like that sorta thing, then go ahead. but yeah. hope i helped!


i am 13 (almost 14) and a chick. i am like realli tall for my age (5'9") and i look way older than i realli am but i cant help it. and i am also deffinatly not ugly. but alot of guys that are older than me (16 and up) like constantly hit on me, whistle at me, check me out, flirt wit me, etc.,etc. what can i do to appeal to guys my own age? (link)
Put ur hair in a pony tail or pig tails, and wear less makeup, and dress like a kid. LOL. or just IGNORE the older guys. I personally dont mind, cuz im 15, and i look older then my age cuz im 5'9" and yeah.


do guys prefer blondes or brunettes? (link)
Blondes for the hottness. Burnettes for the sex. or so ive heard.


whats a good style of sneakers or brand or specific sneaker that i can wear to go back to school that not everyone will have but still come off as really cute.

im a girl.. if you didnt realize by now. Haha.. thanks for the help (link)
try Phat farms, the pink and white ones are the cutest, not a lot of people have those, or the blue and white ones, im gonna get the pink & white. Or Etnies! hope i helped!


How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped? (link)
hmm well i wouldnt know but it depends on how ur cycle goes and if its light or heavy..and if ur like big or small..small girls dont bleed alot but some big girls do. and sometimes u dont bleed at all. thats just what I know. Be safe ;) hope i helped!


my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do? (link)
LOL! haha well if i were you, i would just keep it to urself, and at night when u hear that ehem put a headphone set on, and like turn the music on it up really loud. lol thats what ive done in the past.




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop

eXTReMe Tracker