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my exx boyfriend


Question Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 7:19 pm

ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

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xxbrunettekissxx answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 1:55 pm:
Just ask him and if he says no and you dont wanna look like a loser say you sure act like it and make a joke out of it or something. I hope everything goes ok.

~*Rissa*~

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naTralswtneSs answered Sunday March 20 2005, 5:41 pm:
First off having guy problems suck i know im only 15 but they suck. If he has a girlfriend just go have fun with guys or girls, dont worry about him and if he'll date you or not it doesn't matter at the moment. To me it sounds like he still does like you because he didnt say yes or no to you and the other girl he said no to and the whole sitting next to you think dont make a huge deal i use to do that all the time lol i think you should just go do what you want and when he doesnt have a gf try to maybe go out again but dont get urself hurt do it only if you want. hope i helped sorry if i didnt.<br>&hearts; amrit

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iNdEeD2isBaK answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 8:58 pm:
well if you like him then you should confront him...if yall are really good friends then yall tell each other everything..so tell him about your feelings...but be careful dont move to fast!
hope i helped
&hearts; indeed2

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CoUnTrYgUrL77 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 9:51 pm:
WEll, try and talk to him about it..when you get him alone tell him about your feelings for him...I cant really say that he POSITIVELY likes you...but im thinkin yes (the signs are obvious)!!!! So, after you find out how he feels about you...then go for it, and maybe ASK HIM OUT??

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teengoddess12 answered Monday March 14 2005, 6:53 pm:
well, this kind of thing happened to me. When my friends asked this guy Chase if he liked me or not, he just looked away. He asked me out 2 days later. I think that he likes you, but he obviously can't show it because he has a girlfrient. so, i think he likes you. but, i think that you should just wait until they break up and see how things go from there. good luck!thanks for asking me!
~mandy

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AquamarineRose answered Monday March 14 2005, 5:06 pm:
I'll make a clear point to inform you, if you did not send this to my inbox, I probably wouldn't of answered it. However, I am a female and just about 14, so I can relate. And even through the poor grammar I understood exactly what you meant. The way I see it, guys are confused. Especially at our age. They don't know what they want. They let their dicks lead them. So either he likes you or he wants to lead you on. To find out which card he is playing talk to him.Alone.Find out his intentions. And remember the reason why you two broke up in the first place.

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sunny411 answered Monday March 14 2005, 3:23 pm:
okay well he is giving some hints that he likes you! Smile :) he smiled when he thinks of you he smilies! So thats a good sighn. Well about Brooke maybe she is not for him and he is trying to get contact with you! Well look at him in the eyes to see if he likes you if he won't stop looking at you he probley likes you and every day try to get closer and do things together and in a quiet moment maybe not ramdaly say "Will you go out with my i really like you." and i bet you he would say yes! Send me another question or something to tell lme how it went! hope i helped good luck!

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Monday March 14 2005, 1:10 pm:
He s till likes you. Talk to him more and ask him out when he brakes up with his gf.
&hearts; Michelle

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FrEe2bMe answered Monday March 14 2005, 2:07 am:
Okay, this is a common occurance with exes at your age. Yeah, I think that there is a good chance that Josh may very well still be interested in you/have feelings for you. Now, with that said I think that at your age, Josh may just like a whole lot of girls and you are going to like a whole lot of boys also. You may like him still, and he may like you, but you need to respect the fact that he has a girlfriend. So, don't do anything to hurt anyone. If he really likes you and wants things to work out, he'll end things with the girlfriend he has now and give things with you another chance. This may take some time though, so be patient. Also, if you really want to show him that you are interested you can make SMALL flirty comments to him. Nothing major though. And what about this Murphy guy, why not give him a chance. You are young, shop around, explore your options! But yeah, in short, the guy still may have feelings for you and you should just play it cool and be yourself with a touch of more flirtyness added into the mix. Good luck! :)

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xOSweEtKittEnxO answered Monday March 14 2005, 1:07 am:
well it seems that it was a summer romance thing, BUT i think he still likes you definately! if hes gonna smile about it, then yes. I would ask him if i were you, because you know what, if you dont tell someone how you feel, it could be the biggest regret becuz they could like u as much as u like them! SO ASK HIM!! TRUST ME!!

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kitkatbar answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:29 pm:
yes i think he likes you because he's trying to get near you and he smiled when someone asked him. but if he has a girlfreind..... try not to get involved or flirty unless they are over because that's not right. just talk to him and be freindly back. if they ever break up now you know now that your on his mind.

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SunKissedHunnii answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:26 pm:
Hey!...you could always ask him you self if he styll likes you and if he does and you still like him you could always ask him out later when you guys are close again...hope i helped!...rate honestly

xoO Carly oOx

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aeromonkey answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:03 pm:
hmmm... guys are always hard to tell.. They never know what they really want. This probably isnt the best advice, but you can take it or not. You said his friend murphy likes you? Well, I'll just tell you what i did when i liked my best guy friend. I ignored him and talked to other guys when he was around and he finally got jealous and started talking and flirting with me extremely. Guys like what they cant have, so if he thinks he cant have you anymore, then it makes you more desirable. Try this if you want, and I hope it works out for you

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punkrockprincess answered Sunday March 13 2005, 8:20 pm:
I'm in the same EXACT situation as you right now! And it sucks! But what I think you should do is tell him how you feel! Be up front about it and don't second guess yourself! I think this guy still really likes you but doesn't know how to tackle the situation. Sometimes you have to take life by the horns..ya know? Tell him that you still have feelings for him and DON'T hesitate saying something. Tell him everything! And if it turns out that he was just playing with your head, then at least you'll know he's an ass and you can forget about him! Gee, I really need to learn to take my own advice. But good luck!


&hearts; Always,
Maria


PS. And if he does like you, make sure he asks you out AFTER he breaks up with his girlfriend! NO ONE derves to know what being cheated on and being played for a fool feels like!



AIM: x0PINKISSEXY

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Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Sunday March 13 2005, 8:10 pm:
Yeah I think he likes you.If he said no when someone asked him if he liked brooke,but smiled when they asked if he liked you it seems he likes you but doesn't want to let anyone know because he has a girlfriend.He might be confused about whether he likes you or his girlfriend more, so give him sometime to decide what he wants to do.Or you can talk to him about it, and let him know you still like him.If you want to know anything else leave it in my inbox

&hearts;ashley&hearts;

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surferlil2002 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 7:52 pm:
he probably still does like you, but he is involved with another girl, so don't throw yourself at him or anything like that. try to get things just the way they were before you went out in the first place and maybe the same thing will happen again...

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Lilsweetie428 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 7:51 pm:
yes I think he might have a little crush on you =).. as too what to do I would wait for things between him and his girl friend to die down, you dont want to make enemys with them. good luck girlie.. give it sometime.. but if it takes more than like 3months Id try to find someone else you dont want to wait forever, but you cant deney your feelings.

&hearts; emiLy * rate honestLy *

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