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Every time I get out of the shower my hair is frizzy, poofy, and just a pain! No matter how much i straighten it, it never hangs down flat like other girl's hair! Its always poofing out, or has waves in it! I need help my hair always looks bad!

** I rate 5 on EVERY GOOD COMMENT !!! =D **

first off who cares about the other girls hair. be original! but if it really bothers you i would try chemicaly straightening it which deffinetely lessens the frizz and poofiness.

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is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
i rate high

NO! go for it!

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i got a sun burn on my face today..and my face is like kinda red..like along my nose and forehead and cheeks..well i dont really wanna looks so red tomorrow for school....is it possible that i can lessen the reddening by tomorrow? Thanx!

i would put some foundation on it or something but soon it will turn into a tan

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this month is my birthday and i dont kno what to do since im turning 14 and i am 2 old for a sleepover.. so what should i do?

NOOOOO!!!!!! i love sleepover parties! they are so cute and fun! your deffinetely not too old!

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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!

point out specific things you like about her that make her feel good inside. don't say she's hot, say she has beautiful eyes or a beautiful personality. things that are cute and unique that she'll remember.

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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

yes i think he likes you because he's trying to get near you and he smiled when someone asked him. but if he has a girlfreind..... try not to get involved or flirty unless they are over because that's not right. just talk to him and be freindly back. if they ever break up now you know now that your on his mind.

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I have some friends and every time they move out of my class they dont talk to me but when i am in there class im there bff. Why dod they do this?

because they are bitches and probably dont want to be seen with you or something. they are insecure and immature. you're better than that. don't let it get to you. they've got the problem. don't hang around people that don't respect you.

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i want to loose 10 pounds by the summer. im 13.. whats the easiest way to do it?

OPRAH'S BOOT CAMP! but your only 13 so try to be careful about dieting and stuff this young. girls get toooo consumed in their weight and it can get out of hand. i am sure 10 pounds wont matter that much. always remember YOU'RE BEUATIFUL!

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i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????

there's nothing wrong with that. i am sure a lot of girls find this comforting that you think this way. most guys want girlfreinds for sex or don't want them at all and it's annoying and immature.

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I Have the biggest crush on my teacher. I stare at him and sometimes he stares back. Sometimes he just stares at me the whole period. He gives me good grades when sometimes I dont earn them. But I seriously think about him alot. What do I do? How do I know if he likes me back?

o wow! stop thinking about him!if he's hitting on you then that's serious and illegal. chances are his feelings are most likely not the same as yours. something is wrong with this picture so deffinetely stay away from him.

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Ok i have a huge problem keeping my room clean i mean literally some days i dont even know if i have a floor under all the clothes on my floor no matter how much i clean. i cant seem to keep my room clean any tips for cleanin it and keeping it clean. Thanks for any help

never put your clothes on the floor. always hang them up. -hope that helped lol

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I have alot of dried skin on my face all of a sudden for no reason, so I stopped using a facial cleanser but it doesn't seem to help, I've tried a feew moisterisers and nothing is working, and I don't wear cover up or foundation or anything like that. Any advice on how to get my face moisterized?

i would see a dematologist

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does stretching help you grow taller?

no

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Im an alternate for cheering, which means i takes someones place in the competition if they get injured or cant participate. Everyone on the team is mad at me because i didnt go to the last two tornaments and i said i might quit, but im not quiting. They even took all my stuff out of the lockers and changed the locks. Theirs so mcuh drama on the team and no one knows how to put up with it. When i go to practice tomorrow how should i react to people not wanting to talk to me i cant help but to cry sometimes when most of my friends or teammates hate me. please help i rate 5s

They are mad at you because they probably think you don't care about the team and aren't comitted. Except why they are mad at you and move on. At practice prove them wrong. Go the extra mile and work hard. Don't cry in front of them though. Don't let them get to you. If they keep on being rude that's there problem not yours so forget them!

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There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?

he likes you he's just shy!!!! show him you have confidence and go up to him yourself!

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hey

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okay, so kat. i have this problem. i'm obsessed with ketchup. i love it. i eat it for every meal and my friends take pictures of me eating it. but since i've eaten it so much, i think i have ketchup poisoning, what should i do?

rachel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you make me laugh you big dork!

try putting napkins in the pepper shakers. maybe that will help. ;)

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Okay I really love to swim and cheelead but next year I will be a freshman and I will need to chose.. I love both.. but which one would be better for me?? I am 14 and I have a pretty busy life.. my sister is also a cheerleader and she quit swimming.. plz help me out.. but now i got to go to 7th hour in school.. thank you..

Kaydee

personaly i would say swimming. i am a swimmer in highschool and i had to choose between dance and swimming. i am soooo glad i chose swimming because i do club dance outside of school and swimming deffintely keeps me in shape. i also do waterpolo. be different from your sister and chose swimming. it's a whole different enviorment but it's a great sport that you shouldn't give up.

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Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks

yes

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