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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now
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When i get dumped becuase im not a supermodel and extremely sexy, i feel bad. For some girls that really take it personally, they could get bulemic, anorexic, and/or start cutting themselves cuz they're not good enough. APOLOGISE cuz you dumped her for teh wrong reasons. Tell her what you did wrong and BE sincere don't SOUND sincere, BE sincere. She will hopefully appriciate this and maybe you two could be friends again. Hope it works out! ~Kylie~
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first of all .. you should not judge a girl for looks!! that can hurt a girl badly! you have to judge girls by their personality and all that ..write her a note saying all you want is friendship and your soo sorry and never meant to hurt her .. hope i helped . Love MauramOo
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I don't think you should talk to her. You strike me as shallow and superficial, and if you really cared about her, you would leave her alone. She deserves better than that. You had your chance, but you dumped her because you thought she was ugly, and now she's not, you want to be her friend. That is Fucked up. Leave her the hell alone. Maybe when you mature a little, you could try not to be as dumb with another girl.
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why did u dump her for looks? what a dumb person
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The only hing you can do is apologise. dont force her to talk to you. If she choses to talk to you explain that you made a mistake and explain why you feel bad about it and would like to be friends if that is possible. If this doesnt work all you can do is let her go or wit for her to make the first move 2wards bein friends.
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Go up and talk to her and see how she reaacts maybe you all can become good friends
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I don't see why you can't be friends.You may have to do some apologizing though.Make it clear you don't want to be her boyfriend so that doesn't get in the way, or cause confusion down the road.
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You are extremely dumb to dump someone just because she isn't "that attractive." Of course she hates you, you're shallow! Either grow up or go be a hermit.
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APOLOGIZE! You idiot! looks don't matter! it was stupid to break up with a girl because she is not that bad looking! She has a good reason for not liking you!
Sorry, I just know how she feels. *clears throat* Tell her you made a huge mistake breaking up with her. Tell her you don't think you should go out, but you just want to make everything right again and want to be her friend. You're sorry.
hope it works out
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Talk to her...Be a man! lol Just apologize to her for everything that happened in the past, and tell her you'd at least like to be friends, and ask her if she'd consider it. Somewhere in the conversation, mention that you're a brand new man! Cuz after 2 years, I'm sure you are, and we all change for the better! Good Luck, let me know how it goes!
XoXo
Jessie
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It was such a jerky thing to do!! You shouldn't break up with someone because they don't look that great! I would never talk to you again if I were her! It's guys like you that make girls go the long distance to look good! How would you like it if some girl that you really liked dumped you because you were ugly???? You wouldn't like that too much, huh? I don't think you deserve to talk to her until you prove that you're not such a low piece of shit. I'm sorry, but that was a shitty thing to do. I think you shouldn't talk to her and realize how much of a mistake you made.
♥ Always,
Maria
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just talk to her whenever you see her and try ot be her friend again. Maybe she wants to be your firend again too!
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You need to tell her your sorry and all that stuff. Just tell her your sorry for being a jerk and you feel really stupid, ask her if its ok to be friends again. Once you do that just say hi to her in the halls and work your way up from there.
Hope this helps
good luck:)
xoxo BLONDE911
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look i don't think its right all of asudden to like her because shes "hot" and now you want to be her friend yeah right you shouldn't have done that beacuse its rele mean
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Hey. Well, it is going to take a little finesse to get her back as a friend...I sure hope you are persuasive. If you seem sincere, and make it clear that you aren't out to date her, you just want to be her friend, I think you have a good chance. You need to realize, though, that you have hurt her in the past, and she is going to be a little hesitant to become close to you again, so this will take a little time. Approach her in the hallway on day and say something like, 'Hey, how have you been? Long time no talk!' Just something simple like that. See how she responds, and just keep saying hi to her when you see her, or at least look at her and smile, or wave. Then, a couple days after that, just say something like, 'You know, I really miss talking to you, I feel like I barely know you anymore. Could we maybe catch up sometime? I really wish we could be friends.' This is sweet, yet not flirty, or insincere. Hopefully, if she is understanding, and forgiving, she will at least think about it, and will give you a chance to be her friend. Really, just start talking to her when you see her, and make it known to her that you really value her as a friend, and that you aren't the same guy that dumped her because she wasn't pretty enough. Girls know when guys are interested because they became more pretty, so she may think you have other motives, or be annoyed that now you are finally giving her your attention. So, just be respectful of her feelings, give her distance for a little while if she needs it, but still be friendly. Give her time, trust me, and if she sees that you aren't easily discouraged, she will realize that are sincere, and will be your friend again. Hope that helped, good luck!
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WEll, TRY to talk to her or something. Stop her in the halls and ask her to talk with her...no catch. Then ya'll could go somewhere and maybe talk?
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well your a fxcking asshole. you dont EVER dump a girl because shes not "attractive" thats gay. YOUR FAULT.
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