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this might be long but read it. i need serious help.
ok well im a girl and i went out wiht this guy for like 5 months and i swear i am in love with him. and i cutt over him (that was an oopies) but anyways i kno im in love with him cuz its been like 6 months and still i havent gotten over him... whoah thats a long time. and he got a girlfrned like a month after we broke up. and he didnt cheat on her but he only wnet out wiht her for a day. and then he had another girlfrend a while later. and he came to my house and we madeout on newyears and everything while he was going out wiht her. and he just recently had a girlfrend and he slept at my house and we held hands and cuddled and see i had a dream about us going back out and having sex. and i told him about it and hes like. well maybe it doesnt have to be a dream. and he used to say he wont go out wiht me again and then he just sayd i dont know .. thats wutt he says now.. but when he dumped his recent girlfrned we just wnet to a movie last friday and he like got mad at me for no reason.. like he does this sometimes but i thot he started to like me again. but i dont know. my frends just thot it was just a thing around his frneds but he wouldnt talk to me or sit by me. i told him that i love him and that i love him more then his recent girlfrend did and hes just like ohh ur soo sweet!
i wanna kno... does he like me ? do you think we will go out again ? why is he being like this.. ? i need major help on this stuff and wutt do i do??
please help me or just IM me on deEply iN l0ve69
thanks andrea*x0x
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i think that he only acted like he'd go out with you again so you'd have sex with him..truth hurts, hun. sorry.
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Ok, here is why this guy is not worth your time, lips, or body:
*"he came to my house and we madeout on newyears, and he just recently had a girlfrend"
[Hes a cheater for making out with you while dating another girl, this may not be wrong to you because you wanted him and he gave himself to you, but you will think its wrong when this guys' reputation with girls continues, and you won't be the only one making out with him]
*"he just sayd i dont know"
[This guy makes out with you, and cuddles with you, and says "I don't know" when asked if he wants to date you, this guy is obviously leading you on, soon after he'll be cuddling with someone else.]
*"hes like. well maybe it doesnt have to be a dream"
[Ok, he also has the idea that you guys can have sex without him having to date you. This is wrong, this guy has one thing on his mind, and we both know what it is.]
*"he like got mad at me for no reason.."
[No explaination of why hes feeling angry towards you, then all of a sudden, he likes you again.]
I think I've given enough examples, this guy is a jerk, no, yo are not stupid for still liking him, if that guy even wacked you over the head, you'd still love him, you don't want this guy in your life, get him out, he is using you, and if you think otherwise, then read my examples again, the guy will have sex with you but he won't date you! In the mean time, heres an example that needs fixed immediatly.
*"i swear i am in love with him. and i cutt over him"
Even the smartest, most beautiful, trusting, all of the qualities you've wanted in a man, there is no man on this earth worth self injuring over. This is not going to be easy, but you need to tell your parents, it is better that you keep occupied with helping yourself, instead of helping this guy be impressed of you.
-TheTeenGirl
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I think he's just using you between girlfriends.
And you let him.
Say no next time.In love with him or not.Either that or put up with it.I don't think he wants you as a girlfriend He just wants the benefits when no one else is around.Sorry I know thats not what you wanted to hear.
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if he says that that dream may not be a dream and he wont go back out with you then that means he just wants sex
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Well he sounds a lil insecure, and scared to me. I think he does like you, and after datin you for so long, and those other girls for only a matter of days, it seems that he felt you 2 were gettin serious, very very serious, and he might be afraid of a more serious committment than what you 2 had, and felt he had to go out and just experience lil things before he gave himself completely to you. He seems to be sendin mixed signals. I think you should talk to him, tell him that you've expressed your feelings, and that it's his turn. Ask him how he feels bout you. Hope he gives you the answer you're lookin for! Good Luck, and let me know how it goes...
XoXo
Jessie
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he probably does like you, but doesn't want to be with you like that right now.
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Well, Maybe he does like you but is too scared to admit it, or maybe he just doesn't want to hurt you. This happened to me and i thought the thing to do was to do things w/ him to make him like me and now we hate each other, so dont let it bug you too bad, maybe you will find out soon.
hope i helped... <3 Ally
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