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Uhhmmm... I'm a girl and i'm 5 ft 7 and i have green eyes
Gender: Female
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Age: 16
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hey =)

okay i like this guy .. =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to talk to him again and i called him and appologized. but he was weird cause then HE was like in a yes , no , maby kinda way =/ so yeah we ignored eachother again. and a couple of days ago we where on the bus he was walking right by be me singing =D (that was funny) and then steped back and gave me high five and also smiled. so i thought everything is okay again but now the next day everytime i looked at him he looked away and he flirts /talks about other girls really loud when i'm around. so what does that mean? whats going on in his head? and what should i do?
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Well from experience, guys aren't really good at showing their emotions and when they do and they get shot down it takes him down like 90 feet on the self-confidence scale. In his head he is probably thinking mixed thoughts about you, and weather you really even like him or not. You should try and have a serious conversation with him. And if that doesn't work give him some space and if he really likes you he will come to you.

Hope I helped... If you need anything else feel free to ask
♥Alix


Is it normal for a 13-year-old girl to masterbate, or is it just really sick-o for my age? Omg, I'm sooooo embarassed and I think I'm the only one in my grade who does. I feel like such a perv., but I can't help it. I have to cuz it feels so good. So I want to know is, is this unusual for a girl my age? Or something to feel guilty about? (link)
Yes of course it is normal... And i can almost guarantee that you are not hre only one in your grade who does it... plus if it feels good you know... As nike says just do it!

hope i helped...
xoALEXox


What guys look for in a girl?? Thanx

Eye color?
Hair color
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date?
If not when?
When is it alright to take it to second base
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)
athletic, preppy or girly girl?
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat
shorter or taller than you?
experienced or unexperienced?
Do looks matter?
Whats a major turn off?
Whats a major turn on?
Feature you like the most on girls?
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move?
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her?
Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
Dou you like
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex?
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex?
Ass or boobs?
Pretty face or hot body
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports?
Make-up or no make-up?
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt
First thing you notice about a girl?
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I'm a chick but my brother gave the answers to this...

Eye color? Hazel or Green
Hair color? any doesn't really matter
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date? If she's up for it
If not when?
When is it alright to take it to second base? when we're both ready
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)? when we're both ready
athletic, preppy or girly girl? doesn't matter... preferrably athletic
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat? middle
shorter or taller than you? same height or shorter... but if i like her it doesn't really matter
experienced or unexperienced? depends
Do looks matter? to some extent... I don't want her to look like a man
Whats a major turn off? unconfidence, can't take a joke, talks about other guys alot
Whats a major turn on? CONFIDENCE
Feature you like the most on girls? legs, eyes
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move? thats hot
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her? yeah
Do you like it when girls play hard to get? it's cute in some girls... but sometimes it makes me mad
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex? probably not...
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex? no... thats fucked up
Ass or boobs? ass
Pretty face or hot body? personality
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports? depends on what
Make-up or no make-up? little make-up
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt? casual
First thing you notice about a girl? her attitude

hope it helped...
xoxoALI


and feedback on this poem is helpful, thanks

i'm falling faster and harder
with each thought i think
my heart is growing rapidly
and my mind begins to shrink
the pulse begins to quicken
and my hands begin to shake
if this is a dream
i wish never to awake
each moment is torture
my nerves twisted and torn
but each breath it loosens
and comfort is born
my predictions were not guarantees
i quickly figured out
each road to my heart was hidden
forcing him to discover a new route
I had been so wrapped in worry
that the entrances were blocked
but he seemed to have the key
to each door that had been locked
he had come upon the threshold
and no longer could I lie
i met love at the door
and my eyes read goodbye (link)
Dang... That is sooooooo good! I really like it. Did you do that your self?

xoxoALI


he is 13 and i am 13? (link)
Well I went out with people when I was 13 and it was cool because we could have a fun time and just hang out and i had someone i could go to when times got rough ((unless it was with him)) but do what you feel is right

xoxo ALLY

xoUNSAIDLOVEox-AIM


ok i like this boy he likes me..we like eachother alot....and well i just heard my mom say on the phone to her friends that we are bf and gf..hello i never even knew that..what do i do..is she right..i mean we both gove eachother gifts...but i don't talk to him a lot in school (i do though) BUT i totally talk to him ALOT on line..i mean once we were talking untill......1 0 clock in the morning ( on the computer ) since..9 0 clock at night/....donno what to do! help (link)
Okay #1 dont listen to that ass hole down there he is just stupid. and #2 maybe you should ask him about it. i mean it does kind of sound like you two are. well my best wishes

xoxoALLY


ok i like this boy and he likes me ..we both like eachother alot! and i want to be his gf like so much....and i no he will totally make a great bf...cause ever since my last b-day ..nov...we have been giving each other gifts...like b-days,christmas,valentines day, and i gave him something from my vacation...he is so sweet..and caring..and always apreciates me..NEVER laughs at me...and he always talks about me to all his friends and my friends(thats how i found out!) but i think the problem might be that i think i am to young. i seriously don't know what to do... please help!!....
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Well, How old are you? and if you personally think you are too young than maybe you should wait, but if you like him and he likes you and well you know... Maybe you should try things out. if you need any other help you can usually reach me at xoUNSAIDLOVEox on aim



is this a good idea.....well i like this guy and i want to write a note and put it in his locker but not tell who i am just yet but put a sn in thast note that isnt my real one and talk to him on there and give him hinks to who i am?i older by a year 13/f (link)
That is a really cute idea i think he would like it, but maybe you should put your real sn so he doesnt think you are a liar or something because you put another sn on the note. if you need any more help feel free to i.m. me on AIM: xoUNSAIDLOVEox or, yahoo: xoUNSAIDLOVEox

hope i helped
xoxoAlly


i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically (link)
Maybe you should try starting where you left off but if it seems weird then just go from the start like it was the first time...

Hope i helped


ok well im a girl and i went out wiht this guy for like 5 months and i swear i am in love with him. and i cutt over him (that was an oopies) but anyways i kno im in love with him cuz its been like 6 months and still i havent gotten over him... whoah thats a long time. and he got a girlfrned like a month after we broke up. and he didnt cheat on her but he only wnet out wiht her for a day. and then he had another girlfrend a while later. and he came to my house and we madeout on newyears and everything while he was going out wiht her. and he just recently had a girlfrend and he slept at my house and we held hands and cuddled and see i had a dream about us going back out and having sex. and i told him about it and hes like. well maybe it doesnt have to be a dream. and he used to say he wont go out wiht me again and then he just sayd i dont know .. thats wutt he says now.. but when he dumped his recent girlfrned we just wnet to a movie last friday and he like got mad at me for no reason.. like he does this sometimes but i thot he started to like me again. but i dont know. my frends just thot it was just a thing around his frneds but he wouldnt talk to me or sit by me. i told him that i love him and that i love him more then his recent girlfrend did and hes just like ohh ur soo sweet!
i wanna kno... does he like me ? do you think we will go out again ? why is he being like this.. ? i need major help on this stuff and wutt do i do??

please help me or just IM me on deEply iN l0ve69


thanks andrea*x0x (link)
Well, Maybe he does like you but is too scared to admit it, or maybe he just doesn't want to hurt you. This happened to me and i thought the thing to do was to do things w/ him to make him like me and now we hate each other, so dont let it bug you too bad, maybe you will find out soon.

hope i helped...


Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more?? (link)
Well do you two not talk, or does he ignore you intentionally (sp) Because if you and him just dont talk then walk up to him and be like YO, and start a conversation w/ him, and then after that you two should start talking more unless he is really shy around the girl he likes (you)

hope i helped


I'm in 8th grade and haven't really thought about this guy much..i've just noticted him. He keeps on telling me that this other guy is flirting with me, but the other guy hardly talks to me. maby eits a joke. I'm starting to like this guy though. I sit next to him in computers, but I don't know what to talk about anymore. We used to talk and laugh all the time. I really want him to ask me out. How do I lead him on?
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Well my advice to you is to flirt, maybe pass him notes, i mean every one has gone through the "i dont know what to talk about w/ sos and so", just tell him how you feel and maybe its not a joke and he likes you too.

good luck


This isnt about sports too much but people who do sports might be able to help me. I have a big sweating problem and i always wear jackets to cover up my sweat but i was wondering what a good deoderant was that would mostly block sweat so i can wear my cute tee shirts more. (link)
Hey, i used to have a problem sort of like that but not all of the time, but adidas sport works really good. or you may have hyperhydrosis. But who knows, i hope i helped.

xo ALI ox


Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..

Signed..14 year old bi guy (link)
well it depends, are you for sure you want to be bisexual? if so sit them down at dinner or something where no one else is around and tell them. be like... Mom Dad I know you have been the greatest parents so i know you'll understand when i tell you this. I think im bi sexual and i want o be with both chicks and guys, and hope they dont freak out and if they do they'll just be in denial because you're their son and they want you to carry on the family name. but thats the best i can give you hope it helped hun


i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on. please give me something.. (link)
wow; i went through the same thing a few months ago.But my advice for you is to talk to your friends about it and see why things are changing, like if they feel like your spending alot more time with him, or if they think you are acting different and if this is hard for you to do than try talking to someone you trust will help you or tell him you want a break beacause you are having trouble. i hope this helps if not im sorry Lots Of love xoxo ~Ali~




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