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are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again?
i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically
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there is no rite or wrong answer to that, it depends how comfort5able you feel around each other. you cant predict things like that they just happen. go round his house with no expectations of what its to happen. go with the flow and try not to worry to much just enjoy the time you spend together.
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no start all over maybe it will be better this time
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Take it slow.It may not be any better now than it was six months ago.If you continue to see each other then carry on as before.
You also want to be sure that isn't the only reason his going out with you.
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Do what feels comfortable. Start slow, but if the chemistry is happening, and you feel like going further when you're making out (or whatever) then it might be okay to progress to where you were before.
I'm currently in a long distance relationship, and it is a little wierd to see my boyfriend less than once a month. When I was home for Christmas break, at first I only wanted to kiss and stuff, but after a few evenings together, I was okay to go a little further.
Basically, I'm just saying that you probably won't want to jump him the moment he walks in the door, but as the night goes on, if you're comfortable, it's okay to go further than you would on a normal first date with a guy.
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Well it depends, you start it off very fast or start it off slowly. If if feels comfterble then go along with the flow. If it feels too fast just start the date with talking and have fun. I hope you have alot of fun and i hoped i helped!
xoxo BLONDE911
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I think you should wait it out until you know for sure the feelings are the same as before. Make sure it's what he wants too. If the feelings are the same, then go for it. And if it's not, then I would advise you to wait until they are. Don't just have sex with the guy just to have sex. Have sex with him because you feel a genuine connecion with him. But if just having sex for the hell of it is what you want and what he wants, then I guess go for it.
♥ Always,
Maria
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Well, it depends on what you and him both want...if you want to "catch up", and so does he...go for it...but if neither of you do then start over?
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i don`t think you should do anything physically past masing out. you really can`t plan things though, you just have to let them happen. if you start feeling it, go with it. but don`t rush anything, just let it happen on it`s own.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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Maybe you should try starting where you left off but if it seems weird then just go from the start like it was the first time...
Hope i helped <3
ally
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just go with the flow, as long as your comfortable.
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Well most people would love to start where they left off, cuz it wuz great last time they were together. I say spend a lil time talkin, get caught up, and if it isn't the least bit awkward, then just get back to where you left off, and have some fun. Let me know how it goes! Leave me some love in the inbox! lol
XoXo
Jessie
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