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i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on. please give me something..
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wow; i went through the same thing a few months ago.But my advice for you is to talk to your friends about it and see why things are changing, like if they feel like your spending alot more time with him, or if they think you are acting different and if this is hard for you to do than try talking to someone you trust will help you or tell him you want a break beacause you are having trouble. i hope this helps if not im sorry Lots Of love xoxo ~Ali~
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Going out with him would change everything...just remember that change isn't always a bad thing. Talk to your other friends and try and work some things out with them. Say you want it to go back to how it used to be (obviously with the except of losing your boyfriend!)
What do you mean by you don't know if 'anything is going on'? I can't really understand the last part of your question, so all I can say is that if you're crying, you're obviously not happy in the relationship. And you should never stay where you're unhappy.
But if it's your friends making you cry...give them some time to get used to the idea of you going out with this guy. It's probably still very new to them. Talk to them and figure out what's going wrong...
*Hugs* They don't know that you're going to get cheated on. Don't listen to jealous people who are scared of change - listen to your instincts. That's all you need. If you're really worried you're being cheated on, talk to your boyfriend too.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Dont cry because no ones worth your tears. Whats mor important a guy you'll b into 4 a few months or friends you have and will know 4 years!? Ask your friends if it would be better if you seperated from him. Its probab;y jealousy thats making them like this but they probably dont know how selfish their being to you. i bet if you told them they would stop it and be happy with you but make sure you do what you want. they probably aint really that gd of m8z if they cant let it settle and be happy 4 u. GD LUK BABE!
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If you're having this feeling, you should call this off. Before you do really get hurt. But your feelings most likely have grown since you're "officially" his. Especially if you hate it, don't put yourself through it anymore... let him go if he's hurting you emotionally.
hope i helped in any way.:)
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aw hey, don't be scared of love.. and crying is totally normal, even when your madly in love with someone lol. What changed between your friends is probebly going to mend over time, and if you feel like your being cheated on then ask this guy if he's cheating on you- it's the only way you'll know for sure, and hopefully he'll tell the truth. Love is really confusing, but just give your friends time to accept what you chose. sorry this is so short... but write back! xoxo -*jeanine
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Sometimes things aren't "ment to be", if it was, you wouldn't be so down about it. You should trust your heart hun, if your scared of getting hurt and cheated on, find another guy. There's many guys out there, so many. One of them is probably the right one for you and this one doesn't sound like "the one". Your best bet is to follow your heart, follow what you feel is best. I'm sure you'll do what is right.
♥ Krissy
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Thats life. You move on and find new friends..because you cant be friends forever..your crying because your hormones. Teenage girls cry for no reason at all sometimes. One time I started to cry because the radio wouldent work. And dont worry about being hurt, just enjoy the time you have with your boyfriend! if you spend all your time worrying, you wont have fun with him! Hope I helped:)
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