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do you use pads or tampons for your period?
I feel more comfortable with tampons but thats just me. ♥ amrit
i flirt alot with a lot of different guys and i have a boyfriend is that bad?
Its not bad to flirt but flirting while you have a boyfriend can make people give you certain bad names around school. If thats who you are a flirty person cool just dont hurt ur boyfriend. Just imagine your boyfriend flirting with girls, you might feel bad but then again you might not so its not a bad thing i guess. ♥ amrit
well.. i have a boyfriend.. and i really love him and stuff but sometimes i feel like hes not treating me "best" although he seems a little obsessed.. haha and theres about 6 other guys that i could go to.. but i know if i break up wtih him for them ill never be able to get over him! hes an awesome guy.. help please!
im a really generous rater...!!
This kinda seems like my stories but lets see. If he's obsessed thats not good and you should talk to him if that doesnt work try to act like your obessed with him and hopefully he'll get the point. Look on the up side, you should be happy because some guys dont even bother paying attention to their girlfriends and he could really care for you but then again obsessing is just way too far. If you ever break up with him, of course it'll be hard to get over him and then see him with another girl but he'll probably feel the same way about you when your around other guys. So when you make ur decsion on breaking up think wisely. good luck! ♥ amrit
ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? 14/f
To me I think you still could have a chance. Only because he didn't say "no" to you and he did to the other girl. I could be wrong so don't get your hopes up, I'm just a advice giver person lol doesn't mean I'm right. Just try talking to him and you'll find out if he still does or doesn't. Hope I helped! ♥ amrit ♥
this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!
Alright that was a bit confusing but lets see what advice could i possibly give you...everyone talk's about people behind their back. You don't know if your best friend is lying or not, the only way to do that is by trust which you have to make all by yourself. I think you should try to tell your best friend about what she is doing so that way you don't have to go tell the other people she talk's about them. This use to happen to me everyday: I'd hear a story and tell my friend then our storie's would get all messed up. Just confront her its very simple to me. Hope I helped if not I'm really sorry. ♥ amrit ♥
ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female
First off having guy problems suck i know im only 15 but they suck. If he has a girlfriend just go have fun with guys or girls, dont worry about him and if he'll date you or not it doesn't matter at the moment. To me it sounds like he still does like you because he didnt say yes or no to you and the other girl he said no to and the whole sitting next to you think dont make a huge deal i use to do that all the time lol i think you should just go do what you want and when he doesnt have a gf try to maybe go out again but dont get urself hurt do it only if you want. hope i helped sorry if i didnt.♥ amrit
okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!!
These aren't that great of poems but they could be handy lol:
you laugh at my dumbest jokes, put up with my worst moods, go along with my crazy ideas and yet still manage to see the best in me!
best friends arent who youve known the longest but those who have never left your side.
Hope I helped ♥ amrit
whats the code for your background?
Hey sorry it took forever to wrt back to you but I think the code for my background is http://members.aol.com/happyclam38/images/pinkheartsbg.gif so I hope I helped yeah! Bye
The most popular girl in school (i was O.K friends with her) moved to Arizona (i'm in Virginia) and I am happY! SOOO HAPPY! Cause i like being the center of attention. All my bestfriends are sad though, because they liked her! I didn't really though! Is it wrong to be glad???? Cause I feel really bad.
Nope it's diffently NOT wrong to be feeling this way and its great to feel like the center of attention! One thing you should is, since all your friends liked the other girl soo much, try to help your friends out and show them you can be a great friend too, so that way you all are happy and don't feel bad because of this feeling, its normal, just don't let it get to you amrit
i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e
hey look theirs no pills to make you get taller that I now about but Im shorter then most of my friends but like two of them and I learned to deal with my height lol the good thing about being short is at least you can wear shoes with heels or whatever and make urself tall and your most likly never going to be taller then ur bfs :)well i hope I helped yeah out!
I have mad wavy hair and its really poofy sometimes not to mention frizzy. My birthday is coming up in a few days and i was thinking of getting it straightened because it would probably look better. What is everyones opinion on this because some people told me that it drys out your hair and makes it fall out? Is that true?
My hairs the same way frizzy and sometimes poofy and I straighten my hair and nothing happened to it and Ive been doing this for like 2 yrs maybi, and it never made my hair fall out or dry out but thats just my hair and last thing most people do look better with straight hair!
I have lots of pimples and well does anyone know any good good creams or anything like that. cuz i tried some and it didnt work I thougt maybe im eating to much chocolate and im not so please help I'm really pretty but with these pimples i feel so ugly inside. HELP i rate high
I had a friend who felt the same way and she tired so many things but now shes trying: Clearasil Ultra and it says to use it three times a day, she uses it once a day and it seemed like her acne is going away and also shes uses clearasil soap when shes washes her face. Other then that I think maybe proactive will work Ive never used it so I cant promise anything, hope I helped!
is being a vegetarian a bad thing?? my friends think it`s like being anorexic or somthing!
Well if your friends think being a veg. is like ur anorexic bc you dont eat meat thats just plain stupid Im sorry but it kinda is. Theirs nothing wrong with being a veg. First of dont care what your friends think especially if it has to do with food but its not a bad thing kays!
ok ok, i just got my period for the first time this morning. now what! how do i know when it will come back? should i start with pads or tampons (now i'm using pads)? and ahh just please help!
thank-you!
hii, well the amswer to this would have to be to me I think your period well come back after a month...and you can start with whatever makes u feel comfortable and your happy with I dont think it really matters what you start with well hope I helped yeah!
I have the two bestest friends in the world.but they've known each other longer then they've known me.and I feel like the third wheel.should I tell them that they should include me more on things or not?help.
hii sweetie
This was about the same thing that happened to me. I had 2 best friends in 7th grade, they got closer and left me out of stuff. I found myself a different best friend while hanging out with my two old best friends and now Im a sophomore and I love my new best friend shes always their for me!
My advice to you is to do what makes you happy if telling how you feel works then do it, they might understand, might not. If their real friends they understand.
True friends are hard to find but trust me theirs one out their for everyone!
Love always
.:s`berii:.
Hummm, Soo for the soccer team we have to buy gifts for people and it is supposed to be secret...Hints the name Secret Santa..The girl that I picked is really stuck up and I know absolutely nothing about her.. What should I get her.
* hey sweetii *
well first of since you dont know anythin about this girl i`m sure you see her around school or after games. I think you could get her a:
-giift card- (look at the clothes she wears go to the store and get a gift card)
-somethiin dealiin w soccer- (i`m not a big fan of soccer so ii wouldn`t know but just anythiin w soccer)
-poster|piictures|soccer teddy bears| lol stuff like that
well i hope that helped if not i`m sorri ii guess i`m bad wiith gift iideas sorri
*xO' 'sberii' 'Ox*
My friend keeps copying everything I do. Like getting contacts.. my sneakers.. classes. Stupid stuff like that. It just annoys me and I dont want her to get upset over it but it just gets on my nerves. How can I bring it up without hurting her or making it seem like I'm sick of her or something liek that ?
*hey sweetie*
I think you should just tell her shes brothering you. Shes your friend so she should understand n just tell her sometimes you need space and you need to do things you want to do and she needs to do what she wants to do. Also that she should be her own self and not always do what you do. But make sure when you do it, say it to her not in a note or email or somthing.Good luck hope I helped!
*xO 'sberii' Ox*
ok, I just recently dumped my bf of three months. I'm 13/f, and I felt really bad about dumping him. I had thought about it all the time. On the school bus he acted fine, but I could tell he was hurt. I also heard a nasty rumor about him. (it's soo gross) But I kind of dumped him for that, and feel so rude. So at the dance, he asked me to dance, I said sorry for dumping him. We danced, and it was awesome. We're back together again. So...
1. Did I make the right decision?
2. Should I believe the nasty rumor?
3. WILL SOMEONE HELP ME?
*hey sweetie*
I can help you, thats one question I answered lol n its up to you to beleive the rumor or not I think your better off just asking him n he could lie to you too but your better off asking him or forgetting about all of it now that your happy with him. Your other question the answer to that I dont knwo if you made the right decision or not, but since you say your happy with him and you felt bad when you werent with him, your happy so to me it would seem like you are happy with him! So I hope you stay happy n good luck with him!
*xO 'sberii' Ox*
My dad won't let me date till im 16. Im only 14 right now and I have a boyfriend, and i have guy friends. My boyfriend called me this afternoon, and my dad heard the message he left me. All it said was his name and phone number, but my dad got mad. Then a little later, one of my guy friends called, and dad got even more mad. He said im too young to have guys calling me.
How can I convince my dad that im just friends with these guys? I really want to keep my friends, but he doesnt want me to hang out with guys. What do I do?
*hey sweetie*
Your lucky! Some kids cant have boyfriends till their out of the house, or until their 18 or never! But I had the same problem, Im not saying what Ive beening doing n what I did was right but its just advice. My parents dont let me date either, my mom understands that its okay if a guy calls me but my dad doesnt. Their was no way convincing him that its okai to have guy friends! I couldnt have guys call me either but heres an idea, If your parents will let you get a cell phone get one so that way you can talk to anyone on it. One other idea which could be wrong but I still went out with guys n have guy friends I just call them. Last is you can try forever convincing your dad guys are just guys! Well good luck n I hope I helped you out!
*xO 'sberii' Ox*