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third wheel
I have the two bestest friends in the world.but they've known each other longer then they've known me.and I feel like the third wheel.should I tell them that they should include me more on things or not?help.
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I know who you feel evry time I am with a gorupe of 3 that happens. You should talk to them about that. If you don't it might just get worse. I would try to talk to them in private. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal:-)
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Tell them. I mean, they're your best friends, and just because they know eachother longer doesnt mean that you should be left out. Tell them to include you more. If they're that true of friends, they'll try their best to include you.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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yes you should! but maybe your not being included because you don't involve yourself in the conversations that they have! be more active invite them over your house or go to the movies and if that doesn't work then talk to them and tell them how you feel!! Happy Holidays
*BeSs*
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i had the same problem last year. I told them i dont think lenght matters ... of course htey both disagreed. Just confront them it worked for me.
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I would tell them and tell them you just want to be a 3rd wheel
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That is exactly how I feel sometimes! My two best friends have known each other since before preschool. I've known one of them for only 2 years, and the other I've known since 1st grade. They talk to each other when they sleep over, and kind of leave me out. Talk to them. That's what I did. If they are really your best friends they will talk to you whenever you need it. Hope I helped!
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i think you should talk to them.. if they dont listen to you, then you be the one to include yourself... invite both of them over for a sleep over... or maybe you can just invite one of them over so you can get to know eachother a little more without the other one trying to exclude you! just talk to them and i think theyll understand... hope i helped!
--lucky
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Why dont you try talking to them tell them that your feeling left out im in a 3 but once we all got over that we became really close
so just talk to them roxie xxxx
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hii sweetie
This was about the same thing that happened to me. I had 2 best friends in 7th grade, they got closer and left me out of stuff. I found myself a different best friend while hanging out with my two old best friends and now Im a sophomore and I love my new best friend shes always their for me!
My advice to you is to do what makes you happy if telling how you feel works then do it, they might understand, might not. If their real friends they understand.
True friends are hard to find but trust me theirs one out their for everyone!
Love always
.:s`berii:.
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Talk to them about it. And try hanging out with each of them separately, so they get to know you more! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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yes you should!
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I have had the exact same problem. Here's what I did: I just hung around with them forever-gained their trust and made them feel they were special. If this dosen't work, I would definetly tell them to include you more often.
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you tell them to make room for you honey
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I have two opinions about this. First, they were best friends before they met you, so they're gonna have a special bond, you can't prevent that. They're gonna wanna do stuff with just eachother, like the good old days, and you have to get used to it.
But on the other hand, all three of you are best friends now and everyone should be included because the latter explanation isn't really fair in this. You just have to think about which way you look at it, and decide on if you wanna break their special friendship or not. Sorry, I was really no help lol.
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yes, talk to them about it so they know how you feel. try to get more involved in what they do together. they may not even realize that you feel like they're third wheel.
hope i helped ya
~~STEF~~
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