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Q: how did u get music on ur site and the tree?
Check out some web sites. If you find a good song or picture copy it in the profile box under profile settings. There is a web site called www.starlightmks.com that is were I got the music. I hope that you page looks rocking after that. Sorry about the long wait. I hope I bring you joy.
Monkey

Q: well as you know.... iam asking you about friends. iam in grade 8 and i have lots of friends and i think demi linzey jennifer lily kim kelsi sammi and jordana are my best friends..but lately demi, linzey and jennifer have been kinda zoneing(i think thats how u spell it) me out. whats up with them??
Maybe your friends just want a break from you. Give them a little time to be togther. Try hanging with some other people and let them decide when to come back to you. All fails and talk to them about how you feel. Sorry if my advice fails but, I tried my best.
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Monkey

Q: a couple of weeks ago.. i got in trouble for having a picture trail.. and some of the captions.. but ne ways..earlier like in august.. i got in trouble with aim.. and i really want to earn my parents trust back.. how can i?? they wont let me have a cell phone b/c they can;t trust me.... but the thing is.. i didnt really get in trouble for that stuff.. i just lost their trust, and that fesls awful.. my question is .. how can i earn my parents trust back??
***i will rate HIGH***
Try do things infront of them. Like borrow something of your friends and infront of your parents say I promis I won't lose it. That way they might be in your room looking around to see if it is still there. Or try something will your parents like making a deal to get your phone back. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal:-)

Q: And its causing my legs to hurt in pain. Ive been exerising for two days at the same place. I cant walk properly without having some kind of balance, and I've crawled most of the time even up the stairs. My mom thinks I'm faking it just because I dont want to go exerising again. I dont, because the pain will only get worse. Is doing the same exerise helping me or hurting me?
I'm 15, and female.
I think that since you only have been exersing for 2 days that you bosy isn't used to that the more you do it the more your body will hurt less. I am sorry if I cann't help you. Wish you luck. Talk to me if you need more help.
-Monkeygal:-)

Q: Ok, well I heard this one person say "I think he was hitting up on me". What does 'hitting up' mean?? If it helps, the person who said it was a guy in high school, a junior I think. He might have been joking around or something like that though, because it kind of sounded like it, but I couldn't tell. Anyways, all I wanna know is what it means. I rate.
Httting up means they are tring to get your attention. In other words, he want to get your attention. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal:-)

Q: I have the two bestest friends in the world.but they've known each other longer then they've known me.and I feel like the third wheel.should I tell them that they should include me more on things or not?help.
I know who you feel evry time I am with a gorupe of 3 that happens. You should talk to them about that. If you don't it might just get worse. I would try to talk to them in private. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal:-)

Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 days now, and before that we were really close. Well, he's living with me now, and he's taking up the majority of my time. My parents are not okay with him staying here, and I'm grounded for them catching my boyfriend here a few times. So, I don't have much time for my friends, the only time I really have, is with my boyfriend, but that's only because he lives with me. I've tried talking to my friends, but it doesn't get anywhere. What should I do? Please help, I'll rate.
I think you should try talking to them again. If that doesn't work then maybe you should sent them a card saying how sorry you are. Also that you really want to hang aroung with them. Try talking to you boyfriends and say that you would like to have a day where you can hang with your friends. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal:-)

Q: my best friend likes me and he asked me if i want to go out.What should i say?
If you want to go out with him say yes that would be nice. If you don't then say YOu know I really like you as a friends but, I don't really want to go out with you. Then make sure he isn't to sad. WIsh you luck.
-Monkeygal

Q: ok...well i have limewire 4 my music downloadin and all that but i cant firgure out out to get all that music to where i can burn or how i can burn it off limewire...please help i rate! =)
I might not be a Limewire but, I have Itunes. Maybe you should try and download only the songs you like. Or if you have a Cd with that song burn it onto your computer. I am sorry if this dosen't help you but, this all I can think of. Don't forget that you can always talk to me for another advice you need. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal

Q: my friend didn't get a single thing for christmas what should i do? i feel so bad! so should i get something?
My question to you is is she upset about it? Maybe you could get her a small present that isn't very exspensive. Maybe like a pair of socks or some jewelry. I got all my closest friends each a pair of fuzzy socks. We each have a different animal. But, if shse isn't up-set about it I wouldn't try menshuning it to her. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal

Q: Im extremely tan just because of where i live. Is anybody else like that? But my face isnt as dark as my arms and legs and stomach and ect. its like it fades when it gets to my neck/face.. is it because i have my hair down so its harder for the sun?
I know how it is to be tan for a while. I go on a cruise every once and a while. Maybe you should try putting your hair up. (if you can) Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal

Q: Ok. i have a "friend" who knows who i like and is being evil about it even though he know that i like him! And, its not like i care but still- wut is up with that? I didnt do anything to her. I belive she needs an attitude adjustment. What should i say to her?
You should talk to her about it. Ask her to stop.

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