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Losing all my friends
I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 days now, and before that we were really close. Well, he's living with me now, and he's taking up the majority of my time. My parents are not okay with him staying here, and I'm grounded for them catching my boyfriend here a few times. So, I don't have much time for my friends, the only time I really have, is with my boyfriend, but that's only because he lives with me. I've tried talking to my friends, but it doesn't get anywhere. What should I do? Please help, I'll rate.
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I think you should try talking to them again. If that doesn't work then maybe you should sent them a card saying how sorry you are. Also that you really want to hang aroung with them. Try talking to you boyfriends and say that you would like to have a day where you can hang with your friends. Wish you luck.
-Monkeygal:-)
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ok... here it goes.. this boyfriend doesn't seem worth it to me.. well when it comes between me and friends. If you're not in good with your parents and your friends shun you over some guy.. then move one and tell him to move out because friends and family are more important.. unless. yall are hoplessly in love.. thats abother story. love matters too.. dont trust strangers.. trust your heart.
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how are you grounded for him living with you.. do they know.. and just split your time.. and call them as much as you can.. and invite them over.. just because you have a boyfriend doesnt mean you and your boyfriends cant hang out with your friends.. and sometimes make it a friends nite out and let ur man do his own thing!
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Maybe if you ask your boyfriend to ask one of his friends if he can ask one of his friends out with one of ur friends for a double date you can still hang out with your friends! If your boyfriend really likes you than ask him if you can go out for a girls night a couple days a week so you can have some breathing room but before you do that make sure he doesn't take it the wrong way because many guys seem to!!! And if ur friends aren't listening to you and they are not worth trying to get back then get new friends!
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tell him to move
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well, four days sounds like a little too soon for him to be living with you! i mean four days isn't even enough to get to know a person that well... however if you insist upon having him live with you, talk to your parents about it... and about your friends, try telling them that you're still committed to them and that you can be committed equally to him and them.
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I think that you should not be living with him since you've been going out for only four days. So I can see why your parents are mad and your friends might feel the same way. You need to keep talking to them, it helps with me, and after all, true love doesnt come like that, it takes a few years...
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Ive seen this happen all the time with people I know. Your lucky because you and your bf have only been goin out for 4 days..theres still time to save your friendship with your friends. You should tell them you dont want to lose them and you wanna have a night on the town with just the girls. The key is that you need to be consistant. You cant just hang out with them once and not hang out with them again for a month. Im sure you know all that already though. Balance things out between your friends and your bf and you`ll be extremely happy.
-melissa
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just tell you bf that you need a girls night out, he'll understand! and if for some reason he doesnt, then he's not worth your time!
hope i helped!
~Haley~
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I can understand about being with your boyfriend, espeically being that close. I say try to invite your friends over or plan for a girls night out. Talk to your parents about it too, explain to them if you out with your friends, you won't be around your boyfriend. I can't say it will work for sure but worth a shot.
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