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Member Since: December 23, 2004
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Last Update: December 23, 2004
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My best friend is pretty than me, more popular than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, just BETTER than me. And the thing is...I'm EXTREMELY jealous of her, to the point I get MAD at her when she gets more attention than me!! I mean I don't show it, but inside of me I wanna yell at her. I don't know whats the matter with me!! Today, my band teacher offered to my best friend that he would loan her the skill sax if I wanted to teach her how to play (the saxophone) so then she can join the band. I want her in band because it would be way FUNNER, but now I'm thinking I DONT want her in band. She'll be better than me, prettier than me, funner than me, and nobody will care about ME anymore! I'm so worried. But most of all I'm mad at MYSELF! I dont like getting mad and being jealous of leille but I can't help it!! Any tips on how to stop myself from getting jealous, then mad, at leille? (link)
You seem like to me like you have absolutely no selfestem or confidence in you so you probably need to work on finding yourself so that you can get away from supposidly miss perfect for a while and have something to show for yourself!

Best of Luck
If there are anymore questions feel free to email me back at dance4ever@charter.net!

Bye


My best friend and I dont ever hang out anymore. Her and I got in this really big fight back in November and we didnt speak to eachother for a few weeks. We both kind of brought our parents into our fight so now my mom doesnt like her and she never lets me go over to her house. Its like her and I are only friends in school and not outside of school. And sometimes in school she'll be with her other best friend who is a guy(my ex) and when she is with him, its like I dont exist to her. What do I do? It just seems like her and I have completly drifted apart. What can I do to make our friendship stornger.I havent really hung out with her or had a decent converstion with her in well over 3 months. When we talk on the phone she is always on her computer and I am wathing TV or listening to music and we dont even talk on the phone, we just sit there and it bothers the fuck out of me. We honestly can be on the phone for like 2 hrs and we will only have said maybe 5 mins of a conversation. PLease help me! (link)
Ask her if u and her could go somewhere or something like that if you really want to be her friend!


I'm 16 and I'd like to try out for the school musical, but I'm really nervous. what should I do to have a good audition? (link)
Key words: relax and practice!


Hi okay i just want some advice to know if my feels for this is normal because it's been like 6 weeks and i still cant get over it. alright i started a new school for my freshman year and back in october i got asked out by this guy that was in my class with me. we never really talked but we did talk and joke around and things...so finally out of the blue he asked me out and at the time i didnt really like him because i didnt know him but i thought to give it a try because you never know. so i did and i found out that i do like him alot. then there was problem because my friend is just always around me and he feels like the third wheel all the time and to make things short he broke up with me. it didnt really hit me at the point because i was just speechless but ever since then he's still always on my mind. we dont talk anymore either because i just feel really shy. but is it normal that he's still on my mind. i mean i try to forget about it and everything and move on but it seems like it's just haunting me...maybe is it because i didnt say anything to stop the break up? i'm really confused and i hope somebody can help. please and thank you. (link)
I would say search for some new guy if you can't get him off ur mind because if you don't get over it you might not find your true love in life because you are still not over himand don't want to get hurt! But after that if you still can't than comfront him and talk it over and maybe preswaid him into getting back together and tell him that you just can't get your mind off of him sense the breakup and if he doesn't get back together eith you then you should fell better about getting out there and meeting new guys and not be stuck on him for the rest of your life which I'm sure you won't

Best of Luck
If there are any more questions feel free to email me at dance4ever@charter.net

Bye!


I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 days now, and before that we were really close. Well, he's living with me now, and he's taking up the majority of my time. My parents are not okay with him staying here, and I'm grounded for them catching my boyfriend here a few times. So, I don't have much time for my friends, the only time I really have, is with my boyfriend, but that's only because he lives with me. I've tried talking to my friends, but it doesn't get anywhere. What should I do? Please help, I'll rate. (link)
Maybe if you ask your boyfriend to ask one of his friends if he can ask one of his friends out with one of ur friends for a double date you can still hang out with your friends! If your boyfriend really likes you than ask him if you can go out for a girls night a couple days a week so you can have some breathing room but before you do that make sure he doesn't take it the wrong way because many guys seem to!!! And if ur friends aren't listening to you and they are not worth trying to get back then get new friends!


What should i get my mom and dad for xmas? i dont have any money and i cant go out and buy anything so i was wondering if any of you have any ideas on what i could give them or make them? i hope you have some ideas because i only have 2 days! i will rate for effort! ill give you a five! (link)
get a job fast!


I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do? (link)
Truthfully you should really look into all three of them very seriously because htis is serious stuff which might change your future maybe once a month go to a different church in your community to see which one u like the best!
If there are anymore questions feel free to email me back at dance4ever@charter.net!





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