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He's always on my mind
Hi okay i just want some advice to know if my feels for this is normal because it's been like 6 weeks and i still cant get over it. alright i started a new school for my freshman year and back in october i got asked out by this guy that was in my class with me. we never really talked but we did talk and joke around and things...so finally out of the blue he asked me out and at the time i didnt really like him because i didnt know him but i thought to give it a try because you never know. so i did and i found out that i do like him alot. then there was problem because my friend is just always around me and he feels like the third wheel all the time and to make things short he broke up with me. it didnt really hit me at the point because i was just speechless but ever since then he's still always on my mind. we dont talk anymore either because i just feel really shy. but is it normal that he's still on my mind. i mean i try to forget about it and everything and move on but it seems like it's just haunting me...maybe is it because i didnt say anything to stop the break up? i'm really confused and i hope somebody can help. please and thank you.
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I would say search for some new guy if you can't get him off ur mind because if you don't get over it you might not find your true love in life because you are still not over himand don't want to get hurt! But after that if you still can't than comfront him and talk it over and maybe preswaid him into getting back together and tell him that you just can't get your mind off of him sense the breakup and if he doesn't get back together eith you then you should fell better about getting out there and meeting new guys and not be stuck on him for the rest of your life which I'm sure you won't
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awwww yeah its very normal for you to still have feelings for him. he didnt break up becuase of you he broke up with you because your friend wasn't giving you your space. and he felt left out you kno. start talking to him again and maybe you can start all over again and talk to your friend to and tell her or him that you need your space and to be with your boyfriend alone once in a while. and if you guyz are really good friends i kno they'll understand.
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Yes it is normal to feel this way. You could be feeling this way because as you said you didn't really say anything when he broke up with you so there was no closure and now its bothering you. It could also be because you still like this guy. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him your sorry things ended up the way they did but you can't get him off your mind now and you would really like to give things another try. Let him know you will talk to your friend about giving the 2 of you some space because you need personal time. She should understand that because you guys are growing up and your both gonna have boy friends and want some alone time. Maybe you could even suggest hooking her up with one of his friends that way you all still get to see eachother.
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Hey hun,
Aw, I know how you feel. You are probably a really shy person, I can tell. I think you should talk to him. Instant message might be good, since your shy. Since you didn't say anything to stop the break-up it could have meant to him that you were fine with it. IM him and tell him your not. You shouldn't have your friend always around when you guys are together. He feels left out and he probably felt like you don't care. If you don't talk to him, its going to bother you for the REST of the school year! I promise you...
Take a chance...
Good Luck :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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