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IDK WAHT TO DO
I have been best friends with someone for about a half of a year. Afer she hooked up with a new guy, after dumping her old bf, she has completly ditched me. We go to different skools, but she still called me every nite to tell me something or other. And now, she doesnt call me @ all and never returns my calls and evertime tat i get ahole of her, she always says got to go, and says call u back in 5 minutes, and never does. I dont know what to do because we havent been fighting or anything and everything was kewl last weekend. Could it be that i have been not home at all and she is jealous or something that i am hangin with other people?I am very upset though because she is my best friend and i tell her everything and now i have no one to tell all my stupid stories about skool. Please help me and fast, anyone that gives me advice in the next 1o minutes, i will give a 5!
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I know this sucks but it happens all the time, best friends drift apart because of a new boy friend or new friends. Maybe your friend is ditching you because she is all stuck on her new guy now or maybe she is pissed or bothered that you have new friends or maybe she doesn't even realize she is ditching you. You need to tell her how you feel. Tell her you feel like you are drifting apart and what can you do to make things feel right again. Good luck!
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Hey hunny,
She really isn't being a friend. She ditching you for a guy she probably barely even knows Talk about love crazed..lol. But What I would do, is forget about her for now. You have other friends right? Tell your stories to them. Or you could journal them, I have friends but I don't tell them everything, so I journal it. Spend time with your other friends. Do stuff together, like go to the movies, or go shopping. Get your mind off her. She will eventually call you. Which is probably around the time she is heartbroken or she ends the relationship. Now thats using people...BUT still be her friend. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is forgive. But you should show her the example of that. By not being mad at her. Even though you may be deep down. She does sound like she's jealous for you to be sharing your love life with her, and her's was just sinking like the titanic. So, now that she is happy, she feels like she really doesn't need you anymore. She will again...I promise :)
Good Luck
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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