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Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 days now, and before that we were really close. Well, he's living with me now, and he's taking up the majority of my time. My parents are not okay with him staying here, and I'm grounded for them catching my boyfriend here a few times. So, I don't have much time for my friends, the only time I really have, is with my boyfriend, but that's only because he lives with me. I've tried talking to my friends, but it doesn't get anywhere. What should I do? Please help, I'll rate.

I think that you should not be living with him since you've been going out for only four days. So I can see why your parents are mad and your friends might feel the same way. You need to keep talking to them, it helps with me, and after all, true love doesnt come like that, it takes a few years...

Q: I asked my mother what would be the appropriate age to start seeing a gynocologist. She told me that I don't need to see one for a while (I'm 14). I don't know what she meant by "a while". What would be a good age to start seeing a gynocologist? And, out of curiosity, can they really tell that you've had sex/been fingered/ etc? What is it like going to the gynocologist? I'm quite nervous about even going at all because I hear it's uncomfortable and painful. Can anyone fill me in on your experience and share your knowledge about this?

I'd say 16 is a good age. I dont' think that they can tell or not, but i'm not quite sure.

Q: What are good kinds of sraightners? Preferably under $50.00. Thanx in advance!!

The revlon white ceramic hair straightner. IT ROCKS!

Q: What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance!

Well, you should ask him what he wants to do. You can suggest stuff, like coloring, reading a book, watching a movie, baking cookies, playing campout or library or store or somethin.

Q: me and my boyfriend has been dating for a week now and he hasnt call me in 5 days. when we first started dating he got my number and dont have his, and we really hit it off good.and it is not like him to not call me, am so worried about him,because i like him alot,what should i do.

Maybe he lost it. Check the phone book and call him.

Q: First off, I am a girl, and I am dating another girl. Now on to the problem. Ive been dating Molly almost 11 months now. A few months ago, things got really rocky between us, so we took a short break, and things got alot better, and we didnt fight or anything. Now, about 2-3 weeks ago, she, just out of the blue, says she wants a break, a longer one, and when I asked why, she said she didn't know how she felt anymore. She says she is starting to fall out of love with me, and that she needed space so she could work it out. It was really hard for me, at first, but now I am getting better. Now the thing is, she is sending mixed signals. Sometimes it seems like things may be getting better, others, not so much. She even tells me that I can 'do stuff' with other girls, should I choose to (I dont want to) and then when I hang out with someone that something could potentialy happen with, I think she gets kinda jelouse (but I'm not sure if I am reading signals wrong). Now I have 2 questions: The whole doing stuff with other people. Is she testing me? Or possibly she wants to not feel so guilty if things dont work? And my second question is, How long should I wait for her? Our one year is January 20th. Im only 17, I have invested a year of my life into our relationship, I am not ready to give up yet. What can I do?

I agree with advice1300. And why the FUCK are you dating a girl when you are a girl? Thats just wrong. You need help.

Q: I'm not sure what to give my 1 year old child for breakfast. He is allergic to eggs and I don't think those baby jar foods of mixed cereal and oatmeal fill him up that much. Anyone have any ideas??

Try cheerios or ask his pediatrician.

Q: ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over two years now, and i always have trouble thinking of things to get him for his birthday/x-mas. his birthday is new years eve, so i need two things to get him. he's not the typical guy, like sweaters and cologne are not the type of things that he would like. i got him a wallet for graduation, picture frame last year, so none of that would work, and he already has a really nice watch. any, ANY ideas would be GREATLY appreciated...thanks a lot...i'll rate high!!

Make a scrapbook of all of your memories with him.

Q: I feel like such an idiot asking this, but how do you make out? I need help!! I'll rate you no matter what. PLEASE HELP ME!!

It's hard to explain. You just make-out. You'll know when you do it.

Q: what would u do if your girlfriend got u A)boxers b) shirt c) cologne or however spell it d) bear e) nothing

What would you do?

Q: 1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean

First, making out is kissing for a really long time, usually french kissing. Second, bi, short for bisexual, means that the person likes both sexes. Man and Woman. Like a girl might like guys and girls at the same time.

Q: well im 13 (white) and this 15 year old (black)..likes me and a lot i guess. i dont no what to do, im not racist but i dont want to hurt his feelings..ive never been in a situation like this b4..please help

If you like him, go out with him, if you don't want to, just keep being nice to him and be his friend. Tell him that you feel that you're aren't ready to have a boyfriend.

Q: Ok like i am 14 and i am a guy and i have had a crush on this one guy since 7th grade nd now i am really haveing serious feelings for him,he's in my grade also, and he gives me these weird signals. I really like this guy and wanna have a relationship with him.

Please Help

You should probably find out if he is gay first.

Q: I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please!

put babysitting fliers in people's mailboxes, and around town.

Q: my parents get mad at me whenever i say something about religion that doesnt agree with their views. they tell me im to young to have an opinion about that kind of stuff. and i do. and im not that good at communicating. so should i just tell them that i believe in god? even though i have doubts?

thanks.

Don't talk to them about it. Write in a journal.

Q: Hey every1,
I'm here to talk about my friend, Emma. We were eating lunch today and she started talking to me on how she thinks she's starting to loose her memory. She's 15 years old, and I know you loose your memory of old age and stuff...but she's 15 YRS OLD! Emma was telling me how she see's a friend of her's, but everytime she see's her friend, Emma can't remember her name. And Emma was telling me that it's not just that one girl...there's more ppl that she can't remember their names. Also she was telling me how she forgets what she did in the past week. She kinda remembers but it's hard for her to remember. Like she can remember what she did in 3 days ago, but a whole week she can't really remember. I asked Emma if she remembered what she did 2 weeks ago, and she couldn't remember. Is she really loosing her memory? Should we be worried? Is it really worth going to the doctor? Please answer me because I have NOO clue.
~missc~

She either wants attention, or just has a bad memory. It's not a big deal.

Q: i just went to the doctor because i was having this problem at night where i cant do anything but breathe (kinda long story)and the doctors said i have someting called absence seizures or something and they said i have to get a "brain scan" or "mri" done..whats an MRI?? i heard that its a big black thing, and im really scared..i feel really uncomfortable with the problem to and i hate it... i dont wanna go to the hospital and stick my head into something...this is really bad, and im 14 and STILL somewhat frightened of the dark!! does anyone know anything to help me?? someone just please say something anything will help! thanks

you can watch movies during it. You just lay flat in a tube for like 2 hours or something. It's not that bad, you could try sleeping or something.

Q: okay well i shave down there and it grows back really fast. like in a day! is that normal or what? is there anything i can do to prevent it? and i also get those big or tiny red bumps and sometimes the hair is not always completley gone! any tips please? the same thing happens when i tried waxin i got all bloddy and i tried nair and it got irritated and it looks like it still there! um and how much and where is the hair down there sposta grow cuz mine starts at like the usual and goes all the down (past my ass and it grows really far out) um, ew? yeah, whatever, thanks.

dont wax, for one thing. Shave once a day, if you're so worried.

Q: i need someone with expirence! what do you do when u get to second base and how do u do it, same with third! when they like "finger" you (ive never masturbated) what do you do? do you just lay down and they stick their hand down there? isnt that gross and do they expect all the hair to be shaved off?? is it sposta be dry or wet or what, please inform me of the process. =) i really need help and advice and how you do it nd stuff, thanks!