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Ok like i am 14 and i am a guy and i have had a crush on this one guy since 7th grade nd now i am really haveing serious feelings for him,he's in my grade also, and he gives me these weird signals. I really like this guy and wanna have a relationship with him.
Please Help
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hey i just say you call him and talk to him...try to start a flirty conversation. ask if he wants to hang out. it works for me
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WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU GAY FOR? Man, thats wrong. Im a man myself, and unless you go to a catholic school, or some queer-ass fag school, I suggest you DONT make a move on him,because if I were him, I'd NEVER associate with you again.
Thanks for considering my staright-forward advice, look to me in the future, with your problems.
-Tyler (a STRAIGHT man.)
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I think you should confront this guy if you know that he is also Homosexual like ypurself. If he knows you are Homosexual and is giving you singnals then he must me alos Gay. So go for it.
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try to stop being gay then...
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Do you know if he is attracted to males as well? This is a tough situation, because i know in my school, many are bias to gays. If you're pretty sure he's interested in you, confront him about it, and ask him. It'd be tough to find a partner at your age, so i'd go for it if you're confident enough ^^
Good luck!
Panda
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Dont let these emotions overcome the person you are. What kind of signals are you noticing? There is not much of a boundary between friendship signals and flirting signals not these days at least. All I know is that if you let it be completely clear that you like him either he will accept because he is gay as well or you will loose him as a friend because you misinterpreted these "signals". Just dont jump to conclusions. Ive seen it happen.
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Well I suggest you keep those signals for a while... see if he asks you out. Then after a while if he still doesn't ask you out cos he's shy (awww) well then tell your friends about it. See thou I love my friends.. well some of them would well give some hints to the guy I like make it more obvious. So that could help.
Another way would be try to get alone with him somehow- just make your friendship deeper by talking more or something. That could also trigger him to make a move.
Finally if that don't work you tell him you like him... either physical or verbally. I prefer physical much much more subtle just hug him too long or hold his hand. Or just eye contact all the time- even just a peck on the lips (by accident course)- or verbally. "im bored i wanna see a movie.. do you know of any?? would you like to come..."
Thats what Simon pulled on me- i was omg... anyway
Well good luck on it and he will probabley will turn out fine. GOOD LUCK
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You're too young to know what serious feelings are and you're not allowed to have a relationship before I get to.
Try to control your hormones and see if this boy feels the same way. If so, you can move to San Francisco and have your moms drive you to the mall where you can walk through abercrombie kids holding hands. If he doesn't feel the same way, it's going to hurt. But the good news is, you'll get over it. Chances are, next week you won't even remember his name. That is, if you're anything like the average gay man.
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Ask his friends for his e-mail or screen name.
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"Weird signals"?
We need more information if we're going to help. I liked someone for 5 years and got alot of mixed signals. It's just kind of guesswork, and the only way to know is to ask.
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You should probably find out if he is gay first.
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Have you tried talking to him about this? B/c if you haven't then maybe this is a good time to try. Hey he might have the same feelings for you!
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you should find out if he likes you or just tell him that you like him if he is giving you signals
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