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but last night i was messing around with my friend's bf. he's my friend too, and it wasn't anything sexual, it was just dancing kinda kinky...and these wierd stalker friends of hers told her (the girl with the bf) and i dont know if shes mad at me or not...i asked her, and she said she wasnt...but how can i know for sure? was what i did wrong? (link)
she told you if she was mad at her, you just need to believe her, no i dont think what you did was wrong


My dog just died today and I'm soooo sad! =( She didn't suffer, thank god, but I just can't get over it. She was the greatest dog, and I love her so much. What can I do to feel better?
Thanks (link)
Its just going to take time to get over it


I met this girl this year in school, and we became really good friends. We have alot in common and have so much fun together. The thing is, she has some bad qualities. She's very clingy and wants to hang out with me every weekend, all weekend. I have other friends that I haven't hung out with in months because I'm afraid she'll get offended, which she does very easily. Whenever I try to make plans with other friends, without her, she'll invite herself and say it's wrong I'm trying to leave her all alone. What am I supposed to say to her without sounding rude and making her feel offended? (link)
You should tell her what she is doing and how you feel about it but obviously you want to be friends with her but tell you that you need some space to hang out with other people but tell her that you still want to be friends


i have had my period for quite some time and never have gone throught this! i have used tampons before but today i had it in for two secionds and ir hurt so bad! i took it out and my uterus skin was all over it! it was so gross, i tried again later, and even more skin came off! my blood has been extremely dark lately and my uterus is coming off in strips and omg whatz wrong with me! (link)
You need to go to the doctor as soon as possible


Whenever I get $$ I spend it!! I can't help it, whenever I'm in town I see something I want and I spend it. I don't even need what I bought!! How can I save my money? (link)
give it to your parents to hold to or put in a bank account.i hope i helped


i starting to really like this guy and he likes my bestfriend but she doesnt like him at al. what should i do, should i just try to stop liking him? (link)
no you shouldnt stop likeing him, just have your best friend tell him that she doesnt like him and maybe have her talk to him about you or something


hey. i need 2 make some money! but the thing is im only uhhh 13... lol and i need some good ideas of wut to do for money! i live by a beach w/ not many houses and i live far away from the town. so i need help! thanx! (link)
you could ask your parents if there is something you could do for them to earn money, that what i use to


what r some cute hair styles that i could do with my hair, my hair is past shoulders and its curly and i dont know what to do with it. (link)
u can straigheten it or get mousse and make it really curly


im 15 i just had sex with my boyfriend and after we had it my whole body went numb and i was shakin is it nerves??? pleazz help (link)
your were nervous because it was your first time


ok is it weird for girls to bite guys lips? liek is it something guys usually to do girls? please help ill rate hi and if you guys have any other ideas please tell me if ur a girl plz tell me what you do when you're making out that guys seem to like and if you are a guy please tell me what girls can do to drive you crazy! (link)
its ok for the girl to bite the guy when i make out sometimes i nibble on the guys ear and they usually like that


My teacher put us in groups and she put me with all ppl i basically hate! and i don't think we'll get anything accomplished cuz none of like each other! what should i do? thanks! (link)
You need to tell your teacher that you dont get along with the people she put you in the group in and tell her that you think that nothing will be accomplished


ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again? (link)
You should tell him how you feel and do you even know if he really changed his mind. He could like someone else and like you too at the sametime. You should tell him how you feel and ask him the same.


I have a problem with my clothes. I don't mind the way I dress or anything...I just feel I need to change something..add more style to me. I usually wear jeans, skateboarding shoes, hoodies and fitted tees/layeredtees, what can I ADD to this to make my clothes more......exciting? Lots of tips would be great, and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what. (link)
you could do bright color tee's on top of other bright color tee's or try something that you usually dont ever wear like if u wear skaeboarding shoes wear heels or do ur hair or makeup a different way.


ok well there is this guy and his name is Josh..we have liked each other a lot for a while..and he asked me out and of course i said yes..well we went out for a day then he broke up with me and claimed that he didnt want a girlfriend right now. Well after that he stopped talking to me. And i do not know why he did this because we only went out for a day and it shouldn't be awkward at all really!! and i want to know..how do i get him to talk to me? because im not the type to go up and talk to him if he doesnt want to talk to me! people say he still likes me and he didnt break up with me cuz he didnt like me or ne thing..he just didnt want his relationship with me to end like his other g/f's did (they went out for 9 months and then never talked after) so how do i get him to talk to me? (link)
ok i know you said your not the type of person to just go up to talk to him, but if its bothering you, you should say something. Maybe he is thinking that you dont want to talk to him because he broke up with you. You should just ask him why he hasnt been talking to you


my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed (link)
TELL HER PARENTS or tell someone that is an adult that could help her


how do i tell someone that is cutting themselves that what they are doing is very dangerous, without a confrontation? (link)
if your worried about the person you shouldnt worry if they get mad at you because your trying to help them or tell an adult


Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?

Thnx in Advance! (link)
well ur not suppose to match your eyeshadow to yout outfit. so i say you should wear a gold shimmer or something im not very good at these kind of things.sorry!


ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening (link)
well it depends how long yall have been going out. if yall have been going out for like 3 weeks then yea yall are moving too fast but if yall have been going out for like 6 months then i dont think yall are moving too fast. yall just need to make sure that both of yall are ready for this and mature enough to handle it and know for a fact that both of yall wont regret it later


heyy my two friends get into a joking fight then my one friend always gets upset because the other friend says something that is rude and inapprite and then the friend whose feelings got hurt always tells me that she says this mean stuff i no the other friend doesnt mean to say this stuff but i dont no what to do can u please help me???? (link)
just tell them both the truth. tell the girl who's feelings are getting hurt to remember that they were just joking and that the other girl didnt mean it and tell the girl who is supposively mean stuff to kind of not say such bad things


i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this? (link)
yes you should tell him, and see what he says




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