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Need help fast!!!
ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening
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ok dude if you talked it through and as you said you were using protection go ahead and get'er dunnn!!!
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If you have been going out for a whil and are both ready then go for it! The best thing about this is that you are both in exactly the same situation, you don't have to live up to any expectations so make a really special time of it. Just make 100% sure you use protection!Daisy
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I think if you both are ready and love each other than you should do it. But if your under 15 then well.... thats a bit young. I think you too know what you are doing since you talked it through i think you are ready. Wear a condum don't risk it even if she is on the pill by the way. Good Luck.
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well it depends how long yall have been going out. if yall have been going out for like 3 weeks then yea yall are moving too fast but if yall have been going out for like 6 months then i dont think yall are moving too fast. yall just need to make sure that both of yall are ready for this and mature enough to handle it and know for a fact that both of yall wont regret it later
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Well I say don't do it.
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if your heart is in that idea..go with it..and if u love her and she loves you..you 2 wont regret it x33 aMaNda
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Im glad to hear that you are using protection, but no i dont think you are moving to fast and as long as its a mutual decision then it is fine. Try to make each other feel as comphy as possible.. because its going to prolly be wierd the first time but it will get better and youll get use to each other. Good luck!!!
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well.. this totally depends on how old u r lol.. well.. as long as you are ready for even the slightest posiblity of becoming a father.. go right ahead.. things can happen.. like the condom cud rip or sumthin.. just think of everything that could happen.. please dont think im gettin mad er ne thin but seriously.. if that condom rips.. both of your lives will be changed forever and theirs no turning back..but ya no.. most of the time it dont rip.. so u can.. its totally up to u lol*hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Pat on the back for you... For even thinking it through befor doing it. By thinking this much about it you have obviously considered all the risks encountered with such a big step. Question though for you what is love? Since you say you know what it is. And how old are you? Love is not defined by that googly feeling you have in your gut everytime your with that special person rather it is respect. Although I will say obviously you both respect eachother if you are talkin about this befor doing it. Just be careful.
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First of all, I kno you two love eachother, but loving eachother doesn't mean you have to have sex, true? Well, unless your 100% ready and sure and she's 100% ready and sure, then go ahead with it! Honestly I can't tell you how you should have sex, but your just get the hang of it once you do it! Just try not to be too hard the first time, because it's going to be painful for her (for every girl's first time)!! So good luck!
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It all depends on how long u 2 have been dating. i dont think it's moving too fast. I talked about having sex with one of my ex boyfriends that i LOVED very much. But we broke up for him to go with another girrl... but anyways... try it see what u think. Nothing is wrong with having sex. But be careful so the condomn doesnt break. Take it slow and easy. AND HAVE FUN!!!
Hope i helped...
Christine
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is this how you want your first time to be?? I would think that the first time would be becasue the love that you sahre..makes you feel almost like dying when you are not wiht them.
you both will remeber this day for teh rest of your lives. Make it special..amke it worth while..if there is any dobut..wait..for in the end..you only get..one first time..
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Well, I myself have been in this EXACT situation. Of course, I think that you need to consider the consequences. Obviously since you are both virgins, the risk of STD's is minor. But, think about it...not all protection is 100% guarenteed. You COULD get your girlfriend pregnant. And by the way...if you are THIS unsure...just wait, it's not your time. If you love this girl, you will think ahead and realize that this may be too soon. By the way, I don't know how old you are so I am just estimating, and being general with my answer. In the end this could be very stressful and lead to a break-up if feelings get hurt of expectations are not met. Be WISE!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
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