Hey!! My name is Brandy and i am 17 years old and a junior in high school! I thought that something like this would be a swell way to spend my time lol and since i have so much drama going on in my life .. why not help everyone else out with theirs? :)
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Miss_Megan
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well, i have been friends with this girl named bria for about like 5 years now. but now that we are in 9th grade she is gettting kinda anoying. like she will just walk up to me in the hall and be like "are you still my best friend?" and stuff like that. it is kinda embarressing. she isnt like "popular" and i am. she is also like giving me lectures about what i should wear and what i shouldnt. like one day i was wearing a trucker hat and she came up to me and riped it off my head...infront of everyone. what should i do...should i tell her how i feel or not...b/c i know if i tell her how i really feel she will be x-treamly pissed off or something like that. I NEED HELP!!!!
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-steph (link)
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I think you should def. tell her how you feel. I mean even if she does get pissed off.. if you dont tell her you will always feel this way about her. Maybe if you let her know how u feel you two can work things out and she wont be so annoying anymore. Sometimes you just need to get in a fight to make a friendship stronger and if that is what it takes to get her to act like a friend again then thats what you need to do. Hope I helped!
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When ever i go over to my bf house we always do stuff, so the last time i went i over there i didn't really want to do anything, so when we wen't on his bed i put my head on his chest. This worked for like 10 min then he got ontop of me, when he started touching me i said no, but he's like are you sure and blah so he would wait and then do it again, he just kept going and going. Anyways i know i should talk to him about it but i don't want to hurt his feelings or anything, i don't think he actually relized what he did. I know he doesn't want to force me to do anything but he is, how should i tell him without actually hurting his feelings or making him feel bad? (link)
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Well .. it all depends on how far you two have gone. I think really you need to tell him exactly how you feel and let him know that sometimes you're just not in the mood. lol i know it sounds kind of dumb but if he likes you he will understand and i dont think it will hurt his feelings. All girls just wana be held sometimes you know.. But then you cant expect him to want to do stuff with you when he is not in the mood (Just in case he is ever "not in the mood" even though guys always are) if you cant do it to his face try writing him a letter... You can always get things out better when you write them down! Let me know how everything goes and if you need anymore advice feel free to ask!
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people never ask me questions in my inbox. how do i get them to? (link)
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answer a lot of questions on your site and people will see it more and if you give good advice they will ask you questions. And maybe give your web adress out to all of your friends and such.
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I haven't seen my mother for 9 years, I'm 14. She's been on methampthetamines my entire life. I just got word today of where she is, I talked to her about 3 years ago. I need to go see her so that I can get over the fact that she will never be my mom. I just need some advice on what to say to her, and I really want to tell her to stop doing methampthetamines. I know that I won't be able to help her, but I just need some advice on how to deal with the fact that I will never have her as my mom, and that I will never be able to help her. I know it's hard to answer, but please, if anyone can help me. The pressure is too much, I'm seeing her this weekend. Please help me. I have no one else to turn to. (link)
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Tell her straight uo how you feel. Let her know how worried you are about her and you t hink she should get help. Dont attack her though be calm about it and what not but i think the only way you can try to help these emotions is to let her know EVERYTHING that you are feeling. I hoped i helped.. good luck and let me know how that goes.
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Yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend, I was only dating him for like a month and a weekish. & He kept saying Fuck this, I'm sick of you & hung up. He does it occasionally. So, I told him it was over. He was really upset and started crying. I'm so sick of him doing it, and I've told him. We've got into SO many fights lately, and I dont know why. I told him tonight when we talk I'll tell him if I wanna continue the relationship or just break it off. Also, he said if we break up he won't talk to me ever again, because he doesn't want to keep liking me, if we break up. What should I do?
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Do what makes you happy. Dont get back with this guy if he is going to just keep treating you the way he is. If you want to get with him you need to talk to him and let him know its gonna be and how you expect to be treated. Its not that much to ask to be treated good. If he likes you that much he will understand. Good Luck!
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i have a social (a big dance) coming up at the end of the year. does anyone have any good websites or stores that have nice dresses? (link)
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The Deb
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I really like this guy.. but when my friend asked him if he would ever ask me out.. he said no. He is a shy guy.. so maybe if i ask him out.. he might say yes.. the only t w i s t is..I am tooo scared to ask him.. so how do you ask out a guy? and i think that he doesnt like me.. so what should i do? (link)
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If he does not like you do not set your self up for dissapointment and ask him out. Become his friend and get to know him more maybe if you hang out more and open up to him things will change. But right now a friend is better than anything right? Hope I Helped!
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There's this boy that I've liked for over a year now. We stopped talking around May `04 because I lied to him. It was a long distance relationship btw. I lied to him about everything, besides my name age n stuff! I really loved him allot. He stopped talking to me, and hasn't been online which means he got his s/n changed. I have his cell number but it's always off, and I have his house number, I want to call him.. But I'm afraid I have no idea what to say, Cuz we haven't talked for a real long time cuz of what I did. What should I do? (link)
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Call him and tell him your sorry and be honest with him about everything. In time he will forgive you. You just might have to wait for a little.
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i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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Tell him how you feel let him know whats going on. Tell him you love him cause he makes you happy and treats you right. You usually dont know why you love someone.. you just do :) Hope I helped!
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i was going out with this guy for like a month and a half, one day he breaks up with me before school starts. second block my best freind/his best freind tells me she likes him and ask me if it would be ok if they went out. i sad yes and she said she wouldn't ask him out, an hour later i find out they are going out. I'm trying to be friends with them but it's difficult because he like wont really talk to me unless i talk to him (he is really outgoing and it's not like him) and now megan is getting mad at me cause people are aparently being mean to her. i sad i was sorry for that to both of them but neither of them are really talk to me anymore, i just don't know how to handle cause i havn't been handling it very well. (link)
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What i would do is just try to talk to the both of them and tell that that its hard to deal with it because its just wierd for you. But also let them know that you do not want to lose either one of them as a friend. But you have to relize that its prolly akward for him also so that is why he is prolly being so shy. He may not know what to say. DOnt worry things will get better and you will all become comphy again it just takes some time. Hope I helped!
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Ok well I played with my little sis today becuase she asked me to and reluctantly I was like ok. So I did and after a while I didn't wanna play anymore and so I told her and left and she got really mad. I told her I'd play tomorrow but she just gets mad and throws stuff and it happens everytime something like that happens. We always argue and I hate it becuase I'm always to one that gets blamed- which isn't always right. What should I do? Help fast. Thanks and I rate. (link)
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Try talking to your parents about it and explain to them what is goin on. I am sure they will understand if you are serious about the situation. Good luck!
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ok, last month i got my period and i know that at first its not on a regular schedule but like how many days off will it be from last month? (link)
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A week or two before or after the regualr time.
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me and my bf r going to have sex. im a virgin and he isnt. how much does it hurt? and what are all the ways u can get pregnant? thanks (link)
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It hurts when it first goes in but after that it feels good.. :) So dont be scared. You can get pregnant by not using a condom or a form of protection. Hope I helped..
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Heyy...Okay I don't know what to say to this boy, let's call him Cody. Well I thought I really liked Cody and he asked me out so I said yes, because of course I thought I really liked him and it would work. Well for the first few days it was cool and then we went shopping and he bought me something really expensive for Christmas but I didn't know what it was. After a while in school he seemed to be very clingy, obsessive and over protective of me. Also, people in school told me he pressured his girlfriends into a lot of stuff when they weren't ready! I got kind of scared because I didn't know what I was ready to do with him. Well for Christmas I opened his gift and he got me a diamond ring OMG! I flipped out...I mean yeah it was gorgeous and he spent $170 on it but seriously we were going out for a week or not even that and it was too much. It started to scare me a tinsy bit. I was thinking about dumping him, I mean I liked him but just not enough to be able to accept the ring without feeling strange. I was going to do it the day after Christmas. Well on Christmas he called me and was drunk and I just got really mad. Me and my friend planned something out so that it wouldn't be mean when I dumped him. I told him I got grounded because of my grades and also my grandmother died and I said it wasn't the best time to have a bf. Well I did that on Christmas and I feel really.... bad! I don't know what to do I think I hurt him...it's just I don't want to date him anymore....Anyone know how to deal with this? (link)
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Dont worry about hurting him i mean sure youre gonna feel bad but he obviously wanted more in a relationship then you wanted to give him. He sounded like he would get annoying anways by how possive he was and belive me it dont get better. So you did the right thing.
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Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice? (link)
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Just stay out of it.. he will eventually find out.. he needs to be hurt a few times in his life.. everyone does and hey maybe by them breaking up he will relize he still has feelings for you. Basically just ignore that he has a new g/f right now and try to have fun.. if it was meant to be it will happen. :)
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My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else. (link)
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Well it seems like you both want to be with each other and you obviously like one another so i think that you should still see him. you no what they say if you love someone let them go and if they come back it was meant to be.. You are doing the right thing by taking it slow because you need to build up a strong relationship and trust before you can get serious again. Hope i helped and good luck!
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how do you know if your guy wants to just kiss, or if he wants to makeout? obviously if he gives you tongue, but how can you tell ahead f time? (link)
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You cant really tell.. just go with the flow and follow his lead.. or if you want you can lead lol :)
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What is the point in people fingering? I mean is it just for sexy feelings or what? (link)
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It feels good for girls and if you are doing it before you have sex it makes the girl more loose and its easier for the guy to get it in..
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me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?! (link)
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No it would be fine to lose it with him. If you want to it shouldnt matter if he has had sex before. Have fun :)
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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
x3 confused (link)
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Dear Confused... I think that you need to spend time with your friends. I mean friends are always there and there is always a chance that a boyfriend will not. If not you can do something with your friends and him and try to make everyone happy. If you spend all of your time with your boyfriend you will get tired of him. Just tell him that he does not have a reason to not trust you and you just want to spend some time with your friends. He shouldnt get mad unless you do soemthing wrong. I hope I helped a little, and good luck with everything. :)
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