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well, i have been friends with this girl named bria for about like 5 years now. but now that we are in 9th grade she is gettting kinda anoying. like she will just walk up to me in the hall and be like "are you still my best friend?" and stuff like that. it is kinda embarressing. she isnt like "popular" and i am. she is also like giving me lectures about what i should wear and what i shouldnt. like one day i was wearing a trucker hat and she came up to me and riped it off my head...infront of everyone. what should i do...should i tell her how i feel or not...b/c i know if i tell her how i really feel she will be x-treamly pissed off or something like that. I NEED HELP!!!!
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-steph
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ok first.. the whole "o, I'm popular and too cool for my friend thing." sounds really really bitchy and superficial. I know I have lost SO many friends because I wasn't cool enough and you have no idea how much that can hurt someone. And the trucker hat thing.. dude, preps ruined it. Seriously... just like they are ruining converse.. -_-
but anyway, you've been her friend for five years.. FIVE YEARS.. are you really ok with dropping it because she is concerned about your friendship, and is afraid of losing you? Console her that you are still her friend, like, go to the mall with her, go do something because I'm sure that if you guys have made it this long then she won't be much different. You should tell her how you feel if you still feel that way after because she obviously cares and it would probably crush her if you decided that she wasn't good enough to be your friend anymore.
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I think you should def. tell her how you feel. I mean even if she does get pissed off.. if you dont tell her you will always feel this way about her. Maybe if you let her know how u feel you two can work things out and she wont be so annoying anymore. Sometimes you just need to get in a fight to make a friendship stronger and if that is what it takes to get her to act like a friend again then thats what you need to do. Hope I helped!
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If I were, tell her. Talk to her. If you don't, then you're going to have your whole high school career with her doing all this to you. Be honest but not mean. Just tell her that you don't really appreciate her lecturing you or ripping a hat off your head! I mean if I were ou, I would've yelled at her by now if she just took that hat right off of my head (but that's just me and I'm really..blunt!(= )
♥ Always,
Maria
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