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I need different opinions on this
My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else.
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Just make sure you DO take it slow and make sure he's out of his bad-boy life. That could ruin your life if thats still what he's into. Other than those two-precautions you should try it. If you feel like your going in way over your head you can leave. Remember it's your life with your choices, take care of it. ~*AmAnDa*~
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If you both like each other and feel it is right... go for it. Just make sure you knwo what you are getting into. It seems like you really want to be with him and he really wants to get back together with you. Like you said..take it slow
hope i helped
sam
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everyone deserves a second try but remeber this ful me once its all right ful me twice thats ok ful me three time im the ful
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give it a chance is all i have to say. if he went through the time and trouble to see and talk to you, at least consider it. he can't be that bad of a guy if he strongly wants to be with you. sometimes you need to put things from the past behind you because he could have changed for the better, unless if something really bad happened to you in the past. if you feel that fate is bringing you together, then that very well could be. go out with him, maybe give him a chance, but watch what you do with him. don't have sex or anything with him to make sure he really wants to be with you despite all of those things.
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Well the same thing happened to me with my ex. We broke up about 3 times and kept going back. But you also must know when its time for a relationship to end, because very few relationships last forever. I believe you should think about yourself first. Ask yourself:
1. Does he contribute good things to my life?
2. Is he someone I should be hanging around with?
Just think about the pros and cons and what would be best for you. Good luck.
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If you feel that you love him enough to want to try again then go for it. Everyone deserves a second chance.
Like you I am still in love with my ex and him with me. Unfortunately we are in a situation where we cannot be together, for fear of losing our families if we did.
The advice I give you is to take it a day at a time, and appreciate what you have every day for if you truly are meant to be together then follow your heart - if it feels right then 99% of the time it is.
As a Alfred Lord Tennyson once said - Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
Take Care!
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Yeah.. I would defintly try it again!!-trix (plz rate)
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deffinitaly give him a chance! my ex bf was like that and we worked out for 2 years! i say you should give it a try! good luck!
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well there is a reason you arent going out with him now...i dont like this guy he sounds like he just wants to have sex with you and blow you off, so dont give him a second try...
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i think you should give him another chance. apparently, fate is bringing ya'll together. and about his past, forget it. start a new chapter in ya'lls life and see if that works. im pretty sure it will!!! and its good that ya'll are taking things slow right now, instead of speeding into things. and if you still have feelings for him, dont second doubt them. try to get back with him! but like you said and i said, take things slow so that way you won't do anything you regret (and im not saying that you will!)
~*Sarah*~
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I think it matters what you think, If you still love him and you think its going to work out thats all that matters. Your best bet is to try it out and see if he's the guy you want to be with for a while and if he is then thats great and if hes not then well you should break up with him and you guys can be friends and maybe it will work later on when u get older :D <3 American Girl
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well, if you want an opinion...then i think that you should give it another try, even if he has a history of being bad, its not supposed to matter if you really think that fate is what brought you two together. i think you should definately go for it. take it from me...i had the chance once..but i was dumb enough not to take it, and trust me, you should. :/
go with what your heart tells you.
~sammie~
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i think you should go out with him again. he seems like he really loves you. give him another chance! see what happens and then decide what to do next.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Try explaining everything about how u feel about him and how you dont want things to happen. If you think fate is brining you together then hey! give it a go
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Well it seems like you both want to be with each other and you obviously like one another so i think that you should still see him. you no what they say if you love someone let them go and if they come back it was meant to be.. You are doing the right thing by taking it slow because you need to build up a strong relationship and trust before you can get serious again. Hope i helped and good luck!
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