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1st times...


Question Posted Monday December 27 2004, 9:44 pm

me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?!

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:18 am:
If you two truly have feelings for each other,and both want to and are ready to do this,it wouldn't be weird at all.So long as you are safe and take all the necessary precautions,and you're positive that you are mentally,emotionally,as well as physically ready for this,and he is the right guy..I don't see any weirdness. Be safe!! Hope this helps you out a little! :)

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snowwalker69 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:20 pm:
i wouldn't think it was weird. He was your first love. But it might bring up old feeling

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:49 pm:
Well.. your kinda young but i wouldnt say no it wouldnt be bad.. not if you both love eachother and make sure you wont regret it-trix ((plz rate))

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CoKeIzZle answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:02 pm:
hey hun, i dnt think think it would be weird at all!if you guysz loved eachother and if you still love him i say not at all!hope i helped xoxo NiCoLe

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Advice_x33 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 7:08 pm:
no..i think it would be ok if you lost it with him

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*ashlee* answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:30 pm:
we cant tell you if thats wierd. its up to you wether its wierd or not. you either love him and want to lose it to him or you dont know. and if you dont know then dont do it. follow your heart

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2GreenFrogs321 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:23 pm:
Well, no. Not if you guys still have these strong feelings for each other. But I wouldn't suggest have sex until you guys get back together. Unless you guys don't want to ruin ne thing, u kno.. ~*~ LOL<-- LOTS OF LUV Alyssa ~*~

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br0ken_x_smile answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:46 am:
if he was your true love and you really like him , then nopee =)
xo jessie

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kissmebiach answered Monday December 27 2004, 11:48 pm:
no...why would it be weird you cvare about him then losse it to him its pretty simple..he wanted some and you wernt there now you are...so give it to him b/c u kno u want to

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icey0990 answered Monday December 27 2004, 11:14 pm:
It depends on your morals. If you only want to lose your virginity to a virgin, then it would be weird. But if it doesnt matter to you, then it shouldnt be all that weird.So it really depends on your values. Dont do it if you think it will be weird..1st times are supposed to be special :)
-melissa

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BrokenHeartedLoser answered Monday December 27 2004, 11:10 pm:
I dont think it would be weird if you lost your virinity to him..but i do think that if he really truly loved you he would never of did it with that other girl..Boys will say anything to get in your pants..and i learned that the hard way..they will tell you how much they love you but they dont mean it..but if you guys have been going out for a year then your relationship must be strong..im not not saying you shouldnt do it im just saying before you give up something of yours that can never be replaced think if it is worth it. xOx Tory <3

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MiSz_LaDii_L answered Monday December 27 2004, 11:08 pm:
if u feel its right to lose it to him then its shouldnt matter whether he had sex before...just make sure he cares the same way you care about...b/c in the end you dont wanna regret what u did wit him..feel me? hope i've helped

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NotoriousBaby06 answered Monday December 27 2004, 10:33 pm:
No it would be fine to lose it with him. If you want to it shouldnt matter if he has had sex before. Have fun :)

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