me and my bf r going to have sex. im a virgin and he isnt. how much does it hurt? and what are all the ways u can get pregnant? thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:41 pm: Okay, just so you know, if any of his ejaculate gets anywhere near your vaginal opening, you can get pregnant. This is why everyone says "USE CONDOMS!" Plus, unprotected sex is just messy. As far as how much it hurts, it totally depends on how small you are and how big he is. If he's big, it's probably going to hurt a lot. In my case, it actually hurt the first three times I did it. In my mom's case, though, she said it didn't hurt at all. I mean, if you use tampons or finger yourself, you're probably going to be a little more stretched out, which is better. Just be ready for pain. That way, if it doesn't hurt, it's a pleasent surprise. Lol. In most cases, the first time a girl has sex, she won't have an orgasm, I've heard. I've also heard that it's usually a little awkward the first time, and/or uncomfortable. The more you do it, the more you get used to it/the more you start to like it. Because I'm morally obligated...CONDOM! Lol I hope this helps! -Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:21 pm: it depends, for some girls it hurts alot and for others it hurts only a little bit. it hurts the most when he first goes in but after that its fine. and you can get pregnant by not using protection.
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snowwalker69 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:01 pm: Hey. It hurts a lot. It hurts the most when it first goes in, and it just a very fierce stinging. After he starts moving around a bit the pain goes a way a bit. And you can get pregnant by actual sex, or if he pulls out and sperm lands on the outside of your area. Also, precum contains sperm [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
irresistibleqt68 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:00 pm: I actually had sex for the first time with my bf a few days ago. It was my first time too. Def. use a condom or some type of birth control method. You lower your chances of getting pregnant by doing this but it wont give you a 100% chance of not becoming pregnant. I think the percent chance with a condom is 97% which is one of the best forms. With the whole hurting part. When I went though it, the first few seconds hurt like hell. I was gonna cry actually. But after a few seconds, it gets better, and the pain is mostly just the first time. Different girls hurt more or less. Some bleed but that all depends too. Good luck with everything. Just be safe and make sure you know hes the one you want to give it away too. hope I helped. Lauren<333 [ irresistibleqt68's advice column | Ask irresistibleqt68 A Question ]
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:49 pm: You can get pregent any time he goes in you, but make sure he has something on and stuff just be safe about it, i know your situtuation it dependson the girl with how much it hurts or not.. some girls its like a killer and other its hurts but not like to the point where its like that painful... it;s just a different feeling thats all... also depends on the guy haha! but yah hope i helped you ! [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
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