Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:17 pm
Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice?
Additional info, added Wednesday December 29 2004, 2:40 am: did i mention i love him? lol. everything about him makes me smile, i feel safe around him. just thought i would add it in. hes thall1491. >>
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vickiooos answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:50 pm: talk to him about it. and be like we've been freinds for a long time now and you have to know that when i'm telling you this, it's in your best interest.. but this girl doesn't really like you (and then give evidence or facts) haha i sound like my english teacher.. lol. just flat out tell him and if he gets mad at you then you can't help it but eventually he'll come to his senses. think about it, right now he may be hurt or mad but in the long run he'll be ok right? so go for it! [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
BeFABULOUSxo answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:58 pm: okay wut u should do.. is catch her flirting with someone else or tell him ur feelings for him and be like "yea i really like you, i like you enough for you not to get hurt.. but i heard that ____ doesnt really like you as much as you like her.. i really dont want you to be mad at me i just had to tell you" *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!* [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
americangirl101 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:47 am: Well if he doesnt like her and break up with him u have the chance to make him feel better and maybe he'll ask you out :D and talk to him about this girl if he says o ur just sayin that well he'll have to lear the hard way. <3 American Girl [ americangirl101's advice column | Ask americangirl101 A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:07 am: be honest with him, tell him how you feel about him and he would probably break it off with her or MAYBE he would tell his gf about how you feel about him, and then his girlfriend would break up with him and you guys will get backtogether! well just tell him how you feel about him and things should pretty much work out for the best! good luck! x0 [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
xSammieXlubsXux answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:07 pm: i really want you tell him how you feel..
it can be that simple if you want it that way.
if he still has feelings for you then i think that you wouldnt have to worry about telling him about that girl not liking him. he'll find out on his own.
xLil_Swt_Heart13 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:06 pm: I think you should really tell his bestfriend and ask his bestfriend to ask her so then maybe, his bestfriend will point it out to him.cause it isnt right for him to get hurt so yea thats what i think. [ xLil_Swt_Heart13's advice column | Ask xLil_Swt_Heart13 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:03 pm: you should tell him about it because then you have a better chance of going out with him again. also no one deserves to be led on like that. its just not fair to anyone.
hope i helped!
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NotoriousBaby06 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:55 pm: Just stay out of it.. he will eventually find out.. he needs to be hurt a few times in his life.. everyone does and hey maybe by them breaking up he will relize he still has feelings for you. Basically just ignore that he has a new g/f right now and try to have fun.. if it was meant to be it will happen. :) [ NotoriousBaby06's advice column | Ask NotoriousBaby06 A Question ]
sshelbyy answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:51 pm: I think you should stay out of it because how would he know you werent lying to him, and do you really have proof? Just be ready to help him feel better when he DOES get hurt. [ sshelbyy's advice column | Ask sshelbyy A Question ]
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