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not sure what to do
When ever i go over to my bf house we always do stuff, so the last time i went i over there i didn't really want to do anything, so when we wen't on his bed i put my head on his chest. This worked for like 10 min then he got ontop of me, when he started touching me i said no, but he's like are you sure and blah so he would wait and then do it again, he just kept going and going. Anyways i know i should talk to him about it but i don't want to hurt his feelings or anything, i don't think he actually relized what he did. I know he doesn't want to force me to do anything but he is, how should i tell him without actually hurting his feelings or making him feel bad?
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Well, there isnt ever really a way to tell someone something without making them feel bad, espacially about something like this, understand? just tell him that you dont mean to sound mean or rude but that you have to tell him what he is doing to you. i mean, if you dont speak up about it soon then he will keep on doing what he's doing, No means NO and that's what he couldnt understand. just talk to him in a relaxed manner...like, not so upset.
tell him how you feel, and if he likes you then he would understand and he would talk to you about it without hesitation.
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Well .. it all depends on how far you two have gone. I think really you need to tell him exactly how you feel and let him know that sometimes you're just not in the mood. lol i know it sounds kind of dumb but if he likes you he will understand and i dont think it will hurt his feelings. All girls just wana be held sometimes you know.. But then you cant expect him to want to do stuff with you when he is not in the mood (Just in case he is ever "not in the mood" even though guys always are) if you cant do it to his face try writing him a letter... You can always get things out better when you write them down! Let me know how everything goes and if you need anymore advice feel free to ask!
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