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friends ..bf ?
i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
x3 confused
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Ive had a friend before that was starting to get controlled by her boyfriend. She would ditch me ALL the time and then it didnt help (he already didnt like me). Even when THEY weren't going to hang out she would say she couldn't and i would see her online @ home. I finally told her after they broke up how i was feeling and even her own mother was telling her he got controlling and after about a month she said he was one HUGE mistake cuz she had lost her best friends for awhile after. Try telling him examples of ppl you don't like him hanging out with and he'll understand... HOPFULLY! hope i helped! Good Luck!
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Pfft.. let him go. My god.. he sounds controlling.. thats not right. You need someone that'll let you hang out with your friends and not him 24/7 you dont wanna be a lockup. He sounds controlling. I wouldnt want a boyfriend like that. That can be hard if you ask me so I would just let him know that you guys need to take a break or he needs to lighten up a bit and let you hang out with your friends more often. Its either you with your friends and him being nicer or not. Its his decision-trix (plz rate)
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THERES NO REALTIONSHIP IF THERES NO TRUST!!< - - -if my bf didnt let me hang out wif my friend i wuld feel whooped!
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Well, as sad as it sounds, you really gotta choose betweent your friends and your boyfriend, unless you can hang out with your friends and your boyfriend at the same time. If you really want things to work with both of them, then you should figure this one out by yourself. Good luck with this one, Hope I helped. -Angel
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dump his ass. wat a freak. ur friends are way more important then his lame ass. dump him..move on..find someone better.
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he started crying? thats kool. if he really loves you he'll let u hang with your friends. tell him that you need to hang out with your friends and if he dosn't understand then hes not good enough 4 u.
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No offense or anything but if he is trying to seperate you and your friends then maybe you guys shouldnt be together. I mean if he knows they make you happy then he shouldnt be so uptight about it. I hope I help!
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I think you need to scare him a little bit..if he honostly doesnt want to loose you then you tell him that either he starts to trust you or you two are over..love is all about trust and if there is no trust then there is no love. xOx Tory <3
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fuck him. thats just fucked up. you should be able to have friends and a boy friend. if he cant accept the fact you have more to your life then just him then he isnt worth your time.and turst me it isnt turue love.
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Ok first of all you are 14....u need to spend time with your friends. Boys are going to come and go. You need to keep your friends casue they will be there long after the boys are gone, that is what your dad is trying to tell you only he is doing it in a diffrent way. As far as dealin with your bf he needs to be able to except it and if he doesn't then maybe its time to get rid of him but only as a last resort. He has to let you live your life, he can't keep you bottled up cause that is not fair to you.
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Dear Confused... I think that you need to spend time with your friends. I mean friends are always there and there is always a chance that a boyfriend will not. If not you can do something with your friends and him and try to make everyone happy. If you spend all of your time with your boyfriend you will get tired of him. Just tell him that he does not have a reason to not trust you and you just want to spend some time with your friends. He shouldnt get mad unless you do soemthing wrong. I hope I helped a little, and good luck with everything. :)
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